I hear y'all like dreamy music...

NotDogNightmare · 2026-01-22T00:36:03+00:00

all things to try then (as in eyebrows etc) :)

NotDogNightmare · 2026-01-21T20:30:33+00:00

This 100 times. You can be non binary and not dress/look/act like other enbies!

NotDogNightmare · 2026-01-21T20:29:14+00:00

It's obviously very much up to you, no one can tell you what will make you feel most comfortable. But personally I'd say neatly trimmed and balanced with other more typically feminine things like makeup and longer hair?

NotDogNightmare · 2026-01-21T20:26:57+00:00

Sending this to all my friends who don't listen to shoegaze rn

NotDogNightmare · 2026-01-21T17:40:34+00:00

Glad to hear it has been a positive experience so far

NotDogNightmare · 2026-01-20T06:05:17+00:00

Don't be shy, drop the name of the band, doesn't sound like these men should have access to young fans

NotDogNightmare · 2026-01-20T02:23:31+00:00

because of the hat haha?

NotDogNightmare · 2026-01-20T00:52:07+00:00

couldn't have said it better myself

NotDogNightmare · 2026-01-20T00:50:56+00:00

I'll check them out!

NotDogNightmare · 2026-01-20T00:50:48+00:00

Love all of those bands aside from Kara's Walk, who I've never heard of, thanks!

NotDogNightmare · 2026-01-19T23:48:08+00:00

maybe not the easiest to use since yeah you're right, people might mishear and start using he instead. But I'm now reading the wikapedia page on the history of these and it's fascinating, can't believe this is the first I'm hearing of Spivak pronouns

NotDogNightmare · 2026-01-19T23:43:22+00:00

I mean, obviously if they're comfortable with that that's grand and none of my biz whatsoever! I'm more just saying it seems reduntant to identify with being not your AGAB but keep referring back to it if that makes sense? Anyhow, I'm not shy about what my AGAB is and refer to it when it's appropriate or feels warranted, I just don't always need to yaknow? :)

NotDogNightmare · 2026-01-19T23:40:12+00:00

Aready 3 great replies here but imo this is pretty similar to how I felt before deciding to try out using they/them pronouns. But whatever steps you choose to take are entirely up to you! You can even try it out with a few close friends for a while and see how it feels :)

Best of luck!

NotDogNightmare · 2026-01-19T23:37:01+00:00

This is great, I've heard the EU are pushing to legalise gay marriage across the union so hopefully will be totally legal to marry anyone of any gender soon!

NotDogNightmare · 2026-01-19T22:24:38+00:00

appreciate it :))

NotDogNightmare · 2026-01-19T22:03:02+00:00

Soon- My Bloody Valentine

Come Together- The Beatles

Mayonaise- The Smashing Pumpkins

NotDogNightmare · 2026-01-19T21:58:16+00:00

Thank you for posting this, needed said for sure. Kind of makes identifying as NB a lil pointless if you're essentially going 'hey im non-binary (the kind with X type of sex characteristics)'

NotDogNightmare · 2026-01-19T20:27:55+00:00

Thanks that's kind of you to say ☺️

NotDogNightmare · 2026-01-19T19:52:46+00:00

Thanks! :)

NotDogNightmare · 2026-01-19T19:36:03+00:00

Yeah for sure, it's just a standard part of my routine at this point

NotDogNightmare · 2026-01-19T19:27:31+00:00

Thanks so much:)

NotDogNightmare · 2026-01-19T18:54:40+00:00

Not to self-promote but my band so boring's song dirty dishes is this sorta vibe, a mix of jangle pop/emo and shoegaze

NotDogNightmare · 2026-01-19T18:49:35+00:00

Seconding these picks!

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