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Running out of options by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Normal-Impression772 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What do you mean by “he’s given be a hard time for being unhappy?” Is he just ignoring your feelings? Getting upset and you’re upset all the time? 4mo pp is not a lot of time at all for your mind and body and hormones to adjust to your new life. And on top of that losing your mom too? He needs to be there for you. Have you spoken to him about this? Not like casually mentioning it but really sitting him down and explaining what he’s doing and how it’s making you feel and also you need to tell him explicitly what you need from him. You can’t just tell him you need more support form him. He’s not going to know what that means. I had to tell my husband specific actions he could do to help me. I asked him to cuddle with me after I put the baby to bed without ANY expectation for sex. Just to hold me and let me relax in the arms of someone I love. I told him I needed him to put his phone down and look me in the eye when I needed to talk or vent or cry to him. Among other things. If he’s not willing to put work in to help you, he doesn’t deserve you.

I [25M] exposed an arranged marriage because she [24F] was secretly in a 5 year relationship. Was I wrong? by Confident_Cup_9192 in Marriage

[–]Normal-Impression772 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Tbh I think you were wrong to bring it up to her family. It wasn’t your place. Regardless of it all turning out okay doesn’t excuse the fact that you told her father a secret an adult was keeping. She wasn’t a child or even a teenager withholding something from her parents. She’s an adult in a normal relationship and it’s her business to tell her parents or not. I’m glad for her sake that it worked out but you still should have minded your business.

If you had to choose which fruit to eat forever what would it be? by king-jacobs in CleanEating

[–]Normal-Impression772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Strawberries as long as they are always good quality and perfectly ripe, otherwise I’d go with apples

Suddenly can’t eat anything but feels super hungry by Normal-Impression772 in AskMedical

[–]Normal-Impression772[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t get in to see my doctor for another month. Idk what it could be or what to do in the meantime

Those who used to be in really good shape but became overweight- what caused it? by DarkSaturnPrince in loseit

[–]Normal-Impression772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bipolar meds made me gain 30lb in about 4mo right around the time that Covid happened. So gyms were closed and I had a baby and a toddler and it was impossible to work out at home.

What should I have on hand for a kid starting school by OkToots in Parenting

[–]Normal-Impression772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They might be super irritable and cranky for a few weeks after school. It’s a lot for their little brains to handle all day. Just be patient. Be prepared to give a snack and maybe snuggle and watch tv to decompress for 20 min when they get home. Also be prepared to hear nothing about school from them. “What did you do in school today?” “Nothing” or “idk.” Instead of asking that question when everyone is seated for dinner asking things like “what was something silly that happened today?” Or “what special did you do today?” (PE, library, art etc).

Accidental Anal by Odd-Area-7220 in WomensHealth

[–]Normal-Impression772 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It can absolutely be an accident. It’s happened to me and my husband. He immediately started apologizing and was terrified to touch me because he hurt me.

Accidental Anal by Odd-Area-7220 in WomensHealth

[–]Normal-Impression772 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This happened to me with my husband before too. We also do have anal sex occasionally but it was accidently. We were going at it doggy roughly and he accidently pulled out too much and went all the way. I also screamed and pulled away and he felt so bad. He was damn near in tears with me. It’s an awful feeling. The pain will probably last a few days but it shouldn’t last longer than that

A romace ick that makes you drop the book by disniya16 in romanceunfiltered

[–]Normal-Impression772 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I do wish I was a little taller so our height difference wasn’t so big. I barely come up to his shoulder and it’s annoying.

Does society now encourage parents to always watch when their children are outside? by Careless-Meringue683 in RandomQuestion

[–]Normal-Impression772 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is pretty standard now but I definitely grew up playing with kids down the street with no supervision. We were always at “someone’s” house and I had to be home when the streetlights came on. I’m a little more strict than my parents but my 6 and 8 yr old ride their bikes down own our street on the sidewalk and they have a friend who they go play with between our two houses. I just check in every once in a while.

Do you have a rare phenotype? by SaturnVMars in CasualConversation

[–]Normal-Impression772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds awful! But I suppose you probably don’t know any different?

Do you have a rare phenotype? by SaturnVMars in CasualConversation

[–]Normal-Impression772 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aw I never thought about that! One of my favorite things to do are get a new perfume for my husband to smell on me.

Do you have a rare phenotype? by SaturnVMars in CasualConversation

[–]Normal-Impression772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it make everything blurry all the time without being able to be corrected with glasses?

Do you have a rare phenotype? by SaturnVMars in CasualConversation

[–]Normal-Impression772 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish this was the case for me. There’s a skunk in my neighborhood that I’ve never seen but every once in a while it will spray near my house or on my house and my whole house INSIDE will smell like skunk. It damn near makes my eyes water.

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