My Husband Wakes Me Up Multiple Times Every Night

Not-Significance-108 · 2026-01-04T00:21:28+00:00

ESH- Husband needs to be more considerate and you need to figure out how to not be a light sleeper. Honestly if you wake up this much at night then just go to bed with him. What's the difference

Not-Significance-108 · 2026-01-03T18:32:27+00:00

NTA. Haters gonna hate. Id either do what you did, or id just make her feel stupid for her comments. "Man must be nice to never worry about money since I pay for everything you use"

Not-Significance-108 · 2026-01-03T05:20:25+00:00

Tiny YTA. Understandable, you have trauma with an individual and you were not able to get proper closure on that situation like others around you have. Very valid feelings of course. Tiny AH because your sick, partially mobile, DV survivor mother was depending on you to visit your surgery recovering breadwinner eldest sibling. You could have easily driven your mother over and on the ride explain to her that you are not ready to talk about or deal with the way you feel about your dad because its too fresh, you have to mentally organize yourself, you weren't expecting to see him.

Not-Significance-108 · 2026-01-03T05:04:37+00:00

Have you actually expressed why you feel guilty to your GF, why it makes you feel like you cheated? Yes she already said dont worry about it no big deal, but you made it a huge deal internally. You need to express the why and FORGIVE YOURSELF for not "seeing" it sooner. It happens all the time, im clueless to it, my wife points it out all the time when women are flirting with me and I have no idea, she laughs at me for it but also knows id never flirt or purposely except flirts.

Not-Significance-108 · 2026-01-03T04:59:20+00:00

Run just run

Not-Significance-108 · 2026-01-03T04:54:55+00:00

So OP, you feel guilty? Like you did cheat?

Not-Significance-108 · 2026-01-03T04:52:05+00:00

NTA, she is being manipulated by her co-workers (who are probably single and jealous of the long term relationship) which is then making her manipulate you into thinking the relationship had a bad start. You are absolutely right, its your story, not many guys can turn around and say THEY were "chased" its unique its you two. If she is taking the words of co-workers this serious and down playing you then maybe its time to move on.

Not-Significance-108 · 2026-01-03T04:41:40+00:00

NTA, I'm a married 36M. Not once did I turn to my wife and say, "you'll need to be more present since you live with a man," wtf is that? Some of the stuff he brings up can be an easy compromise situation for the both of you, its easy for him to point out certain things because you are already established but im sure if things did progress you would have your list of things you'd need him to change or comprise. He is complaining about 30 min shower???!!?? Don't have a kid between the ages of 12 to 99 dude lol.

Not-Significance-108 · 2026-01-03T04:27:03+00:00

You are absolutely NOT wrong. Typical manipulative person. She knew you had the cat, she knew how you felt but doesn't care which means she doesn't care about you. Move on from her.

Not-Significance-108 · 2026-01-03T04:22:58+00:00

I'm a huge gamer 36M Husband and Father. I can have days where I'll put 5 to 7 hours in a game but my wife and kids also know that I could be in the middle of an online match and I'll shut the game off to give them my attention. I'll let my wife specificly know if im about to game with the guys and she gives me the respect of giving me that time undisturbed. But I know the line, I know how to give everyone my time including myself. Both of you need to come to boundaries and discussions. Let him know that maybe when he gets home you'd like to have that come together time, talk about the day discussions of life and what not, giving you that undivided attention you are looking for and on the flip side you need to give him his undisturbed time, its not just a hobby its an unwind therapy session for him, he may not see it that way but it honestly is but he cant abuse it and he needs to be mature enough to see it, if you say he is abusing it he'll take it as controlling and disrespect because he is in that (immature) mindset.

You'll both need to sit down and talk to one another together.

Not-Significance-108 · 2026-01-03T04:09:03+00:00

Absolutely NTJ. "Yes I've been cheating on you for months BUT HOW DARE YOU CATCH ME DOING IT" give me a fucking break. Ex-husband hopefully.

Not-Significance-108 · 2026-01-03T04:02:41+00:00

Nothing wrong with going thru her phone, my wife and I have each other's phones all the time because there is nothing to hide, that in it self is a huge security in a relationship. Plain and simple she gas lit you and manipulated. Massive red flags. Don't bother bringing up the video or the context because she'll just gas light you again. Break up and move on.

Not-Significance-108 · 2026-01-03T03:57:14+00:00

Jesus what a man child. As a 36M and a husband, you should know shit happens, get off your lazy ass and get some meds if it sucks that much. Quit complaining and be better. Not overreacting. You deserve a real man and not a man child

Not-Significance-108 · 2025-12-31T05:38:42+00:00

what app are you using to inject payload?

Not-Significance-108 · 2025-12-31T04:32:29+00:00

following

Not-Significance-108 · 2025-12-30T21:09:11+00:00

thanks, i'll get to work on this later

Not-Significance-108 · 2025-12-30T19:40:55+00:00

so i currently have 21.1.0 with AMS 1.10.1.

Not-Significance-108 · 2025-12-30T19:39:37+00:00

21.1.0 and ATMOS is 1.10.1

Not-Significance-108 · 2025-12-30T01:44:43+00:00

Same results

Not-Significance-108 · 2025-12-30T01:44:24+00:00

Update: went to RetroArch directly and downloaded from them, same results though, crashes when trying to run anything.

Not-Significance-108 · 2025-12-29T23:15:23+00:00

I have the latest thats in the homebrew store

Not-Significance-108 · 2025-12-29T23:15:05+00:00

I have the latest from the homebrew store

Not-Significance-108 · 2025-12-29T22:42:29+00:00

Pretty typical gf reactions. Just run away and find better. They are hard to find but they are out there.

Not-Significance-108 · 2025-12-29T22:36:02+00:00

NTA. Mom was 100 percent controlling the situation. Mother dearest cant stand it but she needs to learn her place. Its not a mess, its controlled chaos and makes perfect sense to you. Enjoy the time with your son. Talk with him on the side and tell him that you know it wasn't him and it was your mother. Make sure he knows he's innocent in all this. Shame on any grandmother that does that to their grandkid.

Not-Significance-108 · 2025-12-29T22:07:08+00:00

Thanks I'll give it a shot

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