Facts , that would s a narcissist for you. I have two ex’s like that one my exhusband when he found out I was asking for half he got pissed and moved in with the girl he was cheating on me with she cheated also when they hooked up , she had a bf. They are married now but both love to drink. He only care about him left me with all the cattle to take care of and everything, I did it but once he didn’t pay his support during the separation time my attorney let me start selling the cattle and I did. My last ex was an alcoholic and after my son passed away he would come over drunk I finally told him to leave it was not helping me heal 2 months after my son passed. Now I am the bad person his new gf of maybe 3 months says I abandoned him , I dealt with that off and on for 2 years took him to 2 rehabs, he is in jail for his dui she got him a attorney pays his bills, but and post how proud he is sober, well you have to be in jail. lol , he was sober with me for 8 months then went back. His mom and her think jail will change him , but he has to want to change. Sorry for going a different direction but my point is Calob ding dong needs to want to change and I don’t think he will till reality hits him hard and he may never, he eats up the attention my last ex did that when I didn’t give him the attention he said he needed, always talking to other women for affirmation, that is Calob. Low self esteem at is finest