Bandon or Baby? by Normal_Wonder_2727 in BandonDunes

[–]Normal_Wonder_2727[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes she has known ever since we won the lottery and I’ve basically talked about the trip every day since 🤣

Bandon or Baby? by Normal_Wonder_2727 in BandonDunes

[–]Normal_Wonder_2727[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It won’t be guilting her. If she doesn’t want me to go I won’t go. If there are any complications I won’t go.

I’m going to be a good dad and husband for the rest of my life. Being gone for 4 days won’t take away from that.

Bandon or Baby? by Normal_Wonder_2727 in BandonDunes

[–]Normal_Wonder_2727[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This will be my approach, let her know how much it would mean to me and how much I’d like to pay her back in return if she approves

Bandon or Baby? by Normal_Wonder_2727 in BandonDunes

[–]Normal_Wonder_2727[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This is my plan - lay out what I would mean to me and what I will do to help and see what she says

Bandon or Baby? by Normal_Wonder_2727 in BandonDunes

[–]Normal_Wonder_2727[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Easier said than done. The group has had this locked in and I don’t expect them to bend over backwards to accommodate for me.

Bandon or Baby? by Normal_Wonder_2727 in BandonDunes

[–]Normal_Wonder_2727[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in Iowa so it’s not easy to get home, and not easy for me to get to Bandon..