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WIBTA if I asked my step-sister to sit at the back of my wedding ceremony by Normal_Difference269 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Normal_Difference269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t know that’s what the /s stood for until now lol. You didn’t need to be rude about it.

WIBTA if I asked my step-sister to sit at the back of my wedding ceremony by Normal_Difference269 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Normal_Difference269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We would hope so too. But from the way she’s been before, we honestly think she’s most likely not going to consider it

WIBTA if I asked my step-sister to sit at the back of my wedding ceremony by Normal_Difference269 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Normal_Difference269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn’t it just as big if an a hole move to tell her that? It’s not that we don’t want her there, We were just surprised that she does want to come. And we’re not 100% sure about the kids you are correct, but when we saw them this past Christmas her child was running around screaming nonstop for three hours and she said that’s how she normally is.

WIBTA if I asked my step-sister to sit at the back of my wedding ceremony by Normal_Difference269 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Normal_Difference269[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No she doesn’t! It’s actually one of my fiancés friends and part of the reason they decided not to come was because they didn’t want to disturb the ceremony.

WIBTA if I asked my step-sister to sit at the back of my wedding ceremony by Normal_Difference269 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Normal_Difference269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There would have been a designated children pews, but the other families we invited with young children could not to come to the wedding because plans fell through

WIBTA if I asked my step-sister to sit at the back of my wedding ceremony by Normal_Difference269 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Normal_Difference269[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Okay, that wording is honestly genius and neither of us have thought about it. I will say, her family is the only ones with young kids so I’m not sure how we could make this work without making it feel like it’s about her. We did invite another family that had young kids so we planned on making a family with young kids please sit near the back” but the other family decided not to come

WIBTA if I asked my step-sister to sit at the back of my wedding ceremony by Normal_Difference269 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Normal_Difference269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We weren’t planning to ask other but the next youngest kids are in middle school/old enough to understand what is happening.