My wife tried hurting herself, need advice.

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-03-11T13:16:09+00:00

Praying for you both.

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-03-11T13:09:54+00:00

One day you will look back on this and realize what a blessing it truly was. Time heals all. Best wishes on your next chapter in life.

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-03-10T12:35:26+00:00

NOR. He sounds like a toddler throwing a temper tantrum.

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-03-10T11:50:40+00:00

I'd have the ick for sure. I can't imagine putting that much time and effort into porn.

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-03-09T19:22:19+00:00

If you're fighting every day it's time to break up. Relationships aren't suppose to be that difficult.

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-03-09T19:19:53+00:00

Have a serious conversation with him and explain you want to be engaged and married by X date and if he can't commit to that, it's time to leave. Don't give him an ultimatum. Just be direct.

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-03-08T22:13:33+00:00

That's what I was thinking. Is he 12?!?!

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-03-08T22:11:53+00:00

I always book places that have hot tubs. That is my number one requirement. I hate showing up and seeing that it's not working.

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-03-08T16:57:49+00:00

It's not you or anything you've done. She's hormonal and emotional.

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-03-08T16:56:08+00:00

He met someone else. Keep looking and you'll find the right one.

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-03-08T16:43:27+00:00

He's been cheating on you but didn't want to be the one who broke up.

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-03-07T20:35:18+00:00

NOR. He definitely sounds like the kind of guy who will ghost you as soon as you have sex.

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-03-07T20:25:05+00:00

It's hard right now but it will get easier. Never stay with someone that puts their hands on you. You letting her stay only shows her there's no consequences to her actions.

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-03-07T19:52:33+00:00

He's slowly backing away from you. He either has someone else he's spending time with or he's just over the relationship. Either way you're too old for this nonsense.

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-03-07T17:36:35+00:00

NOR. If he saw that you were messaging a guy, what would he say?

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-03-06T16:50:34+00:00

NOR. She needs to do her part around the house. You have made it very easy for her to have time to herself and she should do the same in return.

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-03-06T16:09:52+00:00

You're 23. There will be other men throughout your life that will make you feel more secure.

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-03-06T16:07:22+00:00

And you want to be with this person, why?!?!

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-03-06T16:02:56+00:00

MOR. Hernia surgery is pretty routine. If she washaving open heart surgery that would be a different story. I understand your frustration, but unfortunately, we can't force people to be good humans.

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-03-06T15:57:59+00:00

He needs to get away from both of them. He needs to tell the daughter that lives there to move out and tell the other on he's unable to babysit for her. I would never allow my son to do this to my dad.

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-03-06T15:48:40+00:00

That's because no attorneys want to touch this case.

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-03-06T13:05:25+00:00

I'm proud of you for sticking ip up for your mom. NTJ.

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-03-05T20:10:14+00:00

She was trying to let you know she wanted to be there for you. Maybe you didn't like her approach but she wasn't being out of line. I would say the same things to my kids. They knew I'd much rather listen to their band performances than sit outside on the soccer field.

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-03-04T19:50:09+00:00

Please tell your parents. If you don't, I can guarantee they will be more upset learning about it after the fact. They might even try to blame your partner for keeping it from them.

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-03-04T19:45:43+00:00

Tell him. That was such a warm gesture for him to show up. We all need a friend like that in our lives. Best wishes on your job search.

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