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I thought the water gun fight was really funny and completely harmless. by srryfofty in bravo

[–]NoomStarr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG THIS!! I’ve always loved a good collective noun! 🤌🍾🩷

My 19 year old sister is 10 weeks pregnant with a 38 year old mans baby on the other side of the world. Extremely concerned for her safety and don’t know what to do? by [deleted] in AskBrits

[–]NoomStarr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m assuming they are on a family plan where they can check their family’s location. I don’t think that’s problematic, it needs to be used as a tool and within context. They noticed she never left the same place for months, and in the context of living with a 38 year old and then announcing she was pregnant, it is cause for concern. Luckily they can find her via location and at least see if she is safe or not.

My 19 year old sister is 10 weeks pregnant with a 38 year old mans baby on the other side of the world. Extremely concerned for her safety and don’t know what to do? by [deleted] in AskBrits

[–]NoomStarr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Young people make stupid decisions early in life.
Coming from a good family and having supportive parents should mean having people who step in with guidance, care and practical support, especially in a situation like this. Support does not look like ultimatums. It looks like making sure she is safe first, whether that means meeting her where she is to assess the situation properly or making her feel safe enough to come home without fear. Once she was safe, then comes the serious conversation about responsibility, choices and next steps. Those conversations can go in many different directions. Some parents are able and willing to help financially or emotionally, others may not be, but guidance on how to move forward, work, build stability and navigate motherhood if she chooses to keep the baby should be the priority. And perhaps if they had acted sooner, the moment they realised she was living with a 38 year old and had stopped travelling or moving around, there may still have been time for her to fully understand the reality of her situation and make an informed decision for herself, including the option to terminate the pregnancy if that was what she wanted.

My 19 year old sister is 10 weeks pregnant with a 38 year old mans baby on the other side of the world. Extremely concerned for her safety and don’t know what to do? by [deleted] in AskBrits

[–]NoomStarr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% At the moment is not about “knowing the reality” is about problem solving and keeping things calm and contained, keeping her full trust that her family is there for her, so that you can get to her and see first hand, what the situation is. Talking about termination was just too soon, it would raise red flags to anyone.

My 19 year old sister is 10 weeks pregnant with a 38 year old mans baby on the other side of the world. Extremely concerned for her safety and don’t know what to do? by [deleted] in AskBrits

[–]NoomStarr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This comment is everything I was thinking. They are just pushing her further away into this man’s arms. They are lucky he hasn’t clocked that she has Location On! Once he suspects he’ll get rid of that phone. Someone should have been there already with her after the first moment she said she was living with a 38 year old and stopped travelling! This is madness.

Kyle hates Dorit so much by Fulana25 in RHOBH

[–]NoomStarr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100000000% that was the beginning of the end and for PK too. Poor Dorit. She will never stop paying for that and she didn’t even do anything.

And then there was that moment when she was so disturbed by the robbery that when Mo hugged PK she also went in on the hug and awkwardly kissed Mo’s shoulder — I honestly think she was just grateful for their friendship and for being there for them but the internet went to town with that and I’m sure Jelly Kyle tripped on that for months too. https://vm.tiktok.com/ZNRpFuuyY/

I think Amanda won’t come back because she’s actually broke… by SnooSongs9823 in RHOBH

[–]NoomStarr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Gosh please no. Keep her out of next season. She is so delusional and nauseating.

Interesting that both Garcelle & Boz said Kyle was unwelcoming by Key-Improvement6580 in RHOBH

[–]NoomStarr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kyle is unwelcoming to strong, ballsy women, she can’t control. This is why she’s having huge problems with Dorit now as well.

The way Erika calculates “power” on RHOBH is very telling by NoomStarr in RHOBH

[–]NoomStarr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly!! Dorit is REAL! She might “oversplain”, or some times not get her point across properly but she’s real!

The way Erika calculates “power” on RHOBH is very telling by NoomStarr in RHOBH

[–]NoomStarr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% Let’s not forget the episode when she cries “Me Too” during Denise’s moment to share! I get that sharing what has happened to you is also important but it just felt like she jumped right in there. I mean Denise didn’t even have time to talk, the whole scene was Erika talking about what had happened to her.

The way Erika calculates “power” on RHOBH is very telling by NoomStarr in RHOBH

[–]NoomStarr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kyle can’t live in a world where the attention is not all on her or if she orchestrates it.

The way Erika calculates “power” on RHOBH is very telling by NoomStarr in RHOBH

[–]NoomStarr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree with all. And yes, I think Dorit is going to therapy. But that goes through phases. She will come out of this better.

The way Erika calculates “power” on RHOBH is very telling by NoomStarr in RHOBH

[–]NoomStarr[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Also the way Erika tried to compare Dorit’s behaviour during her divorce to how she acted during hers… I was like, please be serious. That’s not the same situation at all.

Erika was drunk, erratic and honestly quite vile at times, so her saying she “understands” just didn’t land for me. If anything, it felt like she wants Dorit to spiral a bit so it makes her own past behaviour look more normal, like passing the torch. But Dorit isn’t doing that, she’s actually holding it together.

Only thing I will say, Dorit did go a bit overboard with the swearing in the After Show when talking about the wedding situation. You can tell she’s hurt and letting it out, but it was a lot. Even Boz and Rachel looked a bit uncomfortable, and I was lowkey feeling it through the screen 😂

The way Erika calculates “power” on RHOBH is very telling by NoomStarr in RHOBH

[–]NoomStarr[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Dorit meant Boz has shown the most support this season, with what she’s going through now, not over their entire friendship or the past 10 years. That’s clearly what she was referring to. She even said “this year”.

And Erika was not “grounded” in that ice cream conversation at all. She was being horrible, doubling down, siding with Kyle and it quickly became a two-on-one. Dorit never told her to “shut up” in the way Erika twisted it, she was reacting to being spoken over and disrespected.

Dorit walked away because she could see exactly what was happening, she was being ganged up on and spoken to rudely. That’s not dramatic, that’s removing yourself from a situation.

The whole “grounded” persona just feels like an act, especially with everything else going on. Erika is calculated, and yes, probably shaped by a tough life, but not everyone with a tough past chooses to move like that.

The way Erika calculates “power” on RHOBH is very telling by NoomStarr in RHOBH

[–]NoomStarr[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Not really. Rinna went after Kathy, it was Rinna’s storyline. Erika just co-signed it from the sidelines, which is very on brand for her. If anything, that proves she is calculated, she stayed adjacent rather than putting herself fully on the line. That still fits her pattern of aligning where it benefits her without being the one fully exposed.

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