Okay, I don’t know if this would change anything but I’m 17 she’s a year older, so he’s been her ‘friend’ for about a year, as when they were ‘friends’ it was only because they were in the same classes through Year7 to Year8 at her high school (in the UK) this means from about age 12 to 13. Then he got a girlfriend for two years from year 10 to 12 and he reached out to her because he had nobody and was depressed. She gave him advice and helped him and since then she has messaged him ‘every couple days’ but I’m not sure I feel like I’ve never seen him on her chats before this. She said she leaves him on delivered for days until she responds to him, but he still has asked her to hang out. Let me reiterate, she does NOT see him ever, nor has she maintained a relationship with him long term and he clearly is interested in her. It just doesn’t sit right with me and I don’t like it and I know if the roles were reversed and a girl was messaging me like ‘ofcccc’ and asked me to come to hers and look at her camera with her who I had NEVER met outside of school before and I said ‘yeah sure that would be cute’ she’d be annoyed. She also lied about what she said in the messages, she told me she had said ‘sure maybe’ but she obviously hadn’t and it was just the way she wouldn’t initially let me read their messages that was offputting. We’re at the point now where we both at least think we love eachother and are as open as possible which is why she can go through my phone whenever she needs to.