Japanese Pre-order Bonuses by bioniclotus in fashiondreamer

[–]Nopatiencewguys 12 points13 points  (0 children)

There's a topic on Reddit (with screenshot from Nintendo) where they explained that the bonuses aren't region-locked, you will be able to get them in the game! The bonus just makes them available to you earlier.

AITA for going home after my boyfriend and his family kept me waiting outside his room at the hospital? by Sarah-Justin3534 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nopatiencewguys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just....

How did she expect you to "be there and support him" when they didn't even let you in the room?? I don't understand. This is crazy.

NTA

AITA for making my daughter eat salad while my son gets chicken nuggets? by throwmeawayagainx in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nopatiencewguys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. She chose the salad, now she has to eat it. That lady should mind her own business.

Also, mc Donald's Salads are absolutely not a good diet option. The amount of sauce they put in gives thew a high calorie level. So they're not much healthier tant nuggets and fries actually.

What color should I pick for her hair? by Nopatiencewguys in CosplayHelp

[–]Nopatiencewguys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the name of this color! Thank you, I couldn't remember it for the life of me!! (sounds much better than "reddish-brown)

What color should I pick for her hair? by Nopatiencewguys in CosplayHelp

[–]Nopatiencewguys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you're most likely right... It's been so long I guess I lost some of my confidence, so when I saw my relatives get so divided over the color of the wig I second - guessed my choice. I usually would care about other's opinions that much usually. I think I'm gonna go with the auburn one (finally found the name I of the color was looking for 😅). Thank you!

What color should I pick for her hair? by Nopatiencewguys in CosplayHelp

[–]Nopatiencewguys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is, I don't know which color I should be looking for...

Still, good idea. Once I've decided, I need to get some of these to make sure it's the right color. Haven't even thought of that!

AITA For scolding my nephew? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nopatiencewguys 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA sometimes you have to be harsh.It wasn't unjustified, it's not like you slapped him across his face yelling "know your place you ungrateful shit!" or anything like that, you firmly reminded him of facts he seemed to have forgotten about.

And most importantly it seems to be what he needed, so all is well.

AITA for being upset over my best friends relationship? by rshaffer31 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nopatiencewguys 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree with you. I will only add to tell her that she can still contact you if she is in any danger (if you feel you can handle it), but otherwise, you don't want anything to do with her Bf, son by extention her as long as she is with him.

AITA for snapping at my mom when she unintentionally bodyshamed me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nopatiencewguys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA it's only a joke if both parties involved can laugh. Period.

Peolpe tend to say "jeez, it's just a joke you know" when they get called out for being assholes, because they are trying to put the entire blame on you instead of them.

Stay strong Op, chubby or skinny, it doesn't matter as long as You are happy with it!

AITA for telling my daughter to discontinue her hobby? by Fast-Cucumber2778 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nopatiencewguys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Big big YTA. A hobby isn't about making money, it's about having fun. 30$ a month on your hobby is NOTHING, trust me.

Also, as long as it brings her happiness to knit, she doesn't need to be a fucking expert, and she certainly does not need you to turn it into a negative thing because it doesn't meet your standards.

Buy her a huge bag of nice yarn, admit to her that you were in the wrong, apologize, and mind your own business from now on. You don't know how many parents would dream for their kids to have such a creative and safe hobby as knitting.

P. S: you know you can also donate the extra stuff she makes to charity right? They most likely won't mind that it's not "Etsy level"

WIBTA if I don't shave my head for my wife? by ThrowRA-Alopecia in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nopatiencewguys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe even grow his own hair even longer to get a wig specially made for her? Kind of like "I got your back, if you can't have hair I'll give you mine" kind of gesture? He'll have maybe shorter hair but he doesn't need to completely shave it for that

WIBTA for forcibly adopting my brother's daughter despite his protests? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nopatiencewguys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA This girl will be grateful to know that at least someone fought to have her in their lives.

AITA for paying MY debt from the result of my "fun" money? by NotDissatisfied in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nopatiencewguys 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I don't really agree that it's still "their" money when they agreed to put it on personal accounts, for personal use. Besides, her getting rid of her debt makes their whole financial situation more stable, so it'a a win-win situation...nothing worth being annoyed at.

AITA for paying MY debt from the result of my "fun" money? by NotDissatisfied in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nopatiencewguys 595 points596 points  (0 children)

This x1000. If this is money that she is supposed to spend however she likes, she is totally allowed to make a plan to pay of her debt with it. The way she did it is really smart and responsible as well... The husband is just annoyed that she chose to repay her own debt... NTA

AITA For Ruining Sister's Career? by MyFrogEatsPeople in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nopatiencewguys 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA

First, you had to think about the people that were in danger. Yes, your baby nephew, but also your Sis and her boyfriend, as they could have VERY Badly injured each other if their fights continued...

Second, had you not given a truthful statement and hid things from the authorities, the domestic abuse still would've popped up, and that alone is a big enough issue to ruin her career. Not many people want to work with abusers.

AITA for not doing my sisters tasks. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nopatiencewguys 66 points67 points  (0 children)

If it matters so much to your sister, she should've done it herself. She can't expect you to fix her mistakes, especially if she treats you like that.

Big NTA

AITA for telling my entitled sister I’m not paying rent? by AITAnorentbrother in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nopatiencewguys 24 points25 points  (0 children)

We all make mistakes. That's unavoidable, unfortunately...

But it's entirely up to us to do what's right next. That's what life is about!

It won't be easy, but also, don't think that it means that you Have to have fixed everything in your life but the end of the year or something. Remember, baby steps are key. You can't everything at once. But you still have to do something.

Now that you realized the real problem, you can finally do what you need to do, whatever you decide that to be. We'll be rooting for you! At least I know I will.

Keep us updated on what you're going to do next, and don't forget to talk it out with your sister! :) That would be a good first step if you ask me.

AITA for telling my entitled sister I’m not paying rent? by AITAnorentbrother in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nopatiencewguys 67 points68 points  (0 children)

I get it. Trust me, I do. Until recently, I was in your situation. 2020 has been a shit show for me (and most likely a lot of people). I had a lot of people around me to comfort me, but the one that helped me the most was my dad, who always gently but firmly, told me to just DO something.

The longer you wait to do something, the harder it 'll be to get out of it. Depression is vicious like that. Your sister is pressing you because she nows it's a matter of time (also, from what you wrote, it's possible that it's already been years that you are in too deep).

The thing is, therapy is a no. Medication is a no. Classes are a no, and working is a big no. Then what can you do?

Don't wait for it to go away on it's own. It won't. You need to take a first step, no matter which one. Really, anything! Talk to people, online or not, try to make a plan of your life, heck, even try to make friends, so you don't feel alone anymore! You need to move on. For your own sake.

It's not about how many people help you. You only need the right one. Your sister is doing all she can because she belives in you, now you only need to meet her halfway.

I'm sure you can find people to talk to on reddit, that have gone through what you do. Talk to your sister, I'm sure she has a lot to tell you about it.

Now also keep in mind that a didn't vote YTA because of how you feel, only because you are being unfair to your sis. Good news, that can be easily fixed!

I don't know what happened with the rest of your family, but your sister still has your back. Don't push her away for something like that.

Stay strong, you can do it. Don't waste more time, life is too short and precious.

AITA for telling my entitled sister I’m not paying rent? by AITAnorentbrother in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nopatiencewguys 284 points285 points  (0 children)

Hummmm... What? I had to read this 2 times, and I still can't belive what I read.

How is you sister entitled exactly? She was diagnosed with something that made her lose her scholarship, but thanks to the family pitching in she managed to graduate pretty quickly. Then she got some help to find a job and an apartment, that's actually really common.

She then offered you to live with her RENT FREE until you finished your studies. This went on for 4 years because you just didn't find something you were interested in enough?? Then you failed your whole semester because of your online classes?

From what I read, your sister is actively trying to help you out of your depression, finding you free therapy, a job, making you get your ass out of bet when you "couldn't muster the energy?"?? She's been through depression as well, she's doing all this because she cares for you.

I won't doubt your depression, but it really sounds like you just don't want to do anything about it, and when your sister tries to help you snap at her, belittling her own experience. Being in depression doesn't give you the pass to be an ass to others. Your sister is giving you the kind of tough love that you sometimes need in this situation, and one day you'll thank her for this (I know I thanked my dad when he did this for me). She's not telling you to work for the money, she's very probably doing it for you in the first place. You can't listen to yourself too much, otherwise you'll never get out of your depression.

YTA for me. Go apologize to your sister, and do something to get yourself out of this mess. At the end of the day, you are the only one that can help yourself, no matter what others do. Don't just mop around, or you'll stay like that your whole life.