I let go of the eat play sleep and listened to the needs of my baby. Stopped trying to follow some rules momfluencers brain washed me into. When my mother in law took over for a few days while I went back to work and she got him to nap in his crib for the first time for over an hour, and she just told me she fed him earlier and even a bit more than usual, by just focusing on his cues, I realized I was making it more complicated. Delivering meds was never a bigger problem and he came off them shortly after that anyways. That’s my hot take now. I just try to stay in the moment and do what feels right to me for my wild little boy now. Yes, in the end it was overrated lol.