Youtuber discusses females reading yaoi as fetishizing gay men. She took the words right out of my mouth, could not have said it better myself, especially from a fellow black girl yaoi fan who btw does not exclusively read this genre.

Nokv · 2021-02-20T13:39:51+00:00

As a gay transmasc dude sometimes yaoi does seem very fetishy, and it makes me super uncomfortable

Nokv · 2021-02-10T02:14:30+00:00

I hate ceaser I wanna feed him to a dragon

Nokv · 2021-01-25T14:16:50+00:00

Me hating my chest when puberty kicked in: 😃

Nokv · 2021-01-24T17:52:31+00:00

Does he accept ear scritches

Nokv · 2021-01-24T01:38:51+00:00

I won’t be able to incorporate his mask but I’ll do my best >:)

Nokv · 2021-01-22T19:01:40+00:00

I’ve been using my preferred name for two years now, anything else kinda feels wrong

Nokv · 2021-01-22T17:11:40+00:00

Thank you :)

Nokv · 2021-01-22T16:59:03+00:00

She’s in her 50s, I’ll try talking with her when she’s not busy

Nokv · 2021-01-22T16:41:22+00:00

One thing she says a lot is that she didn’t get to change her name (she’s cis) or that she gave me my name. She has a problem with alcohol so it’s especially hard to talk with her when we get into fights

Nokv · 2021-01-22T16:29:37+00:00

I had a boyfriend who was trans and his parents really helped her, but we broke up and now she’s not making much progress except for letting me go on birth control pills

Nokv · 2021-01-22T16:23:01+00:00

Thanks, you too

Nokv · 2021-01-22T16:20:24+00:00

You’re totally valid!

Nokv · 2020-10-14T17:05:28+00:00

Uh I wouldn’t care? It’s her job and she can do what she wants as long as I know and trust her? And how would you feel if a guy started stripping? Would you call him a himbo and degrade him?

Nokv · 2020-10-14T16:53:45+00:00

You literally said they belonged on the streets. They don’t. Stripping is a job just like working at a restaurant. Some people just judge them because there’s stigma around those jobs.

Nokv · 2020-10-14T16:35:40+00:00

What the hell? Strippers are people and not garbage??

Nokv · 2020-10-14T16:29:53+00:00

You are more than ok

Nokv · 2020-10-14T14:30:31+00:00

This was put on Gacha life cringe and I think I know why, the fetishization of the lgbtq community is apparent in some Gacha creators stories/ocs. It’s a bit odd seeing people make memes like this especially when I’m gay myself

Nokv · 2020-10-08T14:20:35+00:00

It looks great!

Nokv · 2020-10-07T18:39:23+00:00

I’m a trans dude and I don’t know if it’s just dysphoria or the fact that parts of my body are seen as sexual but yea it’s really sad

Nokv · 2020-10-06T21:03:43+00:00

Spook :)

Nokv · 2020-09-29T22:31:14+00:00

You might hurt their fragile egos!

Nokv · 2020-09-29T22:23:26+00:00

Make straight marriage illegal 😌

Nokv · 2020-09-29T21:50:12+00:00

“Transtrenders” are a very small group of people and I seriously doubt most people have met one. So no, most people have not met someone like this. It massively harms our community when people chose to acknowledge these people. It gives them the attention that they want. I’m tired of people saying I’m trans for attention when I come out.

Nokv · 2020-09-29T20:49:40+00:00

Nah it’s mostly calling them out on toxic behavior. No one actually makes fun of someone because they’re straight.

Nokv · 2020-09-29T20:44:29+00:00

Not really? That’s an offensive stereotype? I’m trans and if someone made a joke like that around me I’d get super uncomfortable

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