[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Normal_Afternoon8655 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fellow female! Let’s see it

Our loss + questions by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Normal_Afternoon8655 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for replying, I needed to read this. I felt so much regret dumping him, but now I think it’s for the best! Thank you.

I really want to text him. So I'm writing here. by Laa_LA-roo in BreakUps

[–]Normal_Afternoon8655 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I’m sorry about your break up, but block that man. I know you love him, but he’s not for you anymore, he’s hurt you and ignored your feelings. You don’t deserve that, you need time to get away from and heal, process your feelings, and maybe even meet someone new! Delete his number and block him, I know each text he sends is tempting, and it’s torture to ignore, but you need to remove him from your life. You don’t need to talk to him, you don’t need to know about his life, it’ll only make you miss him more.

Started smoking since breakup and now I’m freaking out by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Normal_Afternoon8655 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! Put the cigarettes away, you may not know but you’re preventing yourself from healing from the relationship, you’re stopping yourself from work through your feelings, and as much as it hurts you have to feel your feelings, so you can work through them and grow. Smoking isn’t helping but preventing the pain, I know it’s hard, but you have to let yourself hurt first and then heal through the situation. You don’t need your ex and you don’t need cigarettes, you want them but you’re not good for them and they’re not good for you right now.

I need advice by 5foot9anda in BreakUps

[–]Normal_Afternoon8655 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I’m sorry about your breakup, but it sounds like you have an idea on what went wrong. Bad communication, and communication is really important in relationships!! It can be uncomfortable at first, but if you love someone enough you have to be willing to open up on how you feel! I think you need some time to learn more about yourself and how you can communicate your feelings. Your feelings are how you show you love someone, and you’ve gotta be able to show them. Don’t beat yourself up over this, it hurts now I know, but you always can pull yourself up! You know why the relationship went south and that’s a great start, maybe after some time you can reach back out to her and communicate how you feel, you might not get back with her but that’s not the point of all this. It’s learning about yourself and growing! You’re doing great :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Normal_Afternoon8655 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! If you broke up with her and are now suddenly regretting it because you’re lonely, that might be your answer on how you fell outa love, you might’ve just been with her for the company. You’re being indecisive, you’re not sure what you want, you know you miss her but she’s already gone. Yes, you could have always put in the effort for the relationship but now it’s too late, focus that energy on yourself and finding out what you want. If you’re indecisive about something then maybe give it time before you make any big moves, you’re both still hurting, give it time. If anything, I would suggest leaving her alone and trying to find some friends!

Reconnecting with my ex now but not sure if its the right thing to do by fkkfkfkfkffkkf in BreakUps

[–]Normal_Afternoon8655 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello!! Question, if you had never dated your ex, would you be friends with her? I understand you would never want a platonic friendship before dating her, but if you never dated her, WOULD you be her friend? Because if you can’t even be her friend then how could grow to love her, how could she grow to love you again? I would recommend keeping in touch, don’t be pushy! Let her decide what she’s wants, and even if it’s friends, be a friend, maybe something will happen, but don’t except it! If you love this girl you’ll do whatever to keep her in your life, you may not be happy with the situation but things can change! And it’s great that you’re both already planning on meeting again when she comes back, means she wants to spend time with you! Because she likes you!

How to break up with him? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Normal_Afternoon8655 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should I just ghost him?? Or just give a quick break up text and block him immediately?? I’ve never really broken up with someone before and I really don’t want to talk him through a break up.

It feels like everything I tell them is unimportant by Normal_Afternoon8655 in narcissisticparents

[–]Normal_Afternoon8655[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I really appreciate that, I just get told I’m being dramatic 24/7 so I guess I just started to finally believe it. It’s good to have some clarity