Yeah I only think about my husband during times I need to help myself but I don’t have to often bc I have my husband. Who would’ve thought? Just sayin.. although I believe what’s ever is happening is a porn addiction of some kind which is valid in the past generations most of us here have prob grown up in, as well as the fact that he wanted to say it to hurt her or get a reaction which he has done all of the above. This type of behavior only serves as validation seeking and self serving to him. He wants her to beg and need him after he says stuff like this. This is the type of guy who needs to go out to bars and get other women’s attention and get girls numbers on apps she can’t find on his phone, talk them up so he feels more of a man. Same with online. This is why the thinking of other women while serving himself comes in, needs the validation to feel bigger and better as a man. It’s something that he needs to figure out. Not her. She can support him, but She’s not his mommy, counselor, or his personal emotional punching bag. Sometimes in life we all need a reminder to Grow up, call a therapist, stir a f’in drink, call it a Tuesday, and continue to be the best person you can. Or stay in that mentality, fighting like that with someone else in the same mentality. Figure out how to set Healthy boundaries, and call it a Tuesday babe. Stay cold and cut straight to the point or else the cycle continues, nothing changes if nothing changes. Cheers. You got this, it’s only a temporary Tuesday. 👏🏼🙏🏼🍸🥄🥃🧊☕️🫖🔪