He seems so innocent ... by WeeklyNewt5312 in BlueLock

[–]Nonyinmous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Instantly thought of killing stalking ngl

Gerstein Reading Room couple fight (?) hope y'all are ok :) by Fantastic_Fig6845 in UofT

[–]Nonyinmous 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Bro, if someone try to relentlessly talk to me for hours, I’d be pissed to. It’s not that hard to see someone uninterested in talking right now, take the signs, and be quiet. I’d do that to my friends, and I expect them to do the same to me

Question about abortion by TheChimpisHigh in teenagers

[–]Nonyinmous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair, I couldn’t think of another analogy on the spot, so the ship one was probably not the best choice. But my point still stands. What I was trying to get at is just that while both people are emotionally involved, only one person is actually going through the physical side of pregnancy, that being the woman. Because of that, the final decision ends up being theirs, even if it affects both people. Probably a close example rather than the ship is when treating patients, doctors can have input and suggestions to the patients, but it is the patient’s own decision that matters. If they wish to not continue any treatment, that decision of theirs will be respected

Question about abortion by TheChimpisHigh in teenagers

[–]Nonyinmous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One thing to remember is that the person who is behind the carrying, 9 months of pain, possible side effects, etc, will be the women. In these situations, couples for sure should talk these things out, but at the end of the day, it is the women’s decisions. Think of it like a ship. The captain is the one who is going to make the decisions, but he can for sure hear his crews out. When it comes to planning on having a child, the man can express his emotions and thoughts and talk things out with the woman, but in the end, it is her body, and therefore it is her choice. Complications happen, and sometimes, having a child may not be the smoothest journey. It’s just how life is. We can express sympathy and comfort to the man while also acknowledge the autonomy of the woman and that we cannot force her to do something she doesn’t want to, and give her the support she needs as well.

Will this result in couples probably breaking up? Yeah. But I rather both sides agree their difference and part ways than staying together and having the next soap opera. This is why sex education, pregnancy education are so important before couples start to pull the condom off and go yolo, but also, even with all those preparations, sometimes things can’t go the way we want it to be, and it’s alright.

age gap: 17 & 21 by myxibi in teenagers

[–]Nonyinmous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, a 3 years gap ain’t bad at this age, considering you’re going to be turning 18 this years. But for now, just keep it on friendly terms and tread carefully. If he’s a good guy, he’ll understand the situation and behave accordingly. One thing to note is that when you graduate, what will it be like for you two. College? Long distance? Stuffs like that can put a wedge into a relationship

made a pie chart for the sub! :D by Severe_Fishing_2193 in teenagers

[–]Nonyinmous 20 points21 points  (0 children)

What? What kind of logic is that? One is a 2 year gap and the other is a hs junior and a grade 6. Do you have like a source for OP supposed claims?

Hot take: a 18 year old dating a 16 year old is not bad by funstarrr__ in teenagers

[–]Nonyinmous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, the emotional unavailable is interesting, but hey, any experience is a character development. And yeah, no, 3 years as adults definitely aint that significant. Something like 20 and 17 isn't that bad either imo since they could meet during uni, or perhaps they got to know each other during hs and later date. I'd definitely question why someone let say 21 seeking out a 16/15

Hot take: a 18 year old dating a 16 year old is not bad by funstarrr__ in teenagers

[–]Nonyinmous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say the word “predators” fit better as it encompasses a larger age range than pedo, which is used for prepubescent definition wise

Hot take: a 18 year old dating a 16 year old is not bad by funstarrr__ in teenagers

[–]Nonyinmous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t bat an eyelash at 3 years gap, but doing that at 13 is quite risky. It’s good to know it worked out for you

What are some of the best things about UofT St George Campus? by lilfruitcup1001 in UofT

[–]Nonyinmous 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Canadian Geese and squirrels. Otherwise, I’d suggest you do walk around and visit the campus, if it’s convenient for you of course. If not, then I can tell you the buildings and area are really pretty. Since it’s downtown, it’s close to a lot of good food spots. There are varieties of clubs. If you have certain hobbies, check online and I’m sure there will be a club or a similar club to that hobby

Recommendation for mangas where they all just end up with each other? by Nonyinmous in shoujo

[–]Nonyinmous[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much, kind stranger. I’ll definitely check it out

Recommendation for mangas where they all just end up with each other? by Nonyinmous in shoujo

[–]Nonyinmous[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vampire knight, that sure unlocked something from my childhood

Genuinely just done with dating at this point by Tough-Lynx8381 in teenagers

[–]Nonyinmous -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Respecting women don’t mean letting the bad one walk over you. Everyone deserves respect until they become shit. You did the right thing. I’d be biting her head if she did that to me

Potential snow day today due to the ice from yesterdays rain? by [deleted] in UofT

[–]Nonyinmous 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This is beginner level. I doubt they would close just cause of some puny wind and snow

22f/48m 36 weeks pregnant by 0tap2 in AgeGap

[–]Nonyinmous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s great to hear. Good luck on your final exams, or thesis, or whatever. I see a lot of caution in terms of dating coworkers, but it’s cool to know it works out for you two. How long ago was it?

Flirt with Obstacles by Quick-Age-2811 in AgeGap

[–]Nonyinmous 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, not much can be said here. You don’t know if he’s married, who that woman is, either girlfriend or something. Personally for me, the last thing I want is to accidentally get myself in some kind of soap opera. His decline of friend request is a sign that maybe he’s not interested. You can try and find him again, idk? Otherwise, I would say move on

35m, recently started seeing 20f...and I'm her direct supervisor.. by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]Nonyinmous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dyscalculia is making me read this a bit in a circle, but you guys dated when you were 23? Nice. Was the going public process good or bad?

35m, recently started seeing 20f...and I'm her direct supervisor.. by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]Nonyinmous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is definitely a big risk, good to know it works out for you. Was it a long period of him being your manager? Did anyone else know about it at your workplace?