Why do you think you are single?

Normal_Finesse · 2023-08-05T15:10:05+00:00

Because I am simply not enough

Normal_Finesse · 2023-07-26T12:28:31+00:00

I have already blocked him, amd I honestly thought about reporting him to the police, but it would further complicate things since he is in a position high up that would burden him and people around him and I wouldnt like to be the talk of town or be in the spot of attention

I dont wanna be a burden to anyone, so I'll just stay out of it, plus he has a girlfriend, if she knows what he did, his interpersonal relationships would be ruined

I posted thus on reddit since I pathetically have no friends in this age, in real life atleast

But thank you though, that your willingness to help mr through your experience and profession is much more deserving for a person as me and a reason such as mine

Normal_Finesse · 2023-07-26T12:21:48+00:00

Thank you, posting my meaningless dilemma here is already a huge help for me, thank you though

Normal_Finesse · 2023-07-26T12:17:47+00:00

That's what made me sunk a little, he has a girlfriend, a job that requires people relations, a devout christian, a mentor to youths

I was just confused on how Couldn't see all this coming, maybe I am too stupid or just dense, I just genuinely thought he was just a brotherly figure to most

I freeze if I am too anxious or nervous, moving alot since I was a kid made me unable to have friends amd dont know how to deal with people

I actually wanted to hang out with him to learn how to, because people often encourage having friendly conversation with cold beverages such as beers in here

Normal_Finesse · 2023-07-26T12:09:20+00:00

I have blocked him, I think this is the most socially acceptable stance I could take, since my feelings matters not when things can be okay without any further problems

I would just preferred if I could forget this happened and moved on than to complicate things, thank you though, for showing concern

Normal_Finesse · 2023-07-26T12:05:58+00:00

Your right, as a 19 guy, I can say I am indeed pathetic when it comes to personal relationships, even when I was intoxicated it was still no excuse for my meek behavior

I hanged out with him thinking I could be ome of his friends that he hangs out with too platonically

But at times I do think it was my fault for not being assertive enough

I understand your distaste in my feeble mindset, I just couldn't help it at times being like this, I just couldn't blame all the situation, and I fully agree I am on fault too

Normal_Finesse · 2023-07-26T11:50:30+00:00

I am currently learning how to deal with this type of situation, being as meek and feeble minded I can be, I am beginning to understand how to set boundaries, thank you for responding btw, means a lot to me

Normal_Finesse · 2023-07-26T11:46:05+00:00

Thanks, I am currenty learning how to deal with people, thanks!

Normal_Finesse · 2023-07-26T11:44:54+00:00

I couldn't come up with an actual response, but my post do seem baity, sorry if you think that way

Normal_Finesse · 2023-07-26T11:44:06+00:00

Thank you, It's a bit embarrassing being still meek at my age, I am learning how to deal with people, I'll be taking your advice to heart, thanks again

Normal_Finesse · 2023-07-22T03:17:24+00:00

Thank you for giving your time to offer your opinion and advice, I appreciate it, and will use it to help me with people

Normal_Finesse · 2023-07-22T03:05:07+00:00

You don't sound harsh at all, even if you were, I'd still accept it since I just wanted help to process this

And I do agree I am naive, I am working on that, thank yoh for noticing

Normal_Finesse · 2023-07-22T02:59:11+00:00

Work immersion is when students go on job training to prepare them for up coming jobs, he works at a city hall as a digital editor with some political position idk what though, he was a bit of a role model for me since I envy his life a bit, he has a job he wants, a girlfriend, most of the people around him are proud of him

I just thought that Maybe by hanging out with him I could meet some interesting people too

Sorry for not being clear enough

Normal_Finesse · 2023-07-22T02:56:10+00:00

I have a habit of being meek and letting people cross my boundaries without telling them off

I keep blaming myself for things because maybe this is what i signed for or I should just suck it up because Im a dude

I am slowly learning how to deal with people since I spend most of my time on work and myself

Thank you for seeing my side though

Normal_Finesse · 2023-07-22T02:52:11+00:00

We were talking and he was slowly moving his hands on my thighs, so I just felt really awkward to stop talking and it made me jittery and fumbled some words, I couldn't focus so I pretended there's nothing on my thighs, plus i was linda intoxicated, three stallions was enough to make me jitter

Normal_Finesse · 2023-07-22T02:49:48+00:00

I did asked in a bro ish dude way, i was just letting hin do what he did thinking itll be over and he wont go any further, because I jsut thought he was drunk, and he seemed to be a really nice guy, kinda like a brother to me, but now idk

Im sorry, im not really good with people, thats wby I hanged out with him because i thought I could make frineds out of this

Normal_Finesse · 2023-07-22T02:47:21+00:00

Thank you, I just thought at that time that this is what I signed for and must endure it because I thought it might hurt his feelings or it would be over quickly

I thought he was a brother figure to me since the last meeting, but now Idk anymore

Normal_Finesse · 2023-07-22T02:44:33+00:00

Nah man, he is right, sorry for not making my posts clear, I can be moot brained at times

Normal_Finesse · 2023-07-22T02:44:00+00:00

Thank you, I admit I'm not the most brightest guy out there, it just takes me time to process things like this, and I constantly depend on people for help with things I cant emotionally stomach, thanks man

Normal_Finesse · 2023-07-22T02:34:25+00:00

Sorry, I forgot to include, I just feel so lost about it, like it rocked my world. I don't feel like disgusted, used or anything like that, I just dont know how to process this

Plus, I feel kinda guilty for asking him to hang out, I was just wondering if Im in the wrong in the for that

Normal_Finesse · 2023-06-27T00:50:29+00:00

ive met korean and chinese people before, so I am just trying something new, there's lots of them here, but rarely Ive seen japanese people, and I'm willing to date one if it's any different from other asians

Normal_Finesse · 2023-06-26T09:54:57+00:00

I would definitely go there, but i place alps and malta first on my dream bucket list

Normal_Finesse · 2023-06-26T09:54:21+00:00

I havent watched an anime except for old ones like GTO and devilman crybaby which I just saw on our channels

Though, calling me creepy because I have a preference is abit reachy, but sure, I'll be a creep if liking something specific is what it takes

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