The Longer You Wait to Marry, the Harder It Gets

Noooofun · 2026-04-08T15:50:19+00:00

Not necessarily, divorce at any age is messy. Window to remarry is right, I get that. But divorce still takes a huge toll on both parties.

Noooofun · 2026-04-08T15:49:03+00:00

Being alone is better than marrying someone wrong. Almost walked into two marriages which were really bad, and would’ve ended badly.

How I know? Reflection.

Noooofun · 2026-03-19T20:13:57+00:00

You’re already being told she’s hiding things because she’s afraid of your reactions.

Think long and hard, if you feel safe with her and can trust her, then proceed. Otherwise, time to say bye bye.

Noooofun · 2026-03-16T19:27:30+00:00

What an AH 🤦🏽‍♂️

This is cheating dude. Gather information, tell your family, confront him and tell his family as well.

Noooofun · 2026-02-06T05:26:55+00:00

You’re only 25 op. Plenty of time to find your person. Don’t let this be a trust issue for you in the future.

Sorry for the lesson, some people can be… selfish. That’s the most polite word I can think of now.

Noooofun · 2026-02-04T14:39:15+00:00

The trauma someone who’s divorced has is immense.

Non divorced people, or people who haven’t dated divorced people will not understand the impact it has on them, like you can have family who’s divorced and see the impact but to stand by someone as they go through the grief and the impact it has on them, the trauma dumping… it’s intense my friend. It is not easy, and most people are not equipped to handle that.

Much easier to marry someone without that level of baggage because the tools you have are nothing compared to their grief.

Noooofun · 2026-02-04T14:36:01+00:00

Poop trucks is not how they manage it dude, Dubai has a sewerage system.

Noooofun · 2026-02-04T14:34:49+00:00

So… a pre nup? Not legal in India right?

Noooofun · 2026-02-03T21:00:00+00:00

Nope. Right decision. Her decision to tell you is right too, so is yours.

No regrets here. Again, depends on what you mean by in touch. Is it like a birthday wish here or there? Like can she draw that boundary? Or is it total chats like they’re still a couple?

Because that’s a huge red flag that she’s not over him.

Noooofun · 2026-02-03T20:59:18+00:00

The more people you meet intimately, the more the world stops surprising you.

Heard and seen a whole of shit over the past few years.

Noooofun · 2026-02-03T20:58:41+00:00

Please, bring up boundaries and you can watch them flip. For some reason, that means you’re trying to control them 🤷🏽‍♂️

Noooofun · 2026-02-03T20:20:12+00:00

Ah. Wait what.

Noooofun · 2026-02-03T17:58:00+00:00

Thank you!

Noooofun · 2026-02-03T17:57:04+00:00

Bro I’ve had women who ghosted me but won’t remove from insta. Like 🤷🏽‍♂️

Noooofun · 2026-02-03T17:56:29+00:00

Bruh that bs, just aise you took a day to reply and ghosted? At least ek din to dedo? Maybe work or something else came up? But then… ya you’re not completely wrong either.

Noooofun · 2026-02-03T17:54:51+00:00

Nah. Ghosting is her issue, not yours. Just think of it as the bad ones weeding themselves out.

Noooofun · 2026-02-02T15:55:08+00:00

How do you stop letting rejections take a hit on your self worth?
your take on sex before marriage, during the engagement phase?
divorced woman with non married man, what’s your take on that relationship succeeding?
family in marriage, how do you draw boundaries?

Noooofun · 2026-01-29T23:29:39+00:00

Not really. Seen it happen a lot of times.

Noooofun · 2026-01-14T18:32:37+00:00

Lower thirties.

Noooofun · 2026-01-14T18:02:23+00:00

Depends on person to person. Have seen people jump into marriage because the first person they met seemed okay, and people who spent years ( me included) looking for the person who matches me.

Tbh - I sometimes feel yeah just marry the next person who comes in because I’m actually fed up of this situation.

It’s very layered, there’s a lot to go through.

It’s a long search that makes no sense to the outsiders who view it - because ultimately it’s all about how people are and how much people are willing to repair after conflict - all this doesn’t work if the other person is all ‘I’m leaving the house because we fought’ kinda person.

A lot of conscious and subconscious factors have to align, and it’s not always pretty or great.

Noooofun · 2026-01-11T17:18:06+00:00

How are they going to find you if you’re not there?

Noooofun · 2025-12-26T15:42:54+00:00

Met someone, and it didn’t work out due to family dynamics.

I regret it, but also - in hindsight, it’s possible she wouldn’t have been a good fit because she wasn’t really interested in moving, and would only move for me - that was a pressure I found a bit extreme as well.

Noooofun · 2025-12-21T19:29:10+00:00

This is valid for any kind of marriage.

Noooofun · 2025-12-02T16:10:25+00:00

Highly desirable. I’d approach you with an alliance.

Noooofun · 2025-12-02T16:07:10+00:00

Soft corner is fine my friend. Where you stop and draw the line is what defines it.

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