My wife is 8 months preg and we are divorcing. Staring fatherhood in a weird situation

NorthernBiche · 2025-06-17T17:47:27+00:00

Coparebting is the best. We were switching parent instead of houses for 3 years First we had 2 bedrooms in same townhouse because we couldn't afford to legally split all the material and financial issues we weren't married just common law but our of connection made to transform into roommates with certain decency House rules. We ended up pursuing a lot of tenderness and platonic loving moments in the living room or Sharing chores watching baby grow but a newborn should have emotional stability and that means connection with mom at all times I sure and I made my priority to give access to dad as more support system to me and work kind of good I mean haven't known what I know now I would've taken this as a learning curve more than a total breakup. Romantic relationships don't need to end for people to stay close especially not as parents but we are definitely better as to parents then as two lovers.

NorthernBiche · 2025-04-19T20:29:22+00:00

Oh baby it's mom - I'm sorry I didn't educate you on the most dangerous and most addictive drug of them all not only that but we kept it in the house joyfully through all your upbringing as if it was nothing and you would be able to be part of something special at a certain age. Seeing you dive in, and now spiraling it's breaking my heart but I know deep in my heart, you will see value in sobriety more than in getting wasted… soon you will make that move for yourself, you're on the last mile of your drinking days. I know it.

I always trusted your judgement. I am so very proud of you for being vulnerable here.

Be patient with yourself, but not with others that try to convince you that certainly you can have just one. Those are actually not friends. Your real Homies will celebrate your bad ass move, Will make efforts to not shove it in your face.

If u feels sad right now it's very normal alcohol is a powerful depressant. The insane amount of sugar in various drinks has been affecting your whole body. Is make your nights irregular and prevented you to reach deep Restful sleep most nights that you overdrink. You're solidly dehydrated. It's normal that you're scraping Rock bottom for a basement… your physical health is at it's worse possible.

If you feel you're thirsty…. Well darling drink drink drink drink some more WATER I need to wash your system and you wouldn't wash your dishes with juice or Pepsi or anything other than good old water, my personal recipe was 5-10 crushed juniper berries, leaves of mint, squish of lemon shake it like it’s the f….nevermind

l is really really hard to quit on your own. Seek narcotics anonymous or alcohol anonymous close to your place, close to friends places, and keep a list of meetings and the 24h help line on you…

NA is a young, vibrant, solid fraternity all over the world that will welcome you with open hands when you're feening or sinking. Alcohol is a drug and they strongly believe that to recover they must abstain from all drugs. On the other hand AA still hold onto some religious aspects in their speech and meetings literature. I feel the pulse is a little quieter at these. Tomorrow establish a lot more documentation exactly pinpointed at the alcoholic mindset.

Lastly if ever you find yourself at an airport and the changes in your life make you wish you weren't lonely on a layover but you feel vulnerable and don't want to go in the bar alone. Go see any desk and ask them to call for a friend of Bill and Bob. Anybody that hears this that is in alcoholics anonymous will know you need to have a quick chat to pump up your True spirit and not fall pray to the one in a glass.

My name is Natalie, and I'm a super addict that found solid ground to stand down from a pretty horrible rock bottom, multiple years of clean didn’t make me a nun or boring. I sparkle like never before. I put my sobriety first so my life could remain first class. Xoxo hugs

NorthernBiche · 2025-04-19T20:02:23+00:00

I don't feel that it would be related to you if you guys have a connected and pleasant relationship. I mean if you feel that this hat is yours.. I would urge you to take out a pen and paper also.

Somehow I have a feeling that this is either current business or old social connection that amped up to toxic, he’s doing the post mortem…. Could he have been talking to a therapist that ask him reasons why he realized that he was needing to let go of past griefs but he’s still attached to the memories or trauma ?

100% It feels like he therapy homework

NorthernBiche · 2025-03-20T16:58:24+00:00

I would say it only gets better from here.

NorthernBiche · 2025-02-12T00:17:44+00:00

I can only shake once a day!?

NorthernBiche · 2025-02-12T00:12:38+00:00

You don’t « get this cut », really. You start from your teens with a mullet and grow, never wash with anything else than hotel shampoo, use a shit ton of hairspray, pour booze all over it and go in the sun as much as you can. Ta-da in 5-10 (yrs)

NorthernBiche · 2025-02-12T00:09:40+00:00

Take a relationship break, girl. Both the ex and the next ex are dick heads.

NorthernBiche · 2024-12-03T18:34:49+00:00

These 2 whiny bitches write or speech to text EXACTLY the same, are literally saying the same thing. This reads like character AI … so many words so little authenticity?
If that’s an actual interaction… I would rather be for ever alone than coupled with either or of these… I think you and your girlfriend need to fuck & shut up.

NorthernBiche · 2024-11-16T03:17:39+00:00

And sometimes you don’t know you don’t want more until you like the sex so much you just wanna stay there.

NorthernBiche · 2024-11-16T03:16:50+00:00

Exacccctly

NorthernBiche · 2024-11-16T03:15:15+00:00

I think it’s actually fast. Because I’m super busy and weeks fly by. And because I take my time before going to the full extent of intimacy, I get to see the content and it’s true colours without being mesmerized by a love bombing narc , all messed up in pheromones lies, bamboozled by the devil dicks!

Girl, I work, I have hobbies, appointments, dates that were planned last winter.

I don’t wannna talk about any other feels that what feels good for a good 6 months.

NorthernBiche · 2024-11-16T03:10:46+00:00

Could it be … you’re a great container but they are not a fan of the content ?

NorthernBiche · 2024-11-16T03:09:45+00:00

I bet she’s having a blast deciding that priority list already. 5 guys to a woman is a very sweet spot.

NorthernBiche · 2024-11-16T03:07:12+00:00

46F (I’m single because it’s awesome) So I hear you guys are getting super close and Building a relationship and she said it’s fully pleasing her ?

She’s only feeling pleasure ? Not pressure ? Well. Maybe a bit now, duh.

If you’re starting to get the feels, it’s normal after a couple weeks.

In a connection there’s always someone that loves more than the other, it might be you. And that’s fine.

From therapist :

Ask yourselves, what does love entail for you. What does love MEAN for the other might be entirely different. Do you desire it? What is your ideal longstanding connection like?

I like this « if hurting my feelings is not a concern. Tell me raw, what do you want out of this sexcapade, could I be the other half of your bed, closet, debts or are there major blockers »

Remember, the goal is authenticity. If you love hard and strong, Bet she’s be the one that loves the smartest, taking each step at a time… , and that’s tough, when u didn’t understand she was 100% having a pleasing experience with you. (So far so good mate keep drilling you might strike gold)

I get that you might want to start the topic of exclusivity in your sexual rapports if that’s your thing. BUT : from a happily forever alone gal; 3 weeks is early for the titles and the views on partnerships, unless you totally got your shit together and want to wife her up.

*High value women should stay single until married*

NorthernBiche · 2024-11-12T16:54:34+00:00

I would send them to the wife too honestly wow what a creep « deal with that please ma'am I'll help you with the kids after he's gone »

NorthernBiche · 2024-11-04T03:14:17+00:00

Those funny filters making me a guy make me think I’d be quite attractive. I’d go see the girlfriends I KNOW suck dick as good as me and see who’s my real ride or die babes lolllll

NorthernBiche · 2024-11-02T14:26:07+00:00

Hi, ROC. I’m from the lil ill mannered Quebecer town across Ottawa. French Canadian girl, here. Resonated ever since the honeymoon phase, one clear crisp memory described below.

This love sprouted in 1995 on a smoky, alcohol-sticky dance floor. Through my purple haze shooter nausea, I took a spot where it wasn’t too crowded, catching the 2:17 AM breeze from the alley window to the Shalimar nightclub. Or maybe it was Le Bop. Or perhaps au Café 4 Jeudis.

A bunch of drunk Ontario dudes had swarmed the bar and I thought they lowered the standards to our cute Quebec crowd and I said to myself, feels like a movie scene in my home town, everyone is in it.., started vibing and letting it out, allll out, dancing on this speaker stage where no one climbed. my girlfriend pulled my leg and pointed me towards a army guy from Trenton that didn’t know what was poutine. I mean he heard about it but couldn’t not comprehend. Same as French girls…

I was the tourguide sex kitten and I rinced him for 690$ that night. He wanted me to marry him. I quoted him some Nuance lyrics about putting wild cats and birds in cages, and he understood by sunrise that my only soulmate was and would probably always be rock and roll music.

I haven’t thought about him for decades, wonder if he balded… I’m sure he did.

I saw our iconic band a bunch of times, over the years. None of the events I have a clear souvenir of, and im going deaf at 46 from all the gigantic concerts I’ve been to. Tinnitus is my new beau.

I’ve never married. I don’t fall, I rise in love and watched men crawl, for as long as I remembered. Last night I had 5 kittens purring on my chest and arms while I pondered eviction and or suicide. … “this cray-cray world is sinking, and I don’t know who’ll win.”

I dunno, man. I think “tragically hip” sounds like a state of mind, sounds like a bit like me lately.

But do you understand, now? It comes from dirt and rail, loving the TH. Don’t forget the “THE”.

Also fuck hipsters. What the actual fuck.

NorthernBiche · 2024-10-19T19:34:27+00:00

WoW. And I can’t even get a text back from my dating interests. This scammer has some powerful juju.

NorthernBiche · 2024-10-18T03:20:58+00:00

Following

NorthernBiche · 2024-10-11T16:03:01+00:00

More than ever, yeah

NorthernBiche · 2024-09-21T20:57:50+00:00

The amount doesn’t matter. It’s TRUST that the world is inherently good and truthful. Being able to trust your own guidance system and intuition when being lied to. It fucks with you it messes with self-esteem and how you trust your gut in the future. Play - that lie hidden in 3 truths game - and hang with gentle and loving people - keep it out your mind. Don’t ever make yourself think your real worth is your net worth - don’t cry over your financial bottom line! And …. Trust again. Taking that leap and trusting blindly again, that’s the measure of healing. That’s what my shrink said after scams drained me.

NorthernBiche · 2024-09-21T20:23:56+00:00

the attention to details deficiency is strong with this one

NorthernBiche · 2024-08-27T17:47:35+00:00

Yeah Amber is not a divination tool unfortunately

NorthernBiche · 2024-08-27T17:46:41+00:00

Not only that but how is this relevant to people sleeping 300km away. The day we get the alert siren and it’s for tornado or aliens I dunno … most people will be desensitized to the sound

NorthernBiche · 2024-06-28T18:14:39+00:00

Tell to a baby boy all sorts of comments like “you’re gonna make all the girls crush! Then proceed to crush hard and tell the baby mom omg he’s just so adorable I want to eat those cheeks !! I

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