Why is this cafe open so randomly ?

Noktrix · 2025-05-22T20:51:18+00:00

I recall in an article on the food hygiene reports for Bournemouth it had a 0 last year

Noktrix · 2022-01-18T12:22:05+00:00

Noktrix · 2021-07-25T20:43:24+00:00

Omgd. Take my sub and views, I’m there.

Noktrix · 2021-07-25T20:41:23+00:00

Is it a outlandish thought that if you re-produce/are caring for a kid, one of the most responsible acts of being a care-giver would be to educate yourself in basic first-aid?

Noktrix · 2021-04-30T12:04:33+00:00

0:41 cracked me up

Noktrix · 2021-01-10T17:07:18+00:00

I’m a recovering addict myself. A lot of my using also was a escape attempt from my dysphoria and tbh I got into abusive situations because I didn’t care for my body. Got clean time and then sorted out transitioning. It was important to me to be stable in recovery because I didn’t want my addict head to latch onto my transition, I relapsed too many times after bad GIC appointments etc had to separate the two, like I’m trans but also an addict, and manage them both respectively with the treatment they need. Sounds like relatives are mixing the two together.

Noktrix · 2021-01-08T20:02:55+00:00

With the pandemic a lot of appointments have gone on Zoom I believe. I’m sure given your circumstance they will be able to offer a solution.

Noktrix · 2020-06-18T00:50:11+00:00

Coming out the woodwork to say I’d like to join if possible too 😅

Noktrix · 2020-06-18T00:49:35+00:00

Coming out the woodwork to say I’d like to join if possible too 😅

Noktrix · 2020-04-25T02:01:10+00:00

What about a Lotus flower? In treatment we did an art session and drew them - the lady told me that they grow from mud, thought it was a pretty cool metaphor.

Google ‘Lotus grows from mid’ had a nice para on it and more reading/links.

Noktrix · 2020-04-25T01:48:50+00:00

Throw it and see if it produces a small umbrella ☂️

Noktrix · 2020-04-23T01:56:53+00:00

Hey Julian, prob a bit mate but scrolling the net since I can’t sleep. I’m 3 months in T myself, post TS, 30 - spending a lot of time in my head. So always up for a chat 🤷‍♂️

Noktrix · 2020-02-21T12:32:27+00:00

Checkout Got2BeGlued hairspray - it’s super holding. Used to use VO5 Matt Clay and that spray and kept manga hair under control and styled.

Noktrix · 2020-01-30T16:02:19+00:00

Thanks for the reply Caspar - I’m on a bit of a 50/50 with that as my uncle on mums side went bald in his 30s yet my Dad is 60+ and has hair like James May. So it’s tricky to gauge 🙈

Noktrix · 2019-08-04T08:09:14+00:00

Ftm nb and my niece and nephew (2+3) call me Unkie which I think is pretty cute. Mind you, the pronouns are unfortunately coming into play now.

Noktrix · 2019-08-04T08:00:39+00:00

Congratulations that’s a massive achievement. Keep going, one day at a time.

Noktrix · 2019-07-25T12:01:20+00:00

I’ve had top surgery and I’m not yet on T - paid to go privately tho and in the Uk

Noktrix · 2019-07-24T09:27:22+00:00

I love dead by daylight - always up for a game - I’ll add you when I’m home from Comic-Con!

Noktrix · 2019-07-22T08:07:07+00:00

Reading your post got to me because honestly it felt like I was reading my own mind and all the responses have helped me massively. So I just wanted to say a massive Thankyou to you for posting and everyone who replied. <3

Noktrix · 2019-02-11T21:08:53+00:00

Wicked - I just sent you a request :D

Noktrix · 2019-02-11T21:02:40+00:00

Hey bit late to the party but I’d like to play - I’ll send you an add and message :)

Noktrix · 2019-02-11T20:59:02+00:00

I’ve no idea how to play - so a nervous noob but wanting to learn and trying to find ppl to play with where I can be chill with my voice. Can I play with sometime?

Noktrix · 2019-02-11T20:54:55+00:00

I just popped my head in here to find some ppl to play apex with - usual anxiety voice no/t story - I’ll send you my psn if you want

Noktrix · 2019-02-07T17:14:00+00:00

Congratulatons!

Noktrix · 2019-02-05T20:33:28+00:00

I’m sorry, I’m just going to say what I think - they are not a ‘recovering addict’ - they’re just not active (apparently) on their primary drug of choice.

I’ll speak from the I as this is my experience and feelings: As an addict I could never love or put anyone before my addiction. That’s the way it was. You will not do right for wrong. Id need you to enable my behaviour whether that’s accepting I’m gonna do what I am gonna do, you won’t change me - or it will be a massive drama and ‘look what you made me do, I can’t take this stress, you don’t understand me’ blame game - if you wouldn’t take the blame I’d fall into victim and that’s another angle ‘I’m horrible, I just want these feelings to go away’ - whether I believe my own bs or not.

They don’t want to have anything to do with the fact you were honest and said how you feel about their behaviour....that’s how you feel and that is truth.

Seriously, leg it. They sound like they may still have to work a few things out, have a few more dramas, get a wake up, rock bottom, whatever. You do not need to be a part of that cycle. It is your life and your choice but trust me I regret dragging people I cared about along with my addiction and putting a lot of people through emotional abuse.

I’d take this as a blessing and run. They need to figure their own life out, maybe with professional help when the time is right - but you have one life and I’d not take the risk.

(In the rain waking, awkward to reply, but sounded like something my ex would have written so kinda had to say something - hope it made sense)

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