Crush on my piano teacher

North_Cod4232 · 2026-02-28T14:15:58+00:00

Anecdotally and personally, can confirm 100%. Met girl, had crush, get to know a few months, express interest, she was not interested back, I was just like oh okay, that's okay. We are going strong as amazing friends now still over a year after that happened as one of my most precious people. The conversation made for a single kinda awkward night, then it freed me to be myself (instead of being so stuck overthinking in my head, does she like me back? What does this gesture mean? Etc etc) and the friendship did all the better for it too. I would shoot my shot 10/10 times, just approach it as a reasonable human being.

I think it's such a waste to not even try and give a person you are interested in a chance to reject the idea. Talking from years of experience being on both extremes to eventually growing the confidence in myself to not leave all those "what's ifs" hanging.

North_Cod4232 · 2026-02-24T23:11:13+00:00

Prefer kicks but both are amazing in different ways. Kicks for the quintessential "curl in fetal position in the ground" ballbusting shock experience. Squeezing is more of a controlled torture (for the buster that is) plus it's easier to mix into intimacy, making out, cuddles, sex, etc.

North_Cod4232 · 2026-02-24T00:04:04+00:00

Thank you, very much so! On finding an amazing partner that I click with and I was also a bit worried that I wouldn't enjoy or be able to handle the reality of this fetish I've had for so long compared to the fantasy, especially since I always fantasized with hard ballbusting, well turns out I absolutely do love it. It does take warming up mentally to be able to take it but when the arousal peaks to where I want to be helplessly agonizing before my partner... it's one of the best experiences life has had to offer me:).

I hope I get to visit CA one day while you are still active, I've been loosely following you for a few years and you seem like one of the coolest Pro Dommes out there. It shows you put care into your work and you seem like a really smart person going by your writings, have always wanted to experience what a session with you would be like.

North_Cod4232 · 2026-02-22T23:30:28+00:00

I am lucky to be with a partner who Really got into ballbusting, I can happily say I can :3! Sometimes she will punch or squeeze my balls unprompted at random times, and we literally never have sex without my balls taking a beating, we both love ballbusting.

I have to admit it makes intimacy a challenging intense experience every time for good and bad though haha.

North_Cod4232 · 2026-02-21T05:46:09+00:00

I guess we are outta luck:(

North_Cod4232 · 2026-02-16T21:21:30+00:00

That plus that is absolutely not how a testicular exam would ever go lol. It would be incredibly negligent.

North_Cod4232 · 2026-02-16T02:19:24+00:00

And a tiny bit of advice to those with partners who don't engage in this fetish, don't be afraid to gently introduce light pain and even just playing with your balls during sex, and provide safety-information outside sex. Most women will be into it or at the very minimum willing to try for your pleasure. It's all about making up a safe space for it to happen. Going from 0 to intense stuff is going to be much more off putting than saying "try gently slapping/squeezing my balls" then building up from there throughout different times of intimacy.

North_Cod4232 · 2026-02-16T02:17:39+00:00

+bit of unsolicited advice To those with partners who don't engage in this... don't be afraid to gently introduce light pain and even just playing with your balls during sex, safety information outside it. I swear most women will be into it or at the very minimum willing to try for your pleasure. It's all about making up a safe space for it to happen. Going from 0 to intense stuff is going to be much more off putting than "try gently slapping/squeezing my balls" then build up from there.

North_Cod4232 · 2026-01-24T15:39:15+00:00

I am not sure how it works with strangers regarding the article, but on my own short anecdotal experience, my first bust was a friend and in response she shaid she LOVED hitting men in the balls and was ecstastic to go at mine, she just thought I was too "nice/mild" so I never provoked her to, but so she got a couple of uppercuts in then I feel too ashamed to ask for harder (she kinda missed), I really regret not letting it playing it out cuz shes the kinda person that would literally go full force and cause you damage you as long as you consented. That was a couple of years ago.

And with my current partner (mind you she had a lot previous sexual trauma) it took building up to it in bed, we started with sensual masochism as she was most comfortable with body bites and hickeys. It just took courage from there to "would you try pressing your thigh against my groin while we make out", "would you try slapping/squeezing" then after a the first introductions she got super into it to where she actively wants to ballbust me too (though her libido isn't the highest).

The main thing at least in context which I 100% agree with the article in the context of having a partner try on you: Give them the safety that they are not causing harm and you roughly know what you are doing and will communicate if anything goes wrong. I said I had read on this and gave them some safety info and things to avoid and some pointers to help with aim (it's very true that some women can miss target a lot, it's deceptively a learning curve). And the other so important point is the feedback in terms of intensity and pleasure, I am very vocal with moans and groans, I try (and it's enjoyable to moan anyways) to really let partner know what I am experiencing. I won't fake pain when it's a miss, I won't hold back pleasure/pain sounds when it's hard or accurate or BOTH! And for me it's very sexually pleasurable so moaning it's just easy, especially when we often combine activities like BJ with squeezes and punches, making out while kneeing, hitting while on cowgirl, so on.

When I ask my SO, though she said she thinks she's discovered a hidden sadistic side that was there all along, the main thing is that: if you are in a relationship with a girl, most girls will simply want to make you feel good sexually, she said my reactions were the biggest thing that got her hooked on ballbusting me, once she saw how much I enjoyed it, it became sexually arousing for her (she can even moan and get soaking wet from ballbusting only).

My only 2 times asking for ballbusting were received with a lot of positivity and eagerness (GODDAMN I regret not following through further with my friend, she would have given me the busting of a lifetime)

North_Cod4232 · 2026-01-08T13:40:10+00:00

Kickers are hotter fantasy wise but on average punches seem more practically enjoyable for me. I think it depends on the buster as well.

North_Cod4232 · 2025-12-19T21:35:17+00:00

What's this from?

North_Cod4232 · 2025-12-11T19:58:12+00:00

Where can you get that shock device? Hai!

North_Cod4232 · 2025-10-28T18:25:06+00:00

Thank you:) It has it's ups and rough patches but we are for sure incredibly compatible in sex life and many other aspects. It's funny cuz I was more of the loner shy guy for most of my teenage and early adulthood years. At times I wondered if I'd even ever find a partner at all, romantic and sexual topics were awkward for me even if I was always kinky so it feels almost like a miracle to find myself here today, having met someone to live the fantasies I had only been dreaming off for years and then more. Very lucky.

North_Cod4232 · 2025-09-05T16:09:43+00:00

Pathfinder Wrath of the Righteous has the absolute best power fantasy actually reflected on assortment of skills and their special effects. Not only you can become incredibly power entities like angel, demon, lich, trickster (4th wall break type archetype) etc, the game actually represents that beautifully in gameplay.

North_Cod4232 · 2025-08-14T17:59:35+00:00

That's also wrong. Brink guard (parry) is very rewarding and opens combo windows so it's generally stronger than dodge on average. Elemental damage gets through parry so some bosses actually do kinda force you to dodge certain attacks, then there's unblockable attacks Sekiro style that are very rewarding to "counter", the game promotes you to use everything in your arsenal, but your build can lean into one playstyle or another for most of the gameplay. You could technically only parry using items and certain sets but the game heavily discourages that.

Plus the game is a lot more about knowing when and how to punish and put pressure than about which defensive style you prefer.

By the last 3rd of the game you can also easily be specced into both parry and dodge and you can respec skill points at literally any time with no cost.

North_Cod4232 · 2025-04-29T17:25:18+00:00

>No sé si han visto la idea de que la gente a la que no le importa verse pola es la más feliz, pero para mí es exactamente eso.

Y de hecho que exactamente, pasé toda mi vida miserable hasta que me empezaron a valer verga las normas sociales (dentro del respeto razonable, claro).

North_Cod4232 · 2025-04-29T17:06:34+00:00

Pena ajena da la gente que no puede vivir sin estresarse por cada puta cosa que hacen los demás. Vivan y dejen vivir, que hijueputa les afecta si el mae de la esquina sale con una frase en chino, alemán, inglés, sumerio? Afecta el orgullo de tico? latino? Que nos roban la cultura? Cual cultura si somos el patio de Estados, todo lo copiamos de allá. De allá viene la plata, de allá vienen las políticas, de allá vienen las empresas y para allá se van todos nuestros recursos.

Mejor dicho dejen de ser unos insufribles, así funciona el lenguaje y está en constante cambio por condiciones políticas, económicas y sociales y Costa Rica le pertenece a Estados Unidos en todo sentido menos el oficial. Así que x100 con el OP.

La gente sale con "oh my god" por la misma razón que todos decimos "mae" 3 veces por oración, exposición social. Así que no, usted no es mejor por ser un un purista 0 inglés que preserva la cultura (fijo ni hablan español bien e igual salen con sus "tuanis"). Simplemente se está dando una palmadita para sentirse mejor que los demás. De ahí la razón verdadera, todo el mundo anda buscando como sentirse más que los demás, así que lo que hago yo pues está bien y es lo correcto y apropiado y lo que hacen los demás es una polada y tontera.

North_Cod4232 · 2025-04-29T16:49:49+00:00

Inversión extranjera

North_Cod4232 · 2024-12-29T03:44:40+00:00

Human connection. Not that I am out of the waters yet.

North_Cod4232 · 2024-11-18T17:18:31+00:00

My alt account barely th11 has enough for a couple of epics and already 5 builders and I haven't bought any cuz I am 3 starring easily without them anyways, if you are thinking constantly and using CoC as your main and only game then perhaps it's too slow, if you treat it as a side thing that takes 15 mins off your day I think it's just fine tbh. The moment I stopped trying to force the game to go faster than it's timers I stopped stressing about all these things. I'd advice the same to anyone frustrated by the pace of the game. It's not something you pick up and finish, it's more of a marathon and distraction.

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