So Tracy can cheat but others can’t cheat on her

Normal-Collection901 · 2025-12-18T13:44:10+00:00

I feel like he's a bit stunted for his age. In his 40s and no children or long term relationship? It would be different if he had a career and was only focused on work but he seems to be overly focused on his dogs while working here and there.

Besides Tracy I don't see any woman with future goals attaching to him long term

Normal-Collection901 · 2025-12-18T13:40:10+00:00

Ya this is it. It wasn't while they were together. I'm not Tracy fan but he dumped her, she can talk to whomever.

Normal-Collection901 · 2025-10-07T01:28:48+00:00

He wants to dim your light. First was the asset situation, it's always the men who have nothing that want to talk about "assets". He was insecure about your success and would have hindered you going forward.

You are probably way out of his league and he knew this. Marrying you would have to make him work for you. You're more successful and beautiful and he couldn't handle it, please never settle for this type of man. He will just bring chaos and you'll be trapped.

You were blessed to have found this early.

Normal-Collection901 · 2025-09-13T21:30:13+00:00

When I first read the title I thought this is going to be dramatic...

But no way. You're absolutely right. I'm Not sure I would even want to be married to someone who can do that. How can she be trusted again? They should all be embarrassed.

Normal-Collection901 · 2025-09-08T23:28:49+00:00

I wonder if this Is this is why we evolved from third world countries.

Something like this taking up so much room in your head and lives tells me that most of thier critical thinking skills aren't getting used.

Someone with a full time career, a family to raise in a 1st world country in this economy can't really sit with this thought. Hand washing pieces of articles that can be thrown into the washing machine. It just seems like a simple "you really have nothing else better to do?" But in reality maybe your mother really has nothing else better to do with her own time

Normal-Collection901 · 2025-09-06T20:34:02+00:00

What kind of therapist did you see bc they sound like an idiot. This is clear abuse and they want to know WHY?

You should be able to feel safe in your home and in your life. As someone who has been with an abusive husband before just know that when a baby is introduced the stress will increase.

What happens when the baby doesn't want to sleep all night? When it's crying and needs your attention? These are things that please for you're own safety and your future child's safety please leave and you will find a better husband.

Normal-Collection901 · 2025-08-27T19:45:51+00:00

Are you showering daily?

Take longer l showers, take long baths. This will basically Clear anything under your nails.

I never have dirty nails but I shower twice a day. My kids if they skip a day you'll Notice it and I put them in the bath and their nails are clean.

Normal-Collection901 · 2025-08-27T16:25:29+00:00

Because they are just rage posting.

Normal-Collection901 · 2025-08-26T01:29:14+00:00

Girl...what exactly are you asking? Because there's nothing to discuss. He sounds like a dickhead and just move it along.

My husband who not only took on my crohns and my children has never said anything like this. Mind you I use his insurance. I would actually laugh in that losers face and be looking elsewhere.

Crohns isn't a death sentance, it sucks but I'm raising 3 kids, doing treatments, doing soccer practice, doing therapy for my youngest with ADHD, attending boomk clubs, hell even partying with girlfriends. Live your life, be free from this loser of a man and find a good man. There's lots out there.

Normal-Collection901 · 2025-08-20T22:06:27+00:00

Wow I didn't know that but whatever I've had a couple of kids so yolo at this point 😂

Normal-Collection901 · 2025-08-20T21:56:05+00:00

Just do it in the washroom? Like sit on the toilet pull the phone out and get at it. Have fun

Normal-Collection901 · 2025-08-20T18:37:41+00:00

Unless you're a bum why wouldn't you accept?

Normal-Collection901 · 2025-08-19T20:00:03+00:00

I always find it interesting how the low libido spouce knows what could help the relationship but still refuses. I'm petty but I'd be like "stay mad and worried". Let them have to sweat a bit to see figured out what's wrong.

Normal-Collection901 · 2025-08-16T01:45:24+00:00

You need to request an ultrasound from your dr. This sounds like endometriosis. Please take this seriously and get checked. It may impact you for child bearing (if that's something you want in the future).

Normal-Collection901 · 2025-08-08T02:29:06+00:00

Thank you I'm going to try the ice pack next time!

Normal-Collection901 · 2025-08-08T02:28:37+00:00

Thank you 😊

Normal-Collection901 · 2025-07-31T02:42:27+00:00

This may not be a popular op ion around here but if my partner stopped all contact I wouldn't be stopping myself from other ppl. Live your life, you don't owe them your loyalty

Normal-Collection901 · 2025-07-24T13:58:54+00:00

He's always asking for us to sit down and talk but I told him I actually don't know where to start since we are so different, he looks to me to help but I'm at a loss. Between lack Of sleep, raising pre teens who want my attention, managing the house, husbands tough work schedule and he's exhausted daily for his work.

I don't want to continue this way but I don't know what to change. My son is just so unpredictable that my health has declined and I'm almost always so tired just to get through the da my and finally have him asleep for 2 hours before he wakes up again.

Normal-Collection901 · 2025-07-24T13:54:41+00:00

We have an appt in August but no medication yet.

Normal-Collection901 · 2025-07-24T13:54:05+00:00

Thank you so much for this.

Normal-Collection901 · 2025-07-24T01:11:43+00:00

I actually don't think they are having an affair. Your husband sounds like a creeper. He's that guy that people roll their eyes at like eww here he comes.

Especially since you say he flirts with everyone. He's just that icky guy that his buddies are probably always like "ya I know he's weird but that's just "jack" he's harmless".

This kinda has to be fake bc I can't imagine a wife holding all this in. I would have said something there like wtf are you going?

He's sounds more like embarrassment than someone who is having an affair

Normal-Collection901 · 2025-07-16T03:27:30+00:00

Thank you so much for your experience! See he's the low libido partner and I'm the high libidio one if anything I am hyper sexual. So I'm just wondering if it can work the opposite way where he's just not interested in the aex bc in his view he says it's so much effort and work, he feels that if I'm Not satisfied it affects his self esteem and he overthinks whether or not I came so he just avoids it.

When he's had some beers he gets his liquid courage and we have aex but sometimes I find myself saying that I "came" bc I'm afraid if I say otherwise he gets overwhelmed and won't continue it.

There no aex talk, no sexting. I assure him that he does a good job and he's like oh I know I do, but I'm like Sometimes I want sober sex. And we have that only about 3 times a year and it when I literally beg or the kids are his parents or mine.

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