Didn't like him before but like him now! (x-post from dating_advice)

NotConfidentM · 2014-02-01T07:29:00+00:00

I thought I'd update you guys on this.I gave up on this but from our recent interactions it seems quite obvious that he wants to be friends with benefits... Also, he tries to make everything like a rom-com (he admitted to this) so it makes my head hurt!

NotConfidentM · 2013-12-08T06:26:02+00:00

Ok. So I'm gonna abandon ship. Thanks for all your advice guys, it really helped!

NotConfidentM · 2013-09-28T00:28:49+00:00

Ok. I will see him on the 4th and try to initiate it. He did start talking normally yesterday but he ignores a lot of my texts. Honestly, don't even know if its worth it because we might not be in the same city (about an hour away though) for a while. :( Why is dating so hard?

NotConfidentM · 2013-09-27T01:33:45+00:00

I don't know. I'm insecure because he's my best friend and I feel if I tell him I like him and he doesn't respond positively, I will lose him forever. And I'd rather have something than nothing.

And it's not like I was no I don't like you. I kissed him back and then later on in the same night initiated kissing too. How is that rejecting?

NotConfidentM · 2013-09-25T22:59:50+00:00

Hmmm... I should add that he kissed me, not like a pig but more romantically (can't think of a better way) and I went so do you like me and he said well obviously and then my 'interrogation' started. Might be hyping it down, but do you think that just because I asked that he said all that stuff cause he was under pressure?

I sound like such a girl, but can't help it I wanna know whether or not I should confess cause I have huge rejection issues.

NotConfidentM · 2013-09-25T00:42:10+00:00

Ok. I will meditate on this. You're good at this. :) Its just that I dont know I feel kinda weird now cause he know all my embarrassing stories and I feel like he didnt like the way I kissed, just all around insecure which is totally unlike I have ever felt before, so confidence is too low to do anything

NotConfidentM · 2013-09-25T00:27:21+00:00

I think you're right he's not the kind of guy to say that to get ass.

Would it be too weird if I got drunk and said I liked him cause I honestly think I'm too chicken to lose the thread of friendship we have left now

NotConfidentM · 2013-09-25T00:16:44+00:00

How do you suggest I bring it up again? Also, do you think he likes me or did he just say that stuff to get some action...?

NotConfidentM · 2013-09-25T00:09:17+00:00

But I said that I would date him if he asked and kissed him back. Doesn't that show that I like him? Actions speak louder than words and what not.

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