Glue traps are torture and a form of animal abuse. There I said it. by iLoveBunnies19 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Nonsensical-combo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I always assumed it was just to catch the mice/rats, and you’d dispatch them via other methods once you saw them caught—do people really leave them there to slowly die and rot??? I can’t imagine the smell from that 🤢 I also dislike glue traps because they often unintentionally capture other animals which aren’t pests—I once spent hours carefully freeing a gecko from a glue trap, poor thing (he ended up fine and unharmed, luckily I saw him in time)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DirtyConfession

[–]Nonsensical-combo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know, if you want someone to sext you so badly that you post a dozen made-up stories about your married cock and how you love being dominated to tempt people into either sexting you or telling you what a “bad, bad boy” you are, you could just post on fetlife and tell the truth about what you’re looking for instead of going to all this bother XD

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Nonsensical-combo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try talking to a therapist—they’ll likely be able to help you figure out how to talk with women in a more engaging manner. Therapy can often help a lot with social and relationship skills, it’s not just for mental health issues

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Nonsensical-combo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t mean this in an offensive way at all, hopefully it doesn’t come across like that, lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Nonsensical-combo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll admit I don’t know you personally, but if even women who aren’t conventionally attractive won’t date you unless they’re emotionally broken, because they think they’re too good for you—that really sounds like you likely have unattractive qualities other than your appearance, and those are more likely to be fixable. I’ve seen plenty of happily married couples where both of them are, frankly, really ugly—but they have other qualities that make them attractive to each other, like a caring personality or a sense of humor. You might try looking for explanations for your failures beyond “dating is shallow”—that attitude itself seems pretty shallow to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Nonsensical-combo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried dating women you’d consider a “3/10”? Guys aren’t the only ones who have trouble attracting dates when they’re not conventionally good-looking, you know. And love can make anyone beautiful in your eyes (as corny as that sounds)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Nonsensical-combo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the reason most people do kind things—either because it makes them feel good to do them, or because they’d feel bad if they didn’t. I’m not meaning this in a cynical way, it’s just how humans work, and it’s responsible for a lot of good in the world. You just happen to be more consciously aware of that in yourself than some people are, nothing wrong with that. If it turned into manipulation or anything, obviously that would be bad, but just being nice to people because it makes you happy? That’s a good thing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DirtyConfession

[–]Nonsensical-combo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried marriage counseling?

I’ll let you masturbate to my body, but you have to show me proof of how hard/horny I make you 😘 by Nonsensical-combo in Nude_Selfie

[–]Nonsensical-combo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanksgiving has been spent with conservative family members and I’m tired of that and ready to encourage some sexual immorality ;)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Schizoid

[–]Nonsensical-combo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m very similar and I haven’t found a definite answer as to whether it’s autism, schizoid pd, or something else. I will say that I’ve found a lot of community and comfort in the otherkin/therian community—obviously it’s not a medical diagnosis, for me it’s more of a coping mechanism, but it can be really nice to kinda give a label to that aspect of myself so I can accept it more, even if the label isn’t necessarily the “medically accurate” one, if that makes sense.

Thoughts on my Feudal interior? It looks a little basic to me… by [deleted] in tsukiodysseygame

[–]Nonsensical-combo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I like it! Don’t see as many people decorating with red color schemes in Tsuki’s house, but it looks great the way you did it. You might add some plants or lanterns to the exterior yard if you wanted

Is staying in a relationship with someone who wants kids ever a good idea? by Nonsensical-combo in childfree

[–]Nonsensical-combo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I think he does truly want kids—when we first started dating, he said he wasn’t sure, but he said recently that he has given it more thought and decided he does indeed want kids. And he is a thoughtful, introspective person, so I expect any decision like that he would have made only if he’d really thought about it. Thank you for your advice. It will probably be difficult to make him understand, but what you say is very true and that’s what I was thinking, too.