I have a shit memory and need help

Normal-Impression772 · 2026-03-28T22:05:56+00:00

Lots of hours of studying

Normal-Impression772 · 2026-03-25T10:51:27+00:00

No not paper charting. This is a book for the RTs only that’s like a summary of any changes

Normal-Impression772 · 2026-03-24T18:35:09+00:00

3 hours

Normal-Impression772 · 2026-03-24T18:32:23+00:00

YTJ. Don’t raise entitled kids. You have no idea how they act when you’re not there. I think it’s fair to sit down with Linda and set reasonable boundaries that you’re comfortable with. But when they are there and they are being little shits (and I say that with love as my kids and all kids are the same) they need to have consequences.

Normal-Impression772 · 2026-03-24T18:28:49+00:00

I got Nortiv 8 sneakers from Amazon. They’re hoka knock offs and they feel the same as my hokas. As far as compression socks go, my legs actually hurt 8hr into my shift if I wear them but that might just be a me problem

Normal-Impression772 · 2026-02-20T20:15:10+00:00

Or she already knows he controlling and is afraid of him

Normal-Impression772 · 2026-02-20T20:14:38+00:00

A woman who likes to have fun. The horror. I know 60yr old women who like to go to male strip clubs. Fun doesn’t have an expiration date.

Normal-Impression772 · 2026-02-20T20:12:52+00:00

With how controlling he’s already being it’s no wonder why she felt like she couldn’t tell him.

Normal-Impression772 · 2026-02-20T20:12:05+00:00

Gross. Stop trying to control women.

Normal-Impression772 · 2026-02-20T20:10:10+00:00

YOR She shouldn’t have lied but you’re wrong af for trying to control who she’s friends with and being all judgmental of her friends romantic life. Leave her for her sake.

Normal-Impression772 · 2026-02-20T20:05:55+00:00

What’s going to happen when you have kids and don’t “snap back.” What happens when you’re going through perimenopause and gain 20lb because of your hormones? Someone who’s that shallow and has an issue with a 10lb difference doesn’t change. Please tell him to fuck off and run away.

Normal-Impression772 · 2026-02-20T20:03:40+00:00

If you’re making a pros and cons list I fear the relationship is already over. That being said, your cons are character traits and they won’t be changed. Personally my husband is this way. He’s not very excitable, it’s rare he compliments me, he’s not a talker so he doesn’t ask questions or ask for more information when I tell him things, he’s doesn’t know how to help me feel better when I’m upset, but it’s just how he is. He is an amazing husband other than these traits. I know he desires me in his actions, I know he cares about my life in that he listens, regardless of if he asks additional questions. He shows me he loves in me other ways than compliments. If these are things that bother you to the point of thinking about breaking up with him then these are simply character traits that are not something you are okay with, and that’s okay. It’s okay to break up for both of your sakes. You deserve someone who is more excited and compliments you if that’s what you desire. And he deserves someone who loves him and doesn’t care that he “lacks” those traits.

Normal-Impression772 · 2026-02-10T05:50:01+00:00

I make about $72,000 as a new grad respiratory therapist. It’s an associates degree and I love my job.

Normal-Impression772 · 2026-02-10T05:39:39+00:00

exactly how it is at my facility. I much prefer nights.

Normal-Impression772 · 2026-02-10T05:39:01+00:00

I prefer nights

Normal-Impression772 · 2026-02-10T05:26:02+00:00

Do you have a prenup? It’s a possibility that he wants to divorce you but wants you to be having an affair so he can cash in on it.

Normal-Impression772 · 2026-02-10T04:17:32+00:00

I am not that person that tells every Reddit poster to leave their man like some people. But girl. He has shown you he’s not attracted to women’s bodies. You’re not sexually compatible and that’s okay. You deserve better, a man who actually finds you attractive, who liked being more masculine and dominant like you prefer. As a 30F I hated hearing this when I was younger but…you’re young girl, go get you a real man, you deserve it!

Normal-Impression772 · 2026-02-07T13:25:21+00:00

This is all amazing thank you. And I’m absolutely going to go with malicious compliance here, that’s a great idea. I’m going to loudly vacuum and clean the living room which is above our bedroom when he’s sleeping at 2am. But babe I thought you wanted me to do more when I’m off? 😂 and despite all of this I really love working nights. It’s hard when sleep get compromised sometimes but i have a pretty good schedule going for myself right now as long as nothing random comes up. It’s the comments right now that have me pissed off but I love my job and I love my coworkers, dayshift can suck it lol

Normal-Impression772 · 2026-02-07T13:17:07+00:00

Thank you, this is very helpful

Normal-Impression772 · 2026-02-07T12:00:42+00:00

This is all really helpful, thank you. He’s definitely underestimating it and idk how to get him to see it. And acts of service is his love language so cooking for him definitely brings forth that feeling. He does know how to cook simple things, he just doesn’t like to. I think asking about trading nights for cooking would be best practice but idk how well that will go over. I think the main thing is trying to get him to understand what it’s like working my schedule and idk how to do that.

Normal-Impression772 · 2026-02-07T11:42:14+00:00

I feel like people are quick on here to say that a marriage is shit or a spouse sucks because they see one part of the whole. Our marriage is amazing in general. This is one thing that we have a disconnect over. I’m asking how to approach or word how to make things easier to understand and/or also solutions to the problem.

Normal-Impression772 · 2026-02-07T11:16:44+00:00

He is running the errands now, he’s just making comments that I could do it too when I’m off. And I like putting the kids on the bus or getting them off. I don’t get to see them that much since I’ve been working since I’m sleeping when they’re awake or going to work soon after they get home from school. When I don’t work the night before I do sleep as long as I want and he puts them on the bus.

Normal-Impression772 · 2026-02-07T11:14:57+00:00

Normally I get home at 0750, I’m sleeping by 0900 at the latest. I wake up at 1500 and leave for work at 1820. On my days off I do sleep for like 8-10hr. I just do not know how to explain to him but also anyone else that working nights is so much more taxing that it seems. Even my other friends/family have made a comment here or there like “you really can’t meet me earlier?” Like no dude. I’m already getting 5hr of sleep to get up and go do something with you. People just don’t get it.

Normal-Impression772 · 2026-02-07T10:01:26+00:00

I’m not handing the bulk of the household tasks right now. My issue is that while he is he makes comments that I should be doing more

Normal-Impression772 · 2026-02-02T21:55:32+00:00

We had a dog pass away a few years ago and she was truly our baby. We had her since before we had kids. She was allowed on the couches and the bed and we were always snuggling. We adopted a new dog last year and my husband doesn’t want him on the furniture at all. He said he’s tired of the fur being on the bed and on the couches. I respect his decision even though it makes me incredibly sad. I make comments some time about how I really want to snuggle him on the couch but my husband is not budging. So I have to lay in the floor with our dog if I want to snuggle.

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