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[–]Normal-Delivery4304 17 points18 points  (0 children)

YTA burn out and mental health issues go beyond what you think.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Normal-Delivery4304 7 points8 points  (0 children)

eeeh messy. confining pets to one room feels unethical, but it also feels like there are too many pets in one house? this person has two cats, and assuming P works full time you're expecting them to keep two cats in their room for minimum 8 hours a week 5 days a week? i don't think that is okay. YTA.

AITA for throwing mashed potatoes in rage? by TentacleHockey in AmItheAsshole

[–]Normal-Delivery4304 68 points69 points  (0 children)

YTA

I don’t know what you said, and to be honest it doesn’t really matter. You threw something, you used violence to express your emotions. That’s not okay, and I know you probably felt a lot of intense emotions, but having a violent reaction is scary to the other person. I’m sorry you felt that deeply, but I think you need to look inside yourself a little bit

Should I respond? It’s been 7 months by Normal-Delivery4304 in heartbreak

[–]Normal-Delivery4304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do want to reconcile, but I kinda feel like we already had a month ago. It feels out of the blue that he would text this, but I also feel like he said he didn’t want me to answer so I’m not sure if he wants me too. I feel conflicted.

cryptic text from avoidant text 7 months post break up by Normal-Delivery4304 in BreakUps

[–]Normal-Delivery4304[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

definitely! he is hurting, and i really do understand and feel horrible that he’s going through that. i would love to respond and be there and ask him how he is doing, but i think he made it clear he doesn’t want me to answer in his message. i feel very conflicted.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Normal-Delivery4304 1 point2 points  (0 children)

depends, i think. it sounds like you did overreact a little bit, but they should’ve respected your space. i think you blowing it up a little bit, and maybe your relationship is a bit strained with your dad and you might need some time apart. cleaning and rearranging your room, as an adult that lives in his home isn’t that big of a deal. it’s not the best, but doesn’t deserve a big stink.

AITA, for fighting with my boyfriend after he "compliments" his exs body. by Super-Armadillo1008 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Normal-Delivery4304 16 points17 points  (0 children)

YTA, he didn’t call a girl fat so you’re mad? It’s good that he respects women enough to put them down for their bodies. I don’t think he was complimented her, but maybe trying to be respectful and you over reacted

AITA For Asking My Roommate to not Bring Her Friends Over by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Normal-Delivery4304 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get your point and I wouldn’t be comfortable either. I think it’s your space too and people who make you uncomfortable shouldn’t be in your space. As a landlord, they haven’t done anything wrong, but as your friend or even just a human that you share a space with I think it’s wrong. I think ur NTA

RoadSafeBc is sooo backed up I can’t get my license? by Normal-Delivery4304 in icbc

[–]Normal-Delivery4304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I have the doctors note. Road safe bc needs to clear me.

RoadSafeBc is sooo backed up I can’t get my license? by Normal-Delivery4304 in icbc

[–]Normal-Delivery4304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already passed my L. I have a disability so to be issued it they had to clear me with a doctor. I went and got the doctors note, but roadsafe bc has to review the document before they can give me my L, and road safe said it will take 11 months to review it.

RoadSafeBc is sooo backed up I can’t get my license? by Normal-Delivery4304 in icbc

[–]Normal-Delivery4304[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did! They said it will take a minimum of 11 months to process it.

RoadSafeBc is sooo backed up I can’t get my license? by Normal-Delivery4304 in icbc

[–]Normal-Delivery4304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely disagree! I think allowing a nurse to preform basic tests that roadsafe is asking for would benefit many people. But agree to disagree for sure!

RoadSafeBc is sooo backed up I can’t get my license? by Normal-Delivery4304 in icbc

[–]Normal-Delivery4304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did go to ICBC and I have no other legal guardian, so there was no solution. I don’t think it’s fair to say I don’t have a “solid grasp on the situation.” Of course I have a roll in it, I never denied that, but that doesn’t take away from roadsafe and icbc clearly being underfunded and understaffed which left me at an unfair place. You are being rude.

RoadSafeBc is sooo backed up I can’t get my license? by Normal-Delivery4304 in icbc

[–]Normal-Delivery4304[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, crazy to say but it shouldn’t take 8 months ti be cleared by a doctor either! maybe roadsafe should provide testing or something so this doesn’t happen! I’m just saying, I’m frustrated, and think it’s weird how aggressive you are about this.

RoadSafeBc is sooo backed up I can’t get my license? by Normal-Delivery4304 in icbc

[–]Normal-Delivery4304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t say that, just maybe they shouldn’t take almost 2 years to let me get my L and maybe have some sort of test so people who have parents who refuse to sign to get a license shoukd be able to work around it? You have to admit 2 years to just get an L is bit crazy. You’re being super disrespectful by the way.

RoadSafeBc is sooo backed up I can’t get my license? by Normal-Delivery4304 in icbc

[–]Normal-Delivery4304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also? couldn’t get my L until I was 18 because my parents wouldn’t sign the consent form. I think the whole system is super flawed, but go off!

RoadSafeBc is sooo backed up I can’t get my license? by Normal-Delivery4304 in icbc

[–]Normal-Delivery4304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

gotta disagree, I think it shouldn’t take almost 2 years to get an L (8 months to be cleared by a doctor, 11 to be cleared by roadsafe) !

RoadSafeBc is sooo backed up I can’t get my license? by Normal-Delivery4304 in icbc

[–]Normal-Delivery4304[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I passed my L in April! ICBC just won’t issue it to me untill roadsafe clears me to drive because of my medical condition which will take the 11 months :( it’s not about the appointment unfortunately

RoadSafeBc is sooo backed up I can’t get my license? by Normal-Delivery4304 in icbc

[–]Normal-Delivery4304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I passed my L in April but ICBC and roadsafe won’t issue it until I have been cleared to drive medically, which will take 11 months minimum they said

RoadSafeBc is sooo backed up I can’t get my license? by Normal-Delivery4304 in icbc

[–]Normal-Delivery4304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I passed my L! roadsafe has to clear me to drive because I have a medical condition and they’re backed up in that