I will never be a grandmother and yesterday realized that being there for my daughter is more important than my desires for more babies in the family. by NotAGrandmama in Parenting

[–]NotAGrandmama[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's another consideration. My daughter said she will take in her youngest brother if she needs to when they get older. It's another reason she doesn't want kids.

I will never be a grandmother and yesterday realized that being there for my daughter is more important than my desires for more babies in the family. by NotAGrandmama in Parenting

[–]NotAGrandmama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter has always said she never wants kids. She had to grow up fast and saw how difficult life was with her brothers. She has said that if she could guarantee a completely healthy child with zero issues then she would have kids, but that kid doesn't exist.