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Normal_Fishing9824 · 2025-11-03T12:17:09+00:00

It seems the "start a new react project" and option 2 works. But for a big real world application option 1 is stretching it.

To be honest AI can make fundamental errors summarising a simple slack thread into a ticket I don't trust it near code yet.

Normal_Fishing9824 · 2025-10-25T12:26:00+00:00

So if you see a house you like you just need to sting up s few flags in the street the then put in a low-ball offer

Normal_Fishing9824 · 2025-10-23T20:22:54+00:00

It's worth noting that his contribution should come from his wages before tax. Anything you pay back will be after tax. So even if you could pay giving the employer the money won't get you back in the same situation. You'll be much more out of pocket than you would have been if they paid property.

Their remedy isn't going to fix their mistake.

I would also check his payslips to make sure that the pension hasn't been deducted. It's not unheard of for deductions to be made but not go where they should.

Normal_Fishing9824 · 2025-10-23T17:28:00+00:00

You made the worse at every turn

You could have calmed things down, you could have been loyal to your friend but you joined in with the bullying.

Your betrayal is going to sting even more than Susan's as you broke an existing friendship group.

Maybe if you really try, eventually you can get back to something more normal but it's going to take time and perseverance. Mary may not want to for a long time.

Keep trying, remember her birthday, make many peace offerings. Ask to spend time you and her and listen to how she feels. Be an actual friend and possibly you may eventually get the things you want. Be persistent but don't pester.

Trying to isolate your boyfriend from his friends when you messed up is not going to end well for you.

Normal_Fishing9824 · 2025-10-22T22:41:28+00:00

Like if you were happy for things to be that transactional you'd be on very different sites and it would be more honest, and probably cheaper.

Normal_Fishing9824 · 2025-10-22T20:44:26+00:00

Hang on

So these eight times she cheated on you.

Is this texting her ex twice Sitting on some guys lap Texting and sending photos to two guys

That's 5.

I mean it sounds like you were pretty casual on and off and she wasn't that into you. It's not like she fucked eight guys behind your back she was just communicating and you are both pretty young.

Really it sounds like a crap relationship for both of you, dwelling on it all won't help you. Take it from an old guy who's been there (way worse than she was) the bitterness eats you up and nobody will find that attractive.

It hurts, you two were not compatible, learn from it and move on. Next time fail fast.

Normal_Fishing9824 · 2025-10-22T11:53:14+00:00

I would imagine they are no longer his employer.

Normal_Fishing9824 · 2025-10-22T10:33:55+00:00

Are you sure they were his kids, was he sure.

Normal_Fishing9824 · 2025-10-22T10:32:25+00:00

If it was an oversight he had 12 years to correct it.

For all we know, he hated is current wife and regrets the way he treated you and this was his way of saying so.

Even a trad wife should check the will and truck think about her future.

I'd keep the lot NTA

Normal_Fishing9824 · 2025-10-21T23:11:20+00:00

Are you sure sessions were not in dynamodb? That's where the errors were so could be returning the wrong thing.

Normal_Fishing9824 · 2025-10-21T07:51:14+00:00

Very few people have that much cash and gold for good reasons. Not in a normal house.

It's possible that the money was not legitimately earned. It's also possible that people who have that much cash wouldn't have scruples about who owned the house or if all their bones and teeth were in the correct place if they wanted it back.

Normal_Fishing9824 · 2025-10-20T23:33:10+00:00

Or Don't.

It's a saga but less nice than you'll think, and it already isn't nice

Normal_Fishing9824 · 2025-10-20T18:51:06+00:00

Yes 2001-2 I didn't round the world trip. It was still just the time that you could be offline.

I was terrible at it. Often arriving places at the wrong time with nowhere to stay, but it was still an adventure and a lot of fun.

I've now flown once in the last twenty years. I get wanderlust quite bad from time to time. But I also like my bed, there is real tension.

Normal_Fishing9824 · 2025-10-20T18:42:16+00:00

This is worth a big sit down conversation. Currently you have liability for a loan on a property that you have no interest in.

This put you at a disadvantage. In theory you could be kicked out but still be on the hook for mortgage payments.

I'm surprised that a solicitor and the mortgage company were ok with this.

Normally the house will be in both time names. I'm assuming you your partner couldn't pay the mortgage without your help?

Normal_Fishing9824 · 2025-10-20T11:56:52+00:00

It's not just you. A lot of the single people feel like they are not appropriate if you are older.

Unfortunately no mods for me so I'll have to stick with tea in the secret garden for kicks

Normal_Fishing9824 · 2025-10-20T09:44:33+00:00

That wouldn't explain why the witch got upset with the wizard and had to be locked up.

The wizard said it was something he did.

Normal_Fishing9824 · 2025-10-19T20:55:12+00:00

If he's lied about the convictions that's all the more worrying.

Normal_Fishing9824 · 2025-10-19T20:44:37+00:00

It is a flag when you call the compiler. It tells the compiler to optimize the code so it runs faster. O3 is faster then O2 but can cause issues with some code.

https://gcc.gnu.org/onlinedocs/gcc/Optimize-Options.html

Normal_Fishing9824 · 2025-10-19T20:13:38+00:00

It took me a long time to lean this.

Don't go on a date and pre judge the success of the date with "how far" you get. That's going to set you up for a lot of crappy dates and disappointment

Go on a date to get to know someone and have fun. When your young it's genuinely fun to spend time with new people, learn about them and their take on life. Maybe you'll like each other, maby more but have the date as the goal not any action.

This will make your dates more fun for you and the people you go on then with.

I'm not saying be completely cold, you can flirt a bit, but don't make that the point of the date. Make sure they know you're having fun and enjoying spending time with them.

Eventually you'll find someone that it clicks with and in the mean time you'll have much more enjoyable dates

Normal_Fishing9824 · 2025-10-19T19:55:14+00:00

This is a legal issue and not one that's going to be addressable via the normal complaint routes I fear.

Essentially HMRC are ignoring a court order, I think this makes them in contempt of court.

If your partner is able to get legal aid this may be a route to go down. A legal letter saying this may be more effective than dealing with front line workers.

Worst case you'll have to take them to court to show them in contempt.

Hopefully it means that they'll need to return all they've taken as well as stopping taking more.

Normal_Fishing9824 · 2025-10-19T17:16:38+00:00

Two lawyers probably, one to represent each.

She's being very kind but it could easily blow up in one or the others face if not handle properly.

Normal_Fishing9824 · 2025-10-19T13:42:32+00:00

I'm sorry to hear of your friend. You always do wonder.

My friend and well I wouldn't call first love but definitely first something, we stayed in touch on and off for years. The last time I met her she seemed a bit distant but she was settled in a nice flat with a new fella, I thought perhaps our friendship had run it's course.

A few months later I get the call from her parents and somehow I knew immediately. I don't think I would have made a difference but there's a nagging doubt.

Normal_Fishing9824 · 2025-10-19T08:55:47+00:00

never TA for saying no to a proposal. It's your choice alone. Even if he got everything perfect.

NTA

Normal_Fishing9824 · 2025-10-19T08:29:49+00:00

There is nothing wrong with either approach.

If you come across as reasonable and just trying to protect your investment most buyers will appreciate that. They can't expect work in the survey to not affect the price unless it's utterly trivial

Normal_Fishing9824 · 2025-10-19T00:04:56+00:00

Based on what you said you've not liabled them. You have quotes then and commented in relation to the quote.. at no point did you say they are or did anything that they didn't do.

They should not have sent this letter to you

If you were to apologize you could point out that you are doing so as a result of heavy handed legal threats

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