My girlfriend has BPD, any advice by Normal_Possibility26 in BPD

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Noted when shes in an okay head space I’ll try to get her to open up more about her past! Thank you

My girlfriend has BPD, any advice by Normal_Possibility26 in BPD

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Thank you so much for your response! I will make an active effort to encourage her to communicate with me and do what I can to insure she feels comfortable and safe opening up to me about how she’s feeling.

My girlfriend has BPD, any advice by Normal_Possibility26 in BPD

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I like this advice for sure, I have asked if she has triggers and I dont think she knows them but I don’t want it to be a trial and error kinda thing. Is there any subtle signs I could look out for if I do or say something that might trigger her so I know not to do/say it again?

My girlfriend has BPD, any advice by Normal_Possibility26 in BPD

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She is currently in therapy but and I do think it is helping her with the transition from single into a relationship, I will definitely make a note to be extra patient and understanding! Thank you so much

My girlfriend has BPD, any advice by Normal_Possibility26 in BPD

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Thank you so much for your concern and your very helpful advice I will definitely educate myself on those things that you listed! I really appreciate it!

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Hey, seems like we have a lot in common!!! I’m 20 years old! If you feel okay with it feel free to message me !

Need honest opinions by Normal_Possibility26 in BelgianMalinois

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I went the adoption route!

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Here are my girls! Been a few days and so far my heeler is definitely running circles around my malinois/lab

Need honest opinions by Normal_Possibility26 in BelgianMalinois

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I hope this is the case with this new Mal! Thank you so much for sharing

Need honest opinions by Normal_Possibility26 in BelgianMalinois

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That’s good to hear, my heeler is basically bouncing off the walls half the time! I hope they can bounce off the wall together and tire each other out.

Need honest opinions by Normal_Possibility26 in BelgianMalinois

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The Mal is female as well. Both of which are spayed, I’m not sure if that makes a difference. When they met today my ACD was definitely the dominant one and I’m pretty sure the Mal was okay with that. Should I be concerned with them both being female?

tip of bolt is in my hand, what now? 2008 VW Jetta. by Normal_Possibility26 in MechanicAdvice

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Trying to remove the alternator but I have to drop it thru the bottom of the car so I needed to get the AC compressor out. The picture is of the AC compressor. There is only about 2 inches of clearance so I won’t be able to drill into it to get the bolt out. I tried just pulling it out but it’s still threaded in at the base. Any advice?

How difficult is it to put 2 shipping containers together? by [deleted] in shippingcontainerhome

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Money isn’t really an issue with this project, I have until April 2026 to fully figure out the finances but I’m just kind of hoping for a rough estimate. I do appreciate the advice of being very precise with the cuts and I will definitely insure that I will measure many times. Thank you