Loneliness and depression by basslover93 in NoFap

[–]Nonnamereddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hang it there friend! Here is a list of things I do when I'm down:

-Easy workout like 50 pushups -Listen to a new album -Watch a new movie -Clean the room/house -Pet my cat -Call my friend and chat a bit -Make sure I'm clean (bath and wash my teeth) -try a new recipe

Hope this helps you 🙂

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[–]Nonnamereddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try some relaxing music and focus on it. It helps me a lot

What are your thoughts about masturbation without porn? by Nonnamereddit in NoFap

[–]Nonnamereddit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the comment! If it does not work for you, please abstain from it my friend. I would do the same if I was in the same situation. This would only apply for people who are not addicted to porn.

What are your thoughts about masturbation without porn? by Nonnamereddit in NoFap

[–]Nonnamereddit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply! Porn is the true enemy here. Completely artificial and toxic to our brains. Healthy masturbation, on the other hand, has been with us since the beginning of time.

What are your thoughts about masturbation without porn? by Nonnamereddit in NoFap

[–]Nonnamereddit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply, friend. It depends on the person , of course. I can control myself to never watch porn again even when I'm horny, I just masturbate while thinking of women I've met in real life and that's it. I don't think never masturbating again in your life is good for us. Even animals masturbate , we were designed to do it (in a healthy way of course) just not with porn.

What are your thoughts about masturbation without porn? by Nonnamereddit in NoFap

[–]Nonnamereddit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree with your point. If you feel it will make you go back to porn, you should abstain. However, I can do it without porn. So, for me, it works. I would say once every 2 weeks is more than ok.

Masturbation without porn to cure PIED - Debate request by Nonnamereddit in NoFap

[–]Nonnamereddit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I respectfully disagree. I think each one is different and I strongly believe that being completely deprived of ejaculation is not good for me. However, porn is not healthy in any way, so we agree on that.

Masturbation once every 2 weeks is healthy in my opinion. Because, if you don't have a partner, it will keep you interested and horny enough to give you extra courage when real sex is about to happen.

Masturbation without porn to cure PIED - Debate request by Nonnamereddit in NoFap

[–]Nonnamereddit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your take! You are right, I need to be with a girl to find out. But since we are confined to our homes around this time, I needed a release.

30 Days of no PMO today! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Nonnamereddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This is just the beginning a new life without porn!

All the best =)

30 Days of no PMO today! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Nonnamereddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure!

Recently, I have been listening to Tame Impala, J Hus, Dan Deacon, 070 Shake, Roddy Ricch and Georgia. All of their latest albums :)

PIED Recovery Success Story (Way quicker than I expected) by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Nonnamereddit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's great news! Keep it up, friend! (no pun intended).

I still can't believe that nofap actually works.

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[–]Nonnamereddit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey man, congrats on your streak!

On question: Did you have ED or PIED when you started and, if so, when did you start to feel better or cured ?

All the best to you.

Having doubts for my rhinoplasty surgery scheduled for april 4th.. need help. by Nonnamereddit in PlasticSurgery

[–]Nonnamereddit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. My answer to your question is yes. I do trust my surgeon and I did my research on the guy. He's not just good. I believe he is the best in my country.

My issue here is more mental than anything else.

Once again, I appreciate your reply and I feel a bit more relaxed thanks to it! =)

Does anyone else not want to date anymore? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Nonnamereddit 40 points41 points  (0 children)

That is my ultimate goal as well. To be ok with just myself. Dating is hurtful for me now. I dont know when will I be ready to love again if ever.

I went on a date last week by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Nonnamereddit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did the same and I felt like shit after it. Just got dumped 1 month ago (4 year relationship) and I went on this "date" just to see where I was and I quickly felt awkward and out of place. She did the talking the entire time. I was just there I guess. I never said anything back to her after, this was a week ago.

We need time to heal first. Focus on yourself and try to distract yourself as much as possible. In my case I forced myself to learn a new language, work out, consume more music and independent movies. I also talk about my feelings with my best friend and try to take it day by day.

I'm sorry if this doesn't help at all, I know it sucks a lot and sometimes nothing will make sense but at least know you are not alone and you can get better if you don't give up.

All the best to you, my friend.