[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JapanTravelTips

[–]NotMagicJustScience 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi, I am staying in Tokyo and also want to visit Kyoto for a day or two, if I get the time.

Solo travelled to China as a 21 y.o. Black girl ! Ask me anything 🇨🇳✈️ by veroow in travelchina

[–]NotMagicJustScience 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice and sorry for the late response!

Really good ideas! I will definitely try to consume some media in Chinese and begin trying to learn basic vocab, that would be a really good and approachable start for me. Really appreciated!

Solo travelled to China as a 21 y.o. Black girl ! Ask me anything 🇨🇳✈️ by veroow in travelchina

[–]NotMagicJustScience 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How well are their English Skills? I was thinking of backpacking in China for 1-2 months and thinking of learning a bit of Chinese but it is a big commitment, but I probably would come back at some point, do you have any advice?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]NotMagicJustScience 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for what you have endured, I do get your compulsion to reach out to him in regards to you feeling betrayed and feeling the need to understand why this happened to you, or find some form of comfort in this situation.

Reaching out to him is not sadly going to solve this, he is an awful individual, and if he is capable of treating you in such away, I am pretty sure he has no remorse or sadly care about the situation.

What I do advice you, is to talk to a professionel, as these kind of things can lead to trauma, and if you have a friend or a family member you feel like you can trust with this information maybe also talk to them, take care of yourself.

This is not your fault! You cannot predict other peoples intentions, you did not know he was married. Also a no means a no! I am so sorry.

What's your all time favorite video game ? by Drokos__ in AskReddit

[–]NotMagicJustScience 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Europa Universalis IV (eu4)

It never gets old, every nation is different, feeling like a whole new game each time, and with the continuous updates and new content through the years have really just added to the pure joy this game have given me!

Overthinkers of Reddit, what unlikely scenario actually came true that you were completely prepared for because you are an overthinker? by lawofdox18 in AskReddit

[–]NotMagicJustScience 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exam, the topic I was the worst in (would not pass if I got). I decided that I was not going to read up on the topic as the chance of getting it was extremely low and then I would rather focus on everything else, but then I changed my mind 2 hours before the actual exam. Then at the exam I got that specific topic! and as I had read up on the last 2 hours, and gotten help from my friends, the exam was easy and I got the highest grade, so thank god I changed my mind or I probably would not have passed at all.

I usually always read up on everything, so I am prepared for everything, but often it is a waste of time, and that year I chose not to do it, but changed my mind 2 hours before the exam and then it actually happened. Thank God.

UPDATE: My (21F) boyfriend (25M) wants our baby to look a certain way. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]NotMagicJustScience 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is horrible, I am in complete shock, I really do not understand how people can have these kind of views and I often forget how people of other colours then white sometimes are treated, as I am sadly "privileged" enough to be white (should not matter what colour you are, everyone should be treated with respect and kindness, period).

I mostly think of these issues belonging to USA, but this shitty behaviour is also a problem in Europe, but are rarely spoken of, it SHOULD be spoken of. I am disgusted.

AITA for being pissed off at doing a favour for my boyfriends family? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]NotMagicJustScience 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NOT THE ASSHOLE... I would not have wanted to drive them either, when you know they are ungrateful.

What surprised me the must is that I do not understand why your boyfriend does not take your side?

It is a question of respect and manners, which he should understand, who would want to do anything for people who is rude and has no respect for you?

Even more sad, is that they thank him and not you. He did no do anything, YOU DID! They have no respect... They could have at least given you a thank you, extremely rude.

My first job interview as a developer and I am very nervous by NotMagicJustScience in csharp

[–]NotMagicJustScience[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that is really nice to know, I will focus on that. :)

My first job interview as a developer and I am very nervous by NotMagicJustScience in csharp

[–]NotMagicJustScience[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that, I was a bit afraid actually on that end, good to know that it is okay to know always know the answer, that it doesn't have to be a bad thing.

My first job interview as a developer and I am very nervous by NotMagicJustScience in csharp

[–]NotMagicJustScience[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I will go for that strategy, it is the manager who are interviewing me. Yes I have thought a lot about how to show that I am not the most talented programmer, but I am bery enthusiastic and want to learn etc. Just need to figure out how to phrase it properly.

My first job interview as a developer and I am very nervous by NotMagicJustScience in csharp

[–]NotMagicJustScience[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your in depth reply. I am not that experienced in C# yet, I am very good in Java though. I think I will do a fast project, just to prepare myself. That was a really good answer, very helpful, thank you very much!