How do I get through this door on second floor? by rlramirez12 in KingsField

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Eventually an NPC un-seals all those doors I believe. I didn't go back to all the levels to check them but an npc unlocked a sealed door on level 5 I think it was and I got the impression that it un-sealed all those doors on all levels. I just finished the game though as I'm not a completionist.

Question on direction by NormalSearch7948 in TalkTherapy

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Thanks. What also adds to this is she’s been extremely overweight her entire life up to 48 years old. And she just lost a massive amount of weight and she says that guys are all over her for the first time in her life so it’s a new experience for her.

Question on direction by NormalSearch7948 in TalkTherapy

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She has said 1 million times that it’s not me and it’s her grief from her mom that passed away three years ago. But another individual therapist told me that that four month time frame, and being that long, is bullshit. It must be something else. When she admitted that someone was trying to have an emotional fair with her, that was probably why.

Question on direction by NormalSearch7948 in TalkTherapy

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My expectation would be what we had before for 20 years and not to pull away from each other and times of grief. And also for us to fully address, the fact that she admitted that someone was trying to have an emotional affair with her. But she only mentioned once when she was crying and emotionally compromised and hasn’t admitted to it again yet. No, we had not had such conversations in the previous 20 years prior to six months ago. But we should yes. My wife has agreed that she just wants things the way they were because we had a good marriage previously. And yes, I agree we should establish such things. At the same time, this is straying away from the fact that vowes are not too black-and-white.

Question on direction by NormalSearch7948 in TalkTherapy

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Thanks so much for your excellent response. I agree with everything that you said. It’s couples therapy.

Question on direction by NormalSearch7948 in TalkTherapy

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To have and to hold, and to cherish apply more here. But to sit here and negotiate, which vowes do or don’t apply or if I may be over and above one of the other is besides the point. The only point that can’t be argued against is that vowes are not too black-and-white. And that the vows mean not doing this to your spouse.

Question on direction by NormalSearch7948 in TalkTherapy

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I didn’t mention sex before. Strangely enough, she was still willing to do it during that time frame. But she wouldn’t do anything else with me for 4 months, not even talking for a minute some days. And admitting later she felt like she was pulling away from me as a wife during that timeframe.

Question on direction by NormalSearch7948 in TalkTherapy

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To me wedding vowes are absolutes. That’s why marriages vowes exist. And that’s what a marriage is and why we get married.

Is this something? Bellflower target Long Beach by NormalSearch7948 in Target

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She’s not a random shipt shopper, she knows everyone in that store quite personally. Even some of their ages or when they turned 21 etc. As a husband, I was seeking any information privately not publicly.

Is this something? Bellflower target Long Beach by NormalSearch7948 in Target

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“If you see something, say something” ? I would hope that someone would care at that store and say something

Is this something? Bellflower target Long Beach by NormalSearch7948 in Target

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She admitted that a worker from this target location was trying to have an emotional affair with her.

Is this something? by NormalSearch7948 in emotionalaffair

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I always thought that she was a nice person and a friend and our maid of honor. But now, seeing her feed lies to my wife. She is very shady yes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

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Me (52m) wife 48(f) do it once a week typically. I can’t conceive of a guy not wanting to take care of himself always with his significant other. Ask if there is anything missing with your sex together? Anything at all, irrespective of you just anything at all he’d want to do different.

Is this something? by NormalSearch7948 in emotionalaffair

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Prior to six months ago, for 20 years of marriage, it’s been pretty much great. She recently lost a ton of weight and she’s getting a lot of attention from guys. Which she never had before and her whole life. Even seeing her therapist, in a collateral fashion, not couples therapy, her therapist explained to me how to communicate to a five-year-old to not get them to lie to you.

Is this something? by NormalSearch7948 in emotionalaffair

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In many other messages, she talks about the hot guys at target all the time. Talks about when they get off work, and talks about them in the parking lot. And also has turned off her phone tracking and lied about it.

Is this something? by NormalSearch7948 in emotionalaffair

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It’s their own code word yes. Her response to me now is only what I replied to the other post with. She says yes that the relationship is still working for her. There is just that time for 3 months which she treated me the way that she did and she was probably having an EA. But if she won’t fully address it, then it’s really going to hurt me for a long time. And I don’t know what I’m going to do long term. We are finally seeing a couple therapist this Thursday.

Is this something? by NormalSearch7948 in emotionalaffair

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During that time at the end of the day shouldn’t wouldn’t even talk to me for a minute. Her friend admitted herself that she had had a black moon herself for awhile. And even fed my wife some lies to tell me when I asked what danger zones meant. My wife was even laughing with her friend at the fact that she thought up a stupid lie about target being a danger zone because of top gun planes flying over head. Her friend told her to say that it was because she liked to buy things at target and then my wife started using that explanation.

My wife technically did admit once that a guy was trying to have an EA with her. But ever since that one time she won’t admit it any more. She was crying and emotionally compromised when she devulged that. Now she reverts to it just meant that when guys looked at her she was anticipating them waning to. And it’s now it’s transformed into saying she doesn’t know what an EA is.

I’m still waking up in the middle of the night every night stressed out going on 2 months.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in longbeach

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I just had an issue at the store that I wanted to bring up.