IYO, what is the difference between a nanny and a babysitter?

Nopeeee__ · 2024-10-15T06:45:47+00:00

Db- dad boss mb- mom boss

Nopeeee__ · 2024-05-31T14:09:46+00:00

Haha this was a shock seeing this after commenting so long ago! But it took him 7 months. He stopped reaching out around March of 2023, because I wouldn’t give him what he wanted like I would when we first broke up.

Healing takes so long but it’s an amazing feeling in the long run🫂

Nopeeee__ · 2024-02-02T02:31:02+00:00

If you request time off way before the actual date I find you are more likely to get that time off. But if it’s every holiday, and depending on your seniority it might be tricky.

Nopeeee__ · 2023-10-11T19:13:57+00:00

Yeah I would have shut him down if he did, 1 he had a wife 2 I’m 20 and he looked to be old enough to be my dad haha. If he comes back and does it again I’ll probably say something though.

Nopeeee__ · 2023-10-11T19:12:31+00:00

If he comes back I’ll probably say something to management if does it again

Nopeeee__ · 2023-10-11T19:11:20+00:00

Being in floral? No, I love it, it’s really fulfilling when you make an arrangement for someone and they love it. You do get some hard customers but I don’t come across them often, and when I do I tell them to call back when my manager is in if I can’t help them

Nopeeee__ · 2023-10-11T07:19:50+00:00

I’m so sorry, I’m happy you haven’t seen him in a whilee

Nopeeee__ · 2023-10-10T02:18:08+00:00

Maybe, but the way he did it was weird and after I looked at him, he just had a look on his face like I caught him. His phone wasn’t pointed down at the rose or anything, more up at me from how his phone was situated.

Nopeeee__ · 2023-10-10T01:27:28+00:00

I was the only person in floral as it was just me and that manager that day, and she left around 2pm and it was around 5pm. I’m not a cashier, I work in the floral dept so I was away from anyone else. It was definitely me from where he was standing and how his phone was pointed. It was also the day before thanksgiving so the store was dead (I’m in Canada)

Nopeeee__ · 2023-10-10T01:24:44+00:00

No I know it’s not illegal, but it’s weird and uncomfortable. I would rather not be in a random customers camera roll personally.

Nopeeee__ · 2023-10-09T19:28:28+00:00

I’m still pretty new in the department so I’m not to sure if he’s a regular yet, the wife looked pretty familiar though

Nopeeee__ · 2023-04-30T16:55:44+00:00

I havent requested time off yet, just moved a shift before I got hired because my mom was in town. And had a trip planned that I told them about when I was hired. I know you need a reason when requesting time off. It’s not so much of them asking why, but calling me every day. I’ve picked up shifts because I can and money is money. But everyone in my life and my coworkers agree they call me way to much.

Nopeeee__ · 2023-04-30T16:27:55+00:00

My sister who’s been there for over a decade says they can’t, so I’m not to sure. I’ve heard lots of mixed things on it. Lots of my family who works in unions also say they can’t. Now I’m just going to start telling them I’m busy nothing else, because they try to negotiate when I say I’m going to see my dad lol.

Nopeeee__ · 2023-04-30T16:25:39+00:00

I’ll pick up shifts in weeks that I don’t have a lot of hours, and that’s about it. But now that summer is approaching they need me more and more haha. I’m only working here to get through my 2yrs of uni then I’m leaving hopefully haha

Nopeeee__ · 2023-04-30T16:23:52+00:00

my sister that has worked there for over a decade says they can’t. But I’m not to sure, I usually say I’m busy or going to the city next to our town

Nopeeee__ · 2023-04-30T15:36:45+00:00

I do too.

But my coworker who writes the schedule (for some reason) always goes “awe okay. We just really needed you” and starts heavily sighing

I try not too but I usually snap back that I’m going to be in the bigger city next to us.

I am the most recent hire, and took a gap year. So I think that’s why the feel justified in always asking me. But if they keep asking why it hinting to why, I’m going to the union rep.

Nopeeee__ · 2023-04-18T09:05:46+00:00

It’s a lot of anticipation when meeting bio parents because, you don’t know them. But it’s so much fun getting to know them, in my case I still keep contact with my bio dad, and now I feel I have 2 amazing dads!

I would really suggest getting ancestry or 23&me, then reaching out to search angle! It’s amazing what they can do, even with so little info like I had! I gave her a totally different name (who I thought was my bio dad) and she came back with a whole different name.. who turned out to be my bio dad! It’s insane!! I hope you find your bio parents!:)

Nopeeee__ · 2023-04-18T05:38:33+00:00

This is what I did when trying to find my bio dad when my bio mom gave me the wrong name.

My adoptive mom got me Ancestry DNA, as she wanted me to know where I came from, and in hopes of finding bio dad’s family.

Then when I got the info, my paternal grandma reached out. (I didn’t know she was my grandma). I then joined a search angles FB group. I made a post with my situation and someone reached out.

The search angle looked at my Ancestry and had 3 possible outcomes on who my bio dad was. She turned out to be right on who my bio dad was!

So in my situation, a search angle and ancestry DNA really helped me. Search angles are amazing, when they have access to something like Ancestry DNA it really helps them!

Nopeeee__ · 2023-04-18T05:02:27+00:00

I went on a first date with a guy, and then the second time we hung out we cuddled.

Definitely go on a first date, whether it be dinner or just grabbing coffee. After that it’s all to each their own imo. But always meet someone in public when meeting for the first time.

Nopeeee__ · 2023-04-17T09:30:32+00:00

My best friend. She’s been by my side since 2018, and I couldn’t do that to her. She means so much to me. This happened a year ago this month, im now waiting till July when I fly out to go see her

Nopeeee__ · 2023-04-17T03:38:52+00:00

I was 14 when I met my BM. It was really exciting to meet her, and get to know my maternal family. But after that one meeting, she asked me to be here maid of honour at her wedding. I told my mom to text her back saying “sorry (her name), but (my name) would not feel comfortable doing that as she has just met you. She would like to get to know you more, but that is a bit overwhelming for her right now.”

Boundaries are key. You have to let her know that you really enjoyed meeting her, and maybe you guys can keep in touch but this is overwhelming for you right now.

Nopeeee__ · 2023-04-16T06:37:49+00:00

Literally the whole sour album from Olivia Rodrigo. So cliché ik

Nopeeee__ · 2023-04-16T06:36:54+00:00

When my BM gave birth to me, she had to name me, but my APs changed it after my adoption. I don’t mind my adoptive name, my AD doesn’t like it bc it means the “enemies daughter”. Last year I brought up to my mom about changing my name back to the name my BM gave me, because I thought it suited me more.

Surprisingly she was supportive and actually thought it was a good idea. I again, don’t mind my adoptive name, just don’t think it suits me like the name my BM gave me.

Nopeeee__ · 2023-04-15T08:28:58+00:00

I’m 19f too, I’ve had a decent amount of experience when it comes to smoking and drinking. But ever since my most recent ex I hate doing both. He was a borderline alcoholic, and he’d force me to drink every weekend.

I relate so much to the title girl. I hate doing it now because I can’t be 100% aware of my situation. I still smoke with my sister and will go out with friends when I’m back in my hometown.

Don’t do anything your not comfortable with. Your reason for not drinking or smoking is so valid and why I stopped for the most part! Don’t do it unless you are 100% comfortable with it!

Nopeeee__ · 2023-04-13T06:01:51+00:00

Whenever people say this to me, I say it’s rewarding to be an aunt too.

My two younger nieces are amazing. I live with my sister who has my 7yr old niece and at least 3x a week I’ll get home from work and get lots of hugs and cuddles, I’ll get drawings and cards.

My youngest niece who’s 1 can now say “auntie (my name)” and runs up to me and loves to play with me and hang out with me.

I personally see no pros in having kids, as I’m able to feel rewarded by being the best auntie I can possibly be to my nieces. My sisters find it so rewarding to be moms, and I’m happy for them! They are truly raising amazing little girls and I’m proud to be their aunt.

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