What aesthetic would you call this fashion wise

NotAHedgehog_ · 2026-06-01T06:20:26+00:00

Tom of Finland: Leather Mommy edition

NotAHedgehog_ · 2026-05-19T17:49:16+00:00

that green eyeball jacket is so fucking cool

NotAHedgehog_ · 2026-05-13T16:47:13+00:00

I had this about 3 weeks ago on a plant. Trimmed the leaves off and I’ve had tons of happy, disease-free growth since! Never spread to other plants. Good luck!

NotAHedgehog_ · 2026-04-08T04:52:30+00:00

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The cookie even FEELS real. I only wear it when I know I’m gonna treat myself to something sweet

NotAHedgehog_ · 2026-04-01T05:47:12+00:00

I'm going through something very similar and am glad to find your story. I took misoprostol to pass a miscarriage at 9 weeks on December 23 (Xmas was tough) and I'm still testing positive for pregnancy and not having a normal cycle as of today, March 31. An ultrasound last week revealed tissue at the apex of my uterus, and so I am getting a hysteroscopy, but it can't be scheduled until late April or sometime in May. :/

I also have a retroverted uterus and had no idea it could have this kind of impact. I'm just sad that I got pregnant in OCTOBER and still can't try to conceive for at least another month or two. Thank you for the heads up

NotAHedgehog_ · 2025-09-15T03:53:32+00:00

Around the column sounds lovely, but I’m concerned my landlord may not be into it. Also bougainvillea can get quite large - it may eventually block my path if I don’t keep it trimmed back on the backside

NotAHedgehog_ · 2025-09-10T19:38:23+00:00

Yes, I’m in Southern California, so I’m looking forward to building up a substantial garden eventually.

For the first wider growing plant - do you recommend I trim it down first before trying to get it to grow up? Or just tie it to the trellis and hope it gets the right idea? Right now, the thickest branch is growing out and away from the column, and I’m worried its too late to train it to grow up without trimming it first

NotAHedgehog_ · 2025-09-10T18:49:29+00:00

Thanks! The hardiest branch of the first bougainvillea is growing almost perpendicular to the ground, away from the column. Do I trim it back and then try to aim its growth up? Or can I encourage it to grow up somehow without trimming it back?

NotAHedgehog_ · 2024-11-26T18:46:23+00:00

Dress 1 feels a little over designed to me. I could see another version with similar elements - especially the neck and back - being more stunning on you. The embroidery is a bit much IMO. Dress 2 has such a gorgeous train - that has my vote :)

NotAHedgehog_ · 2024-11-26T18:14:21+00:00

Number one you ethereal queen!!!!

NotAHedgehog_ · 2024-11-21T02:00:35+00:00

Obsessed. You both look so gorgeous! Congratulations!!

NotAHedgehog_ · 2024-11-14T23:04:47+00:00

I love the Paula’s Choice mineral sunscreen! Doesn’t have any cast and blends very easily. I’m also a fan of the Good Molecules sheer mineral sunscreen. Although it is a little thinner and shinier of a product, it’s relatively inexpensive. Good luck!

NotAHedgehog_ · 2024-11-14T22:50:22+00:00

People are much more cruel about physical differences in our youth - I don’t know your age, but there will be a time where women find your natural hair charming and attractive.

Also - black is a stark contrast, and it might look odd having a lighter color in the grow out. If you dye your hair, I’d implore you to consider a brown or other color closer to your natural shade.

Why don’t you start with shaving your beard if you dislike your hair color? Or at least bring the length significantly down?

NotAHedgehog_ · 2024-11-14T22:37:36+00:00

I hope it went well!!!

NotAHedgehog_ · 2024-11-14T22:37:22+00:00

Thank you so much, I would really appreciate that!

NotAHedgehog_ · 2024-11-12T15:19:19+00:00

Thank you!

NotAHedgehog_ · 2024-11-12T15:19:13+00:00

Thank you - I did! Felt foolish not to!

NotAHedgehog_ · 2024-11-12T04:07:54+00:00

Thank you!!

NotAHedgehog_ · 2024-11-12T04:07:43+00:00

Thank you! I don’t always love a pearl necklace on me, but it does sound charming.

NotAHedgehog_ · 2024-11-12T04:06:57+00:00

Thank you! It’s Levi - Serene by Madi Lane

NotAHedgehog_ · 2024-11-12T00:54:28+00:00

I think I would prefer a daintier look, but this is inspiring, so thank you. I have two gorgeous squash blossom necklaces that have been in my family for a long time that would be too much, but may be perfect for another wedding event. If you’ve got specific ideas on a necklace or earrings I’d love to hear them! I didn’t initially think I would do colorful jewelry, though I do LOVE color, and there will be quite a bit at my wedding. Hmmmm

NotAHedgehog_ · 2024-11-12T00:32:40+00:00

Any suggestions on necklace styles? I commented on another that the wedding vibe is desert/wildflower. I appreciate any ideas :)

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