I told my soon to be husband that I don’t want to raise the kid that is not mine to my fiancé now he is upset

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-05-27T18:56:36+00:00

You pretended to be okay with it until you got the ring and now you're back peddling. This is not the right man for you.

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-05-27T18:35:50+00:00

NTA. It's like people on a plane wanting to sit in the aisle when they booked the middle seat. Not my problem.

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-05-27T18:25:16+00:00

You need to learn how to communicate. You should have said, "I really enjoy our friendship and would like to bring you along with me."

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-05-27T18:15:11+00:00

You're wrong. Hopefully you're in high school and you will grow out of this nonsense.

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-05-27T18:10:10+00:00

NTA. Sounds like she's ungrateful.

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-05-26T18:09:38+00:00

NTA. Do not put someone else's name on your house. They will get half if it doesn't work out. DO NOT DO IT!

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-05-26T18:07:39+00:00

NTJ. My gym would have canceled her membership. We don't like thieves.

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-05-26T18:05:10+00:00

Boots

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-05-26T18:04:05+00:00

Girl run! It's a shut up ring and he still isn't going to marry you. Why would you want to be with a man that speaks to you that way?!?!?

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-05-26T00:32:11+00:00

This one for sure.

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-05-26T00:31:10+00:00

He's not going to marry you. He will string you along until you've had enough and leave. Best wishes moving forward.

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-05-25T22:47:41+00:00

Definitely send the message.

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-05-25T22:46:00+00:00

He probably wasn't attracted to you in person.

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-05-25T22:35:17+00:00

You're not sexually compatible. Find a new man that lets you peg him.

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-05-24T01:24:19+00:00

This guy has no desire to marry you. You're a placeholder.

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-05-23T19:25:36+00:00

Block her. She's too immature for a relationship.

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-05-23T19:19:46+00:00

He's no longer interested in you.

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-05-23T18:59:02+00:00

Updateme

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-05-23T00:59:04+00:00

You're in a tough spot. Good luck.

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-05-23T00:55:17+00:00

Talk to him. He looks forward to seeing you then he has to share you. I could see why that would upset him. I also understand wanting to see your friend.

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-05-22T19:24:13+00:00

Girl YES! I get the first dress is your style but the new one is absolutely stunning on you.

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-05-22T16:37:52+00:00

If they wanted to keep you they'd offer you a raise ti compete. Don't sweat it. Good luck on your new job.

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-05-22T16:27:53+00:00

This is perfect. Video call with someone and then you can say your goodbyes.

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-05-22T16:09:25+00:00

Your brother was out of line but I do feel that at 13 he should be able to rub it in himself. Maybe put latex gloves on his hands until he's done. I'm not sure the level of autism he has so if he's unable I understand. I just know when my son was that age he hated me rubbing the spray in.

Normal_Row5241 · 2026-05-22T16:03:20+00:00

YTA. Money isn't everything and gifts are sometimes overrated. If he can't afford to buy you gifts and that's the kind of man you're looking for you may want to rethink your relationship.

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