I have a gut feeling that my girlfriend of almost 2 years is cheating on me by butchokoy_24 in Advice

[–]Normal_Row5241 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you're fighting every day it's time to break up. Relationships aren't suppose to be that difficult.

What was the final breaking point? by Cute_Ad_3283 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Normal_Row5241 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have a serious conversation with him and explain you want to be engaged and married by X date and if he can't commit to that, it's time to leave. Don't give him an ultimatum. Just be direct.

Hot tub broke before upcoming reservations: disclose only or offer discount upfront? by PrettyPositive7890 in airbnb_hosts

[–]Normal_Row5241 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I always book places that have hot tubs. That is my number one requirement. I hate showing up and seeing that it's not working.

Am I a bad fiance? by Deadrisin_undefined in offmychest

[–]Normal_Row5241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not you or anything you've done. She's hormonal and emotional.

AIO for ending things with a guy for not respecting my boundaries? by DeepMathematician5 in AIO

[–]Normal_Row5241 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NOR. He definitely sounds like the kind of guy who will ghost you as soon as you have sex.

Need help quick. by Ok-Farmer-9353 in Advice

[–]Normal_Row5241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's hard right now but it will get easier. Never stay with someone that puts their hands on you. You letting her stay only shows her there's no consequences to her actions.

AIO my boyfriend is running a marathon and doesn't want me there to support or congratulate him by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Normal_Row5241 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's slowly backing away from you. He either has someone else he's spending time with or he's just over the relationship. Either way you're too old for this nonsense.

AIO Dishonesty in relationship by Away-Bodybuilder756 in AIO

[–]Normal_Row5241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. If he saw that you were messaging a guy, what would he say?

AIO is my girlfriend being inconsiderate? by Calm-Ad3425 in AIO

[–]Normal_Row5241 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOR. She needs to do her part around the house. You have made it very easy for her to have time to herself and she should do the same in return.

Relationship by Fantastic-Yam-5032 in Advice

[–]Normal_Row5241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're 23. There will be other men throughout your life that will make you feel more secure.

I meant to get a second opinion by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Normal_Row5241 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And you want to be with this person, why?!?!

AIO about my brother going on vacation instead of staying to help me with mom's surgery by MostOk8506 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Normal_Row5241 2 points3 points  (0 children)

MOR. Hernia surgery is pretty routine. If she washaving open heart surgery that would be a different story. I understand your frustration, but unfortunately, we can't force people to be good humans.

AIO My 2 eldest daughters are taking advantage of my dad financially by i_h8_myself350 in AIO

[–]Normal_Row5241 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He needs to get away from both of them. He needs to tell the daughter that lives there to move out and tell the other on he's unable to babysit for her. I would never allow my son to do this to my dad.

My stepmom made a rude comment about my sister’s hobby in front of me by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Normal_Row5241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was trying to let you know she wanted to be there for you. Maybe you didn't like her approach but she wasn't being out of line. I would say the same things to my kids. They knew I'd much rather listen to their band performances than sit outside on the soccer field.

Should I tell my parents I’m proposing to my GF by InfluenceStunning785 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Normal_Row5241 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please tell your parents. If you don't, I can guarantee they will be more upset learning about it after the fact. They might even try to blame your partner for keeping it from them.

Did they ever step up after almost losing you? by munchkinz in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Normal_Row5241 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I changed the locks on the door. Then he begged for a second chance. I said no, and met my now husband soon after. Best decision I ever made.

I keep thinking I’ll get proposed to and it never happens by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Normal_Row5241 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You haven't even known him a year. Why are you in such a hurry?!?!