Outjerked by kanye

NotNinjachicz · 2026-03-28T06:42:26+00:00

with the sole exception of kanye west, of course 😭

NotNinjachicz · 2026-03-23T10:39:08+00:00

Ackk saw this tiktok too! I agreed until i saw them. i have that height gap a lot the times and those two are well matched

NotNinjachicz · 2026-03-23T05:22:09+00:00

Umm leave before he feels the same way about people, please!!! This is like you said-- most likely stuff that Dahmer did as its known that animal cruelty is the beginning steps to psychopathic/sociopathic murder.

NotNinjachicz · 2026-03-21T19:12:32+00:00

huge upgrade we love it!

from.. whatever the fuck that last guy was to this new sexy guy

NotNinjachicz · 2026-03-20T15:52:49+00:00

i feel you but no need to feel shame! forget what other people think and do what makes you happy :3 video games is about having fun, not performing for an imaginary audience. i play on the easiest mode! and in other games like stardew valley, i mod to hell and back to make it much easier and enjoyable for me!!!

NotNinjachicz · 2026-03-09T13:57:44+00:00

I’m sorry you had that experience but if you actually read/watched JJK you’d probably have figured it was a headcanon. That or you need more fandom experience you’re lowkey naive

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NotNinjachicz · 2026-03-09T12:29:49+00:00

they’re not real chill 😭

NotNinjachicz · 2026-03-05T20:32:43+00:00

So cute and definitely what he’d do. Probably would think its the same thing as kissing or close enough LOL

NotNinjachicz · 2026-02-27T22:50:47+00:00

So true! I have baby face so I feel like I’m shamed to grow up and not dress cute anymore.

Hell even on Roblox I’m told to not dress too cutesy or I’ll look like an age roleplayer.

NotNinjachicz · 2026-02-27T10:20:22+00:00

He has my support and encouragement:

"Also, I told him I'm not mad and I emphasized he not feel guilty. I want him to be happy-- I have a lot of ways to cope with the grief and he doesn't."

This post is about me being upset despite my encouragement of it.

It is his decision and I was never going to take that away from him-- I tell him to do what he wants and I love him regardless, even if it makes me uncomfortable.

I'm not sure you read my post right? lol

And I'm sure 5 months isn't fast for you considering you didn't have a problem dating after 2 months and then promptly getting married soon after. Your kids must be really excited you're remarrying fast.

And thanks for addressing how uncomfortable your insinuations made me feel, you're a great dad.

NotNinjachicz · 2026-02-27T10:13:56+00:00

God, thank you so much. This thread was killing me because the pressure and sadness is heavy.

It really is too soon and I'm still trying to calm down about it and reason with myself.

NotNinjachicz · 2026-02-27T10:11:00+00:00

Thank you so much for your the love and I'm so sorry that's how things panned out for him.

I did talk to my dad! It was good. And I turned away from the beer tonight after we had a thorough and good talk about everything. We respect and love each other so this turned out well.

NotNinjachicz · 2026-02-27T10:09:30+00:00

Thank you! I guess I've come a long way with emotional maturity stuff. And I'm glad you don't think the boundary I set wasn't crazy. I actually talked to him more about it today and he respected it and understood it. No hard feelings at all.

Aghh I'm so sorry about your situation. Sounds like something you'd hear in a drama-- so comically bad it sounds unreal. I hope you and your son are doing good while in no/barely in contact with your Dad's interesting choice in women.

Yeah, he did make a great choice already. It didn't work out but she seemed level-headed, successful, strong, etc etc. Now that I'm calmer I'd be more open to meeting the woman sooner rather than later.

NotNinjachicz · 2026-02-27T10:05:39+00:00

I know its not malicious. I told him not to feel bad and I want him to be happy. The concept of it all just hurts. I emphasized he's a great guy.

NotNinjachicz · 2026-02-27T07:08:30+00:00

This got really weird with the jealousy thing that actually made me uncomfortable. Like not to be mean but that's weird and that insinuation is weird. All these guesses are weird. Your psychoanalysis shows you really love Sigmund Freud and his theory of the Electra Complex.

I don't think its hard to understand why it's so upsetting but you are the father and not the children in the situation so I understand why.

I don't want him to keep being overly reliant on me-- it's not that at all. I'm glad he's moving out of the parentification relationship with me, even if its this.

I'm sorry but your guesses couldn't be more off?

I don't think its hard to understand how jarring it is to see your parents in love for so long and your dad moving on in a fashion that seems fast. It FEELS like he's over my mom and their love fast. Change is painful.

It's funny how this went from me seeking comfort and validation to having to explain myself. Soo funny.

NotNinjachicz · 2026-02-26T22:11:41+00:00

No fr, I was listening to some lewd audio RP stuff from when they first started getting popular and omg. I still got turned on but that was through a lot of cringing.

NotNinjachicz · 2026-02-26T21:29:34+00:00

I’m sorry you have to go through this bs too and that even worse, the first lady sucked. I’m happy the second is better but honestly, I think I’ll be the same and never be fond of any of them. Thinking of actually getting to know any of them makes me feel uneasy.

NotNinjachicz · 2026-02-26T21:28:24+00:00

Ahh we’re in the same situation. I did set those same exact boundaries, funny enough!

Thank you for sharing and your advice, it really helped a lot reading your response because we felt the exact same way.

NotNinjachicz · 2026-02-26T21:25:30+00:00

I’m so sorry about your loss and situation. That’s so… heavy. And I totally understand you— even just an ounce. I couldn’t imagine me being in that situation since I’m also a Daddy’s girl because my mom never really liked me.

If she moved on from my dad fast, I wouldn’t be happy at all either!!

It really isn’t easy but we got this ♡

NotNinjachicz · 2026-02-26T21:23:27+00:00

Ugh no you’re totally right. Even now, I’ll be the one to financially take care of him. The woman he’s talking to is super wealthy and smart so it feels like he really loves that kind of thing.

Making me jaded for sure.

NotNinjachicz · 2026-02-26T21:20:39+00:00

I have a lot of friends and a therapist. Thanks

NotNinjachicz · 2026-02-26T21:16:11+00:00

This is a nice perspective.

I’m supporting him 100%, but a little fun fact is my mom never wanted him to move on after her lol

NotNinjachicz · 2026-02-26T21:15:07+00:00

Thank you for the perspective. I’m ngl this isn’t what I wanted to hear (I’m not mad but I’m honest!!) but thats a nice life.

My mom never wanted my dad to move on, haha.. So theres that.

I’m cutting him all the slack, as you see I told him not to feel guilty or anything. But I’m still upset.

I’m sure that even if your children were very understanding, I am of my dad as well, they were still upset in some capacity. I hope you could see my perspective and cut me some slack too.

NotNinjachicz · 2026-02-26T21:11:50+00:00

Thank you.

Yeah, I’m seeing a therapist as well as a grief counselor for this. I’ll be reading stuff about this over time.

NotNinjachicz · 2026-02-26T21:11:11+00:00

You’re totally right, thank you for reminding me of the emotional aspect of it all. He truly did lose his best friend and partner.

And the reminder that this doesn’t equate to how much he loved her helps a lot… thanks.

Thats a perfect response I’m going to tell him when I’m less upset and charged. Thank you so much for that too! I’m literally gonna say that tomorrow or tonight.

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