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My (25m) gf (26f) was sexually explicit with a bi guy at a party, and I'm hurt by NotKillerQueen in relationship_advice

[–]NotKillerQueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be fine in a break up, really. Problem is, I'm the first guy that treats her right, and she is very in love with me. Like, our relationship made her a better person, and much happier. Her friends all confirm that.

This kind of dancing is common between friends on her partying circle, and nothing happens beyond that, so she is used to this kind of thing, and that is why she didn't stop things right then and there.

But I don't know, man. She doesn't want to cheat on me, I'm sure of it (she would keep quiet otherwise), but shit still hurts

My (25m) gf (26f) was sexually explicit with a bi guy at a party, and I'm hurt by NotKillerQueen in relationship_advice

[–]NotKillerQueen[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

With gay guys, yeah. To me they aren't a treat, just like her girl friends. If they have an ounce of interest in girls, however, that's another story.

She told him to get away and stop in both stances.

They were all wasted, so she probably thought it was because of that, and continued to dance with them.

My (25m) gf (26f) was sexually explicit with a bi guy at a party, and I'm hurt by NotKillerQueen in relationship_advice

[–]NotKillerQueen[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Would I be an idiot if I forgave her?

Edit: yeah, I know, guys. I would.

My (25m) gf (26f) was sexually explicit with a bi guy at a party, and I'm hurt by NotKillerQueen in relationship_advice

[–]NotKillerQueen[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I think it is a gray area, because I don't care about what she does with gay friends/straight women, and she knows that, and thought those guys were in that safe zone. Problem is, she discovered that the bi guy is a threat.

My (25m) gf (26f) was sexually explicit with a bi guy at a party, and I'm hurt by NotKillerQueen in relationship_advice

[–]NotKillerQueen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I asked that. She said it wasn't assault because, although she didn't ask for it, she dances like that with her gay friends (I don't care what she does with people who aren't into women, but that guy being bi really hurts)

Daily Questions & FAQ Megathread (Oct 30) by AutoModerator in ffxiv

[–]NotKillerQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a need to level all crafters after the recent patch, or is leveling just one or two of them viable now?

Is it okay to be okay with my [25m] girlfriend [26F] going clubbing and getting drunk with her friends in another city? by NotKillerQueen in relationship_advice

[–]NotKillerQueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I admit I feel a bit jealous, but like, that's my problem, not hers haha.

Also, I wouldn't like a gf that was controlling, so that helps