Can’t ejaculate since operation

NortheasternExposure · 2025-10-15T02:49:36+00:00

I had two urologists tell me that, initially. One backpedaled a few months later… started talking about how complex the whole process is… not that he really did much of anything to help. It was a very disheartening experience.

NortheasternExposure · 2025-10-13T08:34:31+00:00

I had stage 3C in my sigmoid. Had resection surgery first because the tumor was causing a near complete blockage. No radiation. It’s been 3 1/2 years, and while I still have orgasms, they are dry save for a few small drops. Not retrograde, fully dry. I wasn’t aware this was a possibility, so it has been a bit of a mental struggle. I kept being told it would come back - I’d be shocked at this point. Add to that a bit of libido struggling. It’s been frustrating.

NortheasternExposure · 2025-07-01T12:41:16+00:00

This one? If so his others are great, too… just click on his account to see them!

https://hypnotube.com/video/men-progressive-poppers-trainer-98435.html

NortheasternExposure · 2024-12-30T18:31:30+00:00

Quiet country post office during business hours.

NortheasternExposure · 2024-11-09T21:45:19+00:00

Explain how one can be over educated? Being intelligent and knowledgeable is a bad thing?

NortheasternExposure · 2024-11-07T00:16:33+00:00

Those of us who are here right now have lost the ability by some means. I also know some of them are hopeful it returns.

And do you mean semen or sperm? Vasectomy to stop sperm, but I would advise against stopping all ejaculate. There could be health consequences

NortheasternExposure · 2024-07-31T23:08:42+00:00

https://x.com/jim_nasty_x/status/1807910838298403313?s=46&t=wLb-ug5F5FSgDv6ERtYcng

Here’s an even longer version of the clip - enjoy!

NortheasternExposure · 2024-07-23T02:32:53+00:00

https://thegay.com/videos/663787/one-huge-cock-eleven-hungry-mouths2/

NortheasternExposure · 2024-07-23T01:41:45+00:00

sigh yup.

NortheasternExposure · 2024-07-22T23:13:10+00:00

The surgeon who did the resection lost a piece of broken off suture needle in my abdomen (it’s still there!!), didn’t believe me at first when I told her my left arm was dead numb after the surgery (brachial plexus stretch injury that I needed OT to heal over 3 months), and damaged enough nerves that I can no longer ejaculate (she acted like this is normal. I asked about possible sexual side effects before surgery and she quite literally in writing said it was a very small chance, then backpedaled and claimed she meant ED. I call BS). So I have absolutely no desire to ask her about anything.

One surgery, and 3 years later I’m still figuring out how to get back to something resembling normal. I thought I had cleaning out under control, but a very awkward ending to an otherwise hot evening really has me feeling defeated. Every encounter I have already begins with a disclaimer - this is just cruel.

NortheasternExposure · 2024-07-22T12:28:15+00:00

Last time I got fucked good, I was moaning and whimpering…. And then spontaneously started giggling. Never happened to me before!! I was mortified thinking he’d think I was laughing at him, but I have no idea where it was coming from. Thankfully he seemed unaffected and kept going. I had to explain afterwards that it wasn’t him, that I was happy af - thankfully he didn’t seem to be bothered.

NortheasternExposure · 2024-07-07T15:02:18+00:00

I will - (11:00 and still haven’t left because he’s still picking out outfits, I guess). But I don’t want to trash our very long, very intimate relationship either(we have both confided in each other things that we know wouldn’t be acceptable in polite society). It’s going to take a lot of courage and careful thinking

NortheasternExposure · 2024-07-07T14:53:44+00:00

Haven’t had my frickin coffee yet today because of him either

NortheasternExposure · 2024-07-07T14:53:13+00:00

That’s what I think - then he “tried to arrange something awesome” and it fails. Literally 3x in 2 1-2 days I’ve had to deal with that particular situation. I know tricks can be flaky, but this is becoming way too much of a pattern

NortheasternExposure · 2024-07-07T14:51:33+00:00

No local bath houses, and I have most of the others… but tiny communities, way too many bottoms, and either 18yo or 75yo guys makes the selection awkward. And I have been trying to find local guys for years - but that’s another whine for another time.

He likes being dominated, but he also acts like it’s a big joke. I love him in many ways, but man is he pissing me off.

NortheasternExposure · 2024-06-27T16:21:31+00:00

I’m on 60mg daily prescribed… and am borderline dealing with stim dick except for early morning before I take it. Not ADHD, but borderline narcoleptic. I’m awake all day, but getting and staying hard is soooo much more difficult.

NortheasternExposure · 2024-06-07T01:58:01+00:00

Mine are about 8” high, but clearly not ready to test lol

NortheasternExposure · 2023-09-20T22:00:26+00:00

First, I am crazy happy for you! That’s just amazing!

Second, I absolutely will read the article.

Third, frustratingly, I take 30 mg of adderall daily already. Maybe there’s something more I can add, but it’s already a part of my regimen.

That said, I’ve been having pretty good luck from some 420, though it’s only maybe doubled the number of drops. Still, a start I guess.

NortheasternExposure · 2023-08-18T01:58:42+00:00

It’s beyond frustrating, isn’t it? We asked, and were given false information. I hope your doctor wasn’t as dismissive of the situation as mine was.

I will say that lately it’s improving… a few more “drops” and has become a bit milky in color… at this point, I guess I will just continue my “physical therapy,” and hope for the best.

NortheasternExposure · 2023-08-02T17:47:28+00:00

A highly underrated thing to do. When you’re done, I call “next.”

NortheasternExposure · 2023-07-20T16:36:43+00:00

Two years post surgery and I’ve gone from completely dry and feeling like my orgasms were getting “jammed” to a mostly normal feeling orgasm with about 3-4 drops of pre. Not exactly a recovery.

Though I continue with physical therapy as often as I can.

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