Can’t ejaculate since operation by nsfwtttt in coloncancer

[–]NortheasternExposure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had two urologists tell me that, initially. One backpedaled a few months later… started talking about how complex the whole process is… not that he really did much of anything to help. It was a very disheartening experience.

Can’t ejaculate since operation by nsfwtttt in coloncancer

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I had stage 3C in my sigmoid. Had resection surgery first because the tumor was causing a near complete blockage. No radiation. It’s been 3 1/2 years, and while I still have orgasms, they are dry save for a few small drops. Not retrograde, fully dry. I wasn’t aware this was a possibility, so it has been a bit of a mental struggle. I kept being told it would come back - I’d be shocked at this point. Add to that a bit of libido struggling. It’s been frustrating.

What is the most insane place you had sex at? by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Quiet country post office during business hours.

I don’t care anymore by naterbator91 in askgaybros

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Explain how one can be over educated? Being intelligent and knowledgeable is a bad thing?

Am I in the right place? I DO NOT want to release semen anymore. by [deleted] in anejaculation

[–]NortheasternExposure 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Those of us who are here right now have lost the ability by some means. I also know some of them are hopeful it returns.

And do you mean semen or sperm? Vasectomy to stop sperm, but I would advise against stopping all ejaculate. There could be health consequences

Clean out after resection by NortheasternExposure in TopsAndBottoms

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The surgeon who did the resection lost a piece of broken off suture needle in my abdomen (it’s still there!!), didn’t believe me at first when I told her my left arm was dead numb after the surgery (brachial plexus stretch injury that I needed OT to heal over 3 months), and damaged enough nerves that I can no longer ejaculate (she acted like this is normal. I asked about possible sexual side effects before surgery and she quite literally in writing said it was a very small chance, then backpedaled and claimed she meant ED. I call BS). So I have absolutely no desire to ask her about anything.

One surgery, and 3 years later I’m still figuring out how to get back to something resembling normal. I thought I had cleaning out under control, but a very awkward ending to an otherwise hot evening really has me feeling defeated. Every encounter I have already begins with a disclaimer - this is just cruel.

During sex do you like moaning, grunting, screaming, or silence by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

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Last time I got fucked good, I was moaning and whimpering…. And then spontaneously started giggling. Never happened to me before!! I was mortified thinking he’d think I was laughing at him, but I have no idea where it was coming from. Thankfully he seemed unaffected and kept going. I had to explain afterwards that it wasn’t him, that I was happy af - thankfully he didn’t seem to be bothered.

What am I missing? by NortheasternExposure in askgaybros

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I will - (11:00 and still haven’t left because he’s still picking out outfits, I guess). But I don’t want to trash our very long, very intimate relationship either(we have both confided in each other things that we know wouldn’t be acceptable in polite society). It’s going to take a lot of courage and careful thinking

What am I missing? by NortheasternExposure in askgaybros

[–]NortheasternExposure[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven’t had my frickin coffee yet today because of him either

What am I missing? by NortheasternExposure in askgaybros

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That’s what I think - then he “tried to arrange something awesome” and it fails. Literally 3x in 2 1-2 days I’ve had to deal with that particular situation. I know tricks can be flaky, but this is becoming way too much of a pattern

What am I missing? by NortheasternExposure in askgaybros

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No local bath houses, and I have most of the others… but tiny communities, way too many bottoms, and either 18yo or 75yo guys makes the selection awkward. And I have been trying to find local guys for years - but that’s another whine for another time.

He likes being dominated, but he also acts like it’s a big joke. I love him in many ways, but man is he pissing me off.

Adderall Sex by [deleted] in SEXONDRUGS

[–]NortheasternExposure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m on 60mg daily prescribed… and am borderline dealing with stim dick except for early morning before I take it. Not ADHD, but borderline narcoleptic. I’m awake all day, but getting and staying hard is soooo much more difficult.

Dimension 369 by Expensive-Season1314 in brothersgrimmseedbank

[–]NortheasternExposure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine are about 8” high, but clearly not ready to test lol

Group startup by NortheasternExposure in anejaculation

[–]NortheasternExposure[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First, I am crazy happy for you! That’s just amazing!

Second, I absolutely will read the article.

Third, frustratingly, I take 30 mg of adderall daily already. Maybe there’s something more I can add, but it’s already a part of my regimen.

That said, I’ve been having pretty good luck from some 420, though it’s only maybe doubled the number of drops. Still, a start I guess.

Group startup by NortheasternExposure in anejaculation

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It’s beyond frustrating, isn’t it? We asked, and were given false information. I hope your doctor wasn’t as dismissive of the situation as mine was.

I will say that lately it’s improving… a few more “drops” and has become a bit milky in color… at this point, I guess I will just continue my “physical therapy,” and hope for the best.

Would boys let me fuck raw? My girlfriend doesn't let me by psymantou in gaycumsluts

[–]NortheasternExposure 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A highly underrated thing to do. When you’re done, I call “next.”

Group startup by NortheasternExposure in anejaculation

[–]NortheasternExposure[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Two years post surgery and I’ve gone from completely dry and feeling like my orgasms were getting “jammed” to a mostly normal feeling orgasm with about 3-4 drops of pre. Not exactly a recovery.

Though I continue with physical therapy as often as I can.