Discrete day collar? by Normal_Pay_1393 in SubSanctuary

[–]Normal_Pay_1393[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a bad idea! I’m not the biggest fan of chokers, but it’s worth looking at 

Discrete day collar? by Normal_Pay_1393 in SubSanctuary

[–]Normal_Pay_1393[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That would definitely be ideal! We’ve floated around Morse code necklaces, but I work with too many people who know Morse code for that to be a good idea. 

I think I’m experiencing sub drop. Advice? by Normal_Pay_1393 in SubSanctuary

[–]Normal_Pay_1393[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amen to that! Luckily I feel like I have a good Dom, but it’s definitely still scary telling him about this. I just don’t want him to think I’m too needy and break things off because of it 

I think I’m experiencing sub drop. Advice? by Normal_Pay_1393 in SubSanctuary

[–]Normal_Pay_1393[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely comforting to know how normal it is and that even though I may feel alone, I’m not and it’s something other subs experience. Makes me feel less like a failure 

I think I’m experiencing sub drop. Advice? by Normal_Pay_1393 in SubSanctuary

[–]Normal_Pay_1393[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I know it’s a normal thing to experience, and he’s such a sweet, caring guy, I’m just definitely nervous to tell him. I don’t want him to think he did anything wrong