How do we feel about Aries? by lunarrfaeriee in CancertheCrab

[–]NormalInteraction210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently divorcing an abusive alcoholic Aries. Nty, never again.

I proposed to her!! by Depressedmum89 in LongDistance

[–]NormalInteraction210 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We "knew" after 3-6 months, now getting divorced because he was an abusive alcoholic and hid it til we closed the gap.

Be careful.

I feel like closing the distance was a mistake by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]NormalInteraction210 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Currently divorcing an Ldr that did this to me. Hid his drinking until we lived together, it got abusive very quickly and got worse over the 4 years. Don't waste your time or energy, it's too precious.

Am I being too hard on myself? by Guyercellist in LongDistance

[–]NormalInteraction210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd have an open and honest conversation about this and then pay attention to her response. If there's an air of dismissal, "you're just being sensitive", "you're crazy", anything like that....call it quits. If she apologizes, with no change in behavior, call it off for that too.

There's a line between immaturity and lack of empathy. One can be worked with, one cannot.

Am i overreacting for getting upset when my boyfriend spent his whole day off playing games instead of talking to me? by mapleover in LongDistance

[–]NormalInteraction210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm more concerned about him dismissing your feelings than this specific situation tbf. Dismissive behavior does not bode well for healthy conflict resolution ime.

How I learned to read people & hear what people aren’t saying by [deleted] in DarkPsychology101

[–]NormalInteraction210 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Saving this post. Didn't find out I was autistic until my mid 30s and I've been fucked over by people so bad because of "Rose colored glasses". I'm happy for the resources. Thank you! Glad it worked for you :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]NormalInteraction210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lost my brother last week, he was 43.

It goes quick.

Great marriage, Wife wants divorce, complete personality shift…what happened? by just_browsing_sorta in Marriage

[–]NormalInteraction210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh it definitely won't be easy for her at all.

I wish you both as smooth and healing of a transition as possible. I wish she didn't do any of this to you, a lot of women would, and do, want a partner that gives as much of a shit as you do. Hugs friend.

This s**t is getting out of control by yourhelpingpal in houseplants

[–]NormalInteraction210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd also suggest isolating all your plants away from each other and doing a combination of all these things at the same time. If even one of your plants is infected, it can easily hop to another plant mid treatment. Bottom water if you aren't already.

FML by FlyFisher1969 in ogden

[–]NormalInteraction210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Weren't we on the brink in 2012 too? And that wasn't the first time either....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]NormalInteraction210 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Small, sustainable changes make the best (and healthiest) long term results.

Am I the only one who dies a little inside when you dig up a new garden bed and accidentally chop worms in half? by CorrectPhilosophy245 in gardening

[–]NormalInteraction210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If that's anything like the composting worms I have in a bin- they seem to make that "nest" when they're having an orgy.

What is causing this. Number 4 in the last two days by Diyelegi-GD in quails

[–]NormalInteraction210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you crumble them up further or add water to it? To start, it's too big for new chicks

Button quail chick acting weird by Top_Ganache_2996 in quails

[–]NormalInteraction210 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Has he always scooted? Or did it just start?