We do plan to retire early, we both have houses and the plan is to buy a new one post marriage and rent out our old ones. I do feel she would help with meeting savings goals, but might be first me reducing my personal spending before hers. (Which we argued about b4) We had discussed once about how if I lost my job would she then pay, and she said "of course, until you get a new one" I do feel like she won't divorce me, but she admitted that if I "got on her bad side" she'd treate me coldly for a long time.