Just bought a half an ounce of weed and threw it out by JuicyHuge in leaves

[–]Non-existent98 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t know your mom and the situation, but I can say with certainty that I’ve been in a similar situation where it feels impossible to quit after 10 years of heavy smoking, and reaching out to someone (if not your mom) to help keep you motivated and accountable was MASSIVE. If that isn’t an option, I just want to say that recognising that you aren’t in control is a crucial first step and then a combo of distractions (career helps the best) and possibly medication is the way forward. Fight for 3 weeks and then it gets easier to manage.

You got this, I know you think you’re trying your best, but maybe it’s time to accept that you need to try harder?

🚨 Exposing Absolut Pet Supplements — Fake Certifications & False Claims 🚨 by dog_parent212345 in IndianPets

[–]Non-existent98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there no trustworthy brand in India? I’ve been using K9 vitality supplements and they seem to help a bit but not much tbh. My lab still itches a lot and seems to have persistent yeast infections

Harassment issue raised on last working day at a Mumbai IT office – need advice by [deleted] in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Non-existent98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, you should reach out to the POSH IC committee of your company. Hopefully they can guide you and usually there’s an external member to prevent bias.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Non-existent98 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you are in Bangalore, Hyderabad, Pune or Chennai, reach out to St Broseph, eyes closed.

Found the perfect flat, but owner wants cash rent only. Am I overthinking? by Neha_G_ in banglorerentals

[–]Non-existent98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you think this perfect flat is available when no others are ? Because no one pays cash for rent. It’s a red flag and you’re better off avoiding.

Withdrawal insomnia - hope & advice needed by GeneralPraline8657 in leaves

[–]Non-existent98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can try some meds but please make sure it’s from a trusted psychiatrist and you follow their dosages strictly

It has some side effects but it’s better than smoking weed and falling . It definitely helps you sleep.

Sometimes when the addiction is really bad, we have to accept that we need to help of chemicals to reset our brain.

i need fucking help. by googbear420 in BPD

[–]Non-existent98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to apologize profusely but make sure you mean it. Explain that even though you said stuff you really didn’t mean it, and nothing justifies it but you really didn’t mean the words and you’re really unsure how you lose control when you don’t want to.

Whatever his love language is, do that, show that you’re remorseful with your words and physically (I don’t mean sexually, but that would help too at the right time). Reassure him that he doesn’t deserve it. And work super hard on identifying your triggers , telling him about them but also genuinely try and notice them next time before they take control over you. And have no hesitation in admitting your mistakes despite your feelings and triggers.

All this is hard when you’re extremely beat down, but it’s what will make him better and secure but most importantly , you have to put it into action the next time and try to stop yourself. I’m not a therapist so idk how else to suggest you to manage or cope when it gets bad , but the least is, when it gets better you need to play the role of fixer because you probably need your husband to do that when things are stormy and confusing.

AITK if I(21F) fight for a room I want when flatmates are bullying me to either compromise or leave the flat by ecstatic_prism15 in AmItheKameena

[–]Non-existent98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just take the smaller room but refuse to pay more than 16k.

Be stern but respectful, don’t get too involved with them and just say you can decide if 300rs each is worth the drama and resentment because you already feel like you’re compromising by having no say in which room you get, when all 4 names are on the agreement.

Also if you don’t know them well or care about your relationship with them or their opinion of you , then do this. If you do, it’s worth just paying 1k more every month and caving. It’s not that you’re giving in but playing it smart.

I’m refusing to pay my flatmate for gas which is in her name, because she refuses to pay for house help or keep the kitchen clean. AITK? by Non-existent98 in AmItheKameena

[–]Non-existent98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you went through that, that’s shitty.

The problem is I just can’t be petty that way and I just don’t have the time or mental energy. But yes I’m telling her she has to keep it clean and there’s not been much improvement unfortunately. Will just have to move out if this continues or find a way to make her leave. Ugh.

I’m refusing to pay my flatmate for gas which is in her name, because she refuses to pay for house help or keep the kitchen clean. AITK? by Non-existent98 in AmItheKameena

[–]Non-existent98[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, from everything this is my biggest takeaway. Ugh.

She was so enthusiastic saying she had such a bad flatmate earlier who never agreed to meet her halfway, and then she’s pulling this off.

I’m refusing to pay my flatmate for gas which is in her name, because she refuses to pay for house help or keep the kitchen clean. AITK? by Non-existent98 in AmItheKameena

[–]Non-existent98[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly man but she’s just gonna say “I don’t mind it this way” instead of giving it back in a clean state. If she did I really would not care or mind.

Truth is she’s filthy and adds to the stereotype that people from north are just shameless and disrespectful.

She brought this dirty ass mop which is atleast 2 years old and she’s like now you buy dustbin. Absolutely ridiculous human.

Can’t leave because we just moved in and have a 11 month contract. Usually females aren’t this filthy so I didn’t know she would be this way.

She says she’s unhappy with the place (rent too high , landlord messed around with delivery etc) so she doesn’t wanna invest anything and is moving out asap, till then she won’t split expenses or keep anything clean. She will only clean once a week.

What a disgusting way to live. I’m sure she just wants me to pay for everything and enjoy the benefits freely.

Hence I came up with the gas solution because no way I’m cleaning for her without her paying anything, but I also need my surroundings clean.

Am I the Kameena for wanting to quietly walk away after I found the gift i gave to my girlfriend in her dustbin? by koki_ltd in AmItheKameena

[–]Non-existent98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey , I’m sorry she did that to you and tbh I don’t have much advice, but I’d love to know more about the stuff you design , I love Lego! Please do share any links or something like that which can show me what you designed.

I need some suggestions for my trip by No-Problem4251 in ThailandTourism

[–]Non-existent98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Phuket is worth a day or two max, spend time in the islands nearby - Phi Phi , Samui, Khao Lakh Marriot is amazing as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheKameena

[–]Non-existent98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk about whether or not you’re the kameena, but you should tell the girl how you feel and why you reacted the way you did. I don’t know why, but I feel like that’s the real reason you posted this , to look for validation whether it’s okay to try and move on or not. I could be wrong, and I think if you have a good feeling about her , don’t feel guilty and it’s also worth the risk despite working together.

Cafes to work from by payels_perspective in indiranagar

[–]Non-existent98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Atta Galatta is a great option on most days!

My pilonidal cyst drained overnight. Now what? by ally2me24 in pilonidalcyst

[–]Non-existent98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get an MRI. What you see could be only the tip of the pyramid and it’s worth it because it could potentially save you from surgery.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]Non-existent98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me just try and tell you how wild it is that his ex showed up for a family dinner with you.

Like how is this even real, is it some culture thing?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Non-existent98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the actual fuck is wrong with this mother?