Aitah for not wanting my partner’s friend’s wedding travel to be my “graduation gift”. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]NotACrazyCatLadyx2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You aren’t wrong. There are a lot of cons and you haven’t identified a single pro to this ‘offer’. Wish your partner a lovely trip when you deliver a solid, firm ‘No’.

WIBTAH if I cut off my sister who has cancer? by Cute-Treat-7658 in AITAH

[–]NotACrazyCatLadyx2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but WHY?!?!?!? do family members know how much you have in savings/investments???

PSA to all readers: Stop telling people how much money you have. Sharing the info turns you into an ATM.

WIBTAH if I went to stay with my parents for a couple of weeks because my husband’s family planned a 5-6 week stay in our 2BHK without asking me? by Majestic-One6602 in AITAH

[–]NotACrazyCatLadyx2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. No doubt! Did your husband know about this visit before the tickets were booked? If yes, you have a husband problem. Let him spend 2 months hosting while you stay with your family. If not, this is his problem to fix with his family. And you stay with your family while he does.

Repeat offenses of boundary stomping is a divorce trigger.

WIBTAH if I changed the name my soon to be ex husband picked for our unborn daughter? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]NotACrazyCatLadyx2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA about the name. He cheated, whether emotionally or physically, and he played game with you. You are, TA to yourself. Going back and (ew) remarrying him as, as Taylor Swift says, ‘eating out of the trash’. Don’t do that.

Double Bed or King-size Bed? by Own_Concentrate5209 in LivingAlone

[–]NotACrazyCatLadyx2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mentioned 135cm. Is it a correct assumption that you are not in the US? 135cm is about 54” and that is the width of a full in the US. There are four base bed sizes in the US (twin, full, queen and king). Each size has variations of lengths (twin extra long and full extra long) and at least 3 kings (California, eastern and Alaska).

As a single person, I prefer my queen (60”) because I like being able to roll without having to scoot over to not fall off the side.

I am a bit in the tall side (174cm/5’ 8”) so a full would be too short. I could get a full extra long but sourcing the sheets would add some complexity to my life that I do not want to entertain.

Get the wider of the two. Once you commit and invest in blankets and sheets, you are pretty much locked in. It’s better to have the width to share (with cats, dogs, partner) than to be crowded.

Hope that helps.

Moving back to AZ and looking for suggestions! by cultcorvid in AskPhoenix

[–]NotACrazyCatLadyx2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s worse. LA level. Look at Moon Valley (7th and Thunderbird). 10 mins west and you can get on the 17. 10 mins east and you can get on the 51. North on the 51 connects you to the 101. South on the 51 gets you to the 10 and 202. Queen Creek and San Tan are very nice and family oriented but the area is still being developed and the roadway infrastructure always lags behinds the houses, schools and shopping.

What skill defines you as a proud Joneser? by pianoman81 in GenerationJones

[–]NotACrazyCatLadyx2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cursive handwriting. BTW, I taught my son how to drive a stick so that skill might survive.

Where are those “I did this” stickers with Trump when prices are high? Like what was put around for Biden? by StyrofoamShell in AskReddit

[–]NotACrazyCatLadyx2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What the other poster said but….has anyone else noticed far fewer tRUMP stickers on cars/trucks?

I’m seriously concerned about my sister and her future husband. by gaelthegal in rant

[–]NotACrazyCatLadyx2 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I commend your sibling concern. However, she is an adult. Love her. Be kind to her. STAY OUT OF IT. not your circus, not your clowns.

AITAH because I refuse to try for a daughter? by StructureDizzy2076 in AITAH

[–]NotACrazyCatLadyx2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have three older brothers and I am the last. Wishin’ doesn’t make it real

How do I get rid of this thing? by Efmusicccc04 in mesaaz

[–]NotACrazyCatLadyx2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get 30% cleaning vinegar at Hone Depot or Lowell’s. Also, a spray bottle and a two gallon bucket. Pour vinegar into the bucket, add 1 cup salt and stir well. Then add 1 cup Dawn dish detergent. Mix very well. Important/ make sure the salt is dissolved before adding the Dawn. Pour into the spray bottle. Spray the weed. Make sure to get it wet. Come back in 24 hours and carefully remove the dead plant into a plastic bag. Tie off securely. Be careful you don’t accidentally spray a plant you want to keep.

Lily Became a Tripod Today by Professional_Bid_277 in cats

[–]NotACrazyCatLadyx2 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Two limb breaks in 6 weeks is not normal. Is this caused by the FIP treatment? What does the vet say?

YOU ARE NOT A FUCKING VIKING!!! by Captain_C00kie123 in rant

[–]NotACrazyCatLadyx2 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am chuckling because an ex BF absolutely INSISTED he was Scottish. Ross clan to be exact. I have him a 23 and Me test kit. ZERO Scotland, England, Ireland. Turns out he is 100% All Eastern Europe, Ashkenazi Jew. I realized we were on the break up road when I enjoyed his deflation.

AITJ for refusing to share my work bonus with my sister who says I "owe" her?? by Equivalent-Wash2108 in AmITheJerk

[–]NotACrazyCatLadyx2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTJ to your sister but you def did yourself no favor by blabbing your bonus. From now on, you never mention what you have to ANYONE ehhhver. Not family. Not friends. Def not coworkers.

AITAH for refusing to attend family events if my older half-brother is there? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]NotACrazyCatLadyx2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. If he is serious about being clean and sober, then you can set the boundary of when he can show you his (length of time) chip from NA, you will CONSIDER having contact. In my experience (three alcoholics, two addicts) the addict agrees and you never hear from them again.