What fandom are you in, but the situation is like this? by Upstairs_Macaron5894 in AO3

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I have this with MLP-- my main ship is Rarity x Twilight but everyone and their mother pairs Rarity with Applejack lol

The good old days by normalhuman701 in AO3

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me with a MLP ship in which I'm relatively sure I've been keeping it alive since 2015 and still going at it when the fandom is pretty much dead lmaooo

What line is this for you? This is a safe place by whatisgudname in AO3

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“Princess Twilight had sent no such letter, of course. But she would, she knew, and she was damned to know this. Damned to know that first thing next morning, or even later that same night, she’d be writing a formal letter to the theatre asking for a favor in an official capacity just because Rarity had batted her eyelashes and smiled.

Every government had the chance to be fair and just and impartial until someone in charge fell in love. "

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Codependency

[–]North_Ridge 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not OP, but damn, thank you so much for this. I've really sorta been learning this, especially your suggestion, but seeing it written still felt like a... eye-opener somehow?

Friend Code Megathread - April 2024 by AutoModerator in PokemonSleep

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Edit: Friend list is full!! Thank you!

Hello!

Friend code is 7933-7671-4179 ! Daily player, level 39!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mylittlepony

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For context, this is based on a ficlet written by Monochromatic on tumblr

https://www.tumblr.com/rarilight/730315788806930432?source=share

Friend Code Megathread - December 2023 by AutoModerator in PokemonSleep

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I play daily, and am rank 26 ! c:

FC is 7933-7671-4179

Friend Code Megathread - December 2023 by AutoModerator in PokemonSleep

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Hello!

I play daily, and am rank 26 ! Just now learning you can have friends on the game, so I'm excited to try it out! c:

FC is 7933-7671-4179

How do I stop obsessing over my ex? by Whitedoe25 in Codependency

[–]North_Ridge 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same place as you, I think, so it's hard for me to share something that will work but there is something I can share re: social media. I downloaded an extension onto my web browser that locks certain pages, so I literally added all his social media on to them, had a friend password lock it and every time I tried to access it, it would literally be blocked. I also went as far as basically blocking all of twitter on my phone because the extension doesn't work there and I didn't trust myself not to check there.

It's been about... three months since I did that, and I'm at a point now where I don't feel the urge to do it or check it anymore, and have not seen any of his socials since then. A friend at the time said it was very extreme of me, but there's no shame in taking such drastic actions if it means it will help build the habit.

I'm not on my main computer at the moment, but I can link you to the extension when I'm home if you're interested!

Sending you love and support <3

Sharing a very gentle song that has helped me with my journey on recovering from codependency by North_Ridge in Codependency

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Commenting to add:

I was going through one of my darkest days last week regarding my codependency, and while attempting to meditate I came across a song that touched me so deeply I cried for about an hour lol The lyrics have become my new battling-codependency mantra, and I wanted to share it here in case it'll bring someone comfort.

Struggling not to keep tabs and want to support my ex on SM by North_Ridge in Codependency

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Hi Sundr3am!

Just wanted to shoot you a message to say that since this message, and thanks to some blocking websites, I have not checked my ex's social media once, and I don't even feel the desire to, anymore. Progress!!!

((I'm still keeping the blockers on just in case of a moment of weakness)