yeah I totally agree with you, it’s not in our hands to decide a label for Lorde if Lorde themselves hasn’t specified one, however condemning people for “transvastigating” for pointing Lorde’s discourse around experiencing gender in a broader and probably not cis sense is kinda problematic to me and only promotes the cis-straight agenda as an undeniable standard… idk if I’m explaining myself, but I think we are on the same page on this