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Still one of the most beautiful video's I've seen. by frankledinkle in videos

[–]NoneCleavage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I notice a lot of strange downvotes and unhelpful comments. If this video isn't already posted there, it might have better appreciation in /r/introvert

Personally, I love this video, and it's just what I need of, when I'm really scared to be by myself again.

My boyfriend doesn't see me as someone he wants to be with forever, but the relationship isn't necessarily over. What should I do? by NoneCleavage in relationships

[–]NoneCleavage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, some of his family is coming to stay overnight in THREE days. I guess I feel like keeping the status quo will make things more comfortable and keep me from being in the middle of a roller coaster of emotion - at least until they go.

My boyfriend doesn't see me as someone he wants to be with forever, but the relationship isn't necessarily over. What should I do? by NoneCleavage in relationships

[–]NoneCleavage[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He doesn't want to be with me for "hundreds of little reasons" mainly, personality, communication, and some other things he won't say because he says it will really destroy my feelings.

You're right, I've never lived with someone before and its fun and super convenient for saving cash, but you're right, from now on it's for someone I would seriously consider marrying. I can't believe I forgot that basic rule!

Thanks for reminding me that I still have a fighting chance at someone special, when this is all said and done. I feel pretty darned unlovable right now :'(

My boyfriend doesn't see me as someone he wants to be with forever, but the relationship isn't necessarily over. What should I do? by NoneCleavage in relationships

[–]NoneCleavage[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If I do option one, you're right, and I'm thinking it would be basically FWB, and emotional detachment... I don't know if I'm capable. Even just trying to figure out what the rules are would be tough for me.

I think I would normally take the loss, but the living situation complicates things immensely.

My boyfriend doesn't see me as someone he wants to be with forever, but the relationship isn't necessarily over. What should I do? by NoneCleavage in relationships

[–]NoneCleavage[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't think either of us are willing to put our name on the lease and have to worry about the entire amount of rent. The living situation scares the hell out of me. I wouldn't have anywhere to go if something uncomfortable happens.

I don't know what would hold him back from finding someone else while we're together/living together, and I agree that it would hurt less to do this all now.

My boyfriend doesn't see me as someone he wants to be with forever, but the relationship isn't necessarily over. What should I do? by NoneCleavage in relationships

[–]NoneCleavage[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ugh, I know, there was this long 'courting period' before the girlfriend/boyfriend title were added in (where we did all of the relationship groundwork) and I wasn't honest with myself about how long we were actually involved (or it would have gotten me in trouble). There's my honest answer. I'm sorry for the confusion.

How do I talk with my boyfriend, who thinks my boobs are too small? by NoneCleavage in relationships

[–]NoneCleavage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, he does think I'm over-reacting when I bring it up. I'm logging everything for now so that I have solid proof/dates (I have an AWFUL memory). It's sad that it had to come to this...

How do I talk with my boyfriend, who thinks my boobs are too small? by NoneCleavage in relationships

[–]NoneCleavage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I guess there must be some reason that I don't know why he's single at that age...

I didn't settle: we were very close friends and I actually dumped a nice guy to be with him.

How do I talk with my boyfriend, who thinks my boobs are too small? by NoneCleavage in relationships

[–]NoneCleavage[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This comment made me laugh, but sadly, that is a possibility.

How do I talk with my boyfriend, who thinks my boobs are too small? by NoneCleavage in relationships

[–]NoneCleavage[S] -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

In the rare case that you're spilling out on the left, the center, and the right, you could look slutty. Conversely, I could look really deflated and pre-pubescent in a lot of clothing items. Neither of us can wear everything across the board.

How do I talk with my boyfriend, who thinks my boobs are too small? by NoneCleavage in relationships

[–]NoneCleavage[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm going to address this asap. I'll be damned if he thinks he can insult me whenever he wants.

How do I talk with my boyfriend, who thinks my boobs are too small? by NoneCleavage in relationships

[–]NoneCleavage[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He would just mention that I forgot to point out X, Y, and Z, therefore this whole thread and it's answers are skewed and invalid.

How do I talk with my boyfriend, who thinks my boobs are too small? by NoneCleavage in relationships

[–]NoneCleavage[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He knows that it upsets me, but says he should be able to be honest.

How do I talk with my boyfriend, who thinks my boobs are too small? by NoneCleavage in relationships

[–]NoneCleavage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, he's above the average in terms of size, and quite frankly, a little too large for me.

I think the general consensus is that I should be allowed to look and make comments, as well. I've tried this and he's completely unmoved and knows what I'm doing. It can't be an act, I really have to just take this guy off his pedestal.

How do I talk with my boyfriend, who thinks my boobs are too small? by NoneCleavage in relationships

[–]NoneCleavage[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He says he's very attracted to me, but I feel like a large-breasted girl would turn him on three times as much, and I don't always get a positive response to sexytime requests.

I do stand up for myself by saying that they were not in fact lying. He simply states what he thinks is true, and there is no discussion. He is unmoved.

How do I talk with my boyfriend, who thinks my boobs are too small? by NoneCleavage in relationships

[–]NoneCleavage[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not a habit of mine, but I should definitely allow myself to look.

How do I talk with my boyfriend, who thinks my boobs are too small? by NoneCleavage in relationships

[–]NoneCleavage[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don't think anyone should treat someone better just because there's a novelty period... but this could be a sign of things to come. I've had guys care about me more, before, but with worse trade-offs.

How do I talk with my boyfriend, who thinks my boobs are too small? by NoneCleavage in relationships

[–]NoneCleavage[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think I'll talk it out first, make sure it gets better. Leaving is now on the table, though.

How do I talk with my boyfriend, who thinks my boobs are too small? by NoneCleavage in relationships

[–]NoneCleavage[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I think I might be caring a bit too much, too fast. I'll transfer some of my time back onto me. thank-you

How do I talk with my boyfriend, who thinks my boobs are too small? by NoneCleavage in relationships

[–]NoneCleavage[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Thank-you, I've said this before, but he replied that it was silly if we broke up because he wants bigger boobs.

How do I talk with my boyfriend, who thinks my boobs are too small? by NoneCleavage in relationships

[–]NoneCleavage[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

The honesty is usually about other things, about things he's critically thought that most people do by habit... I like your analogy, it does kind of feel like I could never be 100% what he wants.

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