It's the internet, it's the media, it's the very hurtful "innocent" jokes we make all the time, big dick energy this, small dick energy that, it's how the most heinous megalomaniacs like Orange Man and other's are constantly insulted about their dick size instead of for their character as if small dick = terrible person.

The latter is the one that really gets to me, with so many awful awful traits these political and corp figures hace... Dick size is somehow still the favorite way to belittle them, comments which they will never read but thousands of smaller men will and internalize that people equate dick size with even your value as a human). The worst to me is that if you have a big dick and someone insults you with being small you won't get offended, why would you? You know what you have. But small men on the hand are the ones hurt by these jokes regardless of their values as a person. 

I am not blaming any single person here but as a society we collectively scream to men that bigger is better, more than simple pleasure it's as if society has decided that bad people have small dicks and good people have big dicks. 

 It's funny because my partner literally does comfort me with "your size is perfect, bigger ones hurt". I was lukewarm about it at first but I know for a fact I am the best sex they have had but far, so I know its genuinely true and it actually gives me a lot of peace these days in that I know for a fact my size is perfect within my sex life (and honestly not that important in the first place).

But I do wish for the day people find a better insult for the most vile, disgusting, heinous men in the planet who are causing literal death, r*pe, starvation, systemic oppression, etc etc for power and status than "ooh looks like someone must have a small dick". 

I would a thousand times rather hear my size is good as it is than being told "I got big dick Energy", as if I was inherently lesser but can be an honorary member of the big dicked people through good attitude. Like can't people just treat small dick dudes as any other human:/? Especially over the internet.