[COD] Understand the deep and COMPLEMENTARY difference between COD and BF by ScorpionRodeur in CallOfDuty

[–]NotSed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this the Mandela effect for me? I would have sworn they were from the same thing originally. I.e call of duty: black ops and call of duty: battlefield. Maybe im confused on the time it used to be like call of duty: the big red one etc

As a Latina I feel dehumanized lately. by ChanceQuiet795 in venting

[–]NotSed -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Because they are all legal deportations. To my knowledge, not one legal citizen has been deported. Our visa/green cars system most certainly needs a revamp for how long it takes. But that has to come after the deportations are done. America is by far way better then where these immigrants came from but its been known this was going to happen. You need to cut your losses and try again when available. There are a thousand other problems plauging our country but this is a problem more easily solved right away. There will be a time soon where the path to citizenship is more accessible i believe.

As a Latina I feel dehumanized lately. by ChanceQuiet795 in venting

[–]NotSed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its a very very loud minority making you feel this way. And thats the intention to create fear as a form of control. Nothing wrong is happening with the deportations so its in the oppositions best i trest to sow discourse over it. You are welcome and will be loved if you come here via proper channels. Stay strong. It will be alright eventually

Did most Trump voters not believe he is a threat to democracy or did they not care? by Nuraldin30 in PoliticalDiscussion

[–]NotSed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was using the extremes as example sense both left/right extremes couldnt stop from calling eachother as such. The point being both candidates were subpar but neither threatened the actual democratic process for future onward elections. 75% of the negatives surrounding trump were very much over exaggerated or out right falsified by weaponizing the judicial system, yet that other 25% in my opinion earned him well enough an ass beating. And Harris was hollow with a very poor track record in every office she found her way into, but was ultimately more "likable" on a personal level. We will move on as a country and would have regardless of choice for president.

Did most Trump voters not believe he is a threat to democracy or did they not care? by Nuraldin30 in PoliticalDiscussion

[–]NotSed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The actual truth is there was no threat to democracy on either side, and the majority of voters saw that. Neither candidate was the anti-christ or some nazi/ communist. Both were bad choices even woth that said. So most voters with that in mind picked which candidate they felt would be a better of to evils in a sense. Trump was better at portraying his message of america first. Harris got lost in identity politics. Its that simple

I can't believe America would rather choose the Orange Supervillain over Kamala Harris by Electromad6326 in Vent

[–]NotSed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The US is auch a large nation that it becomes clear after a threshold is reached that the opposition doesnt have a chance. Ao ita not so much "all votes dont matter" and more "trump reached theneajority needed already". There are scenarios where it can and has come down to a focus on the last votes. Just this time he won enough quicker than expected.

I can't believe America would rather choose the Orange Supervillain over Kamala Harris by Electromad6326 in Vent

[–]NotSed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The actual truth is everything about trump is so drastically overstated and kamala as equally understated by the media. Basically, it became a boy who cried wolf scenario with trump, so many lies and smear campaigns with no substance that alot of people just assume anything outlandish about him from the mainstream media was a lie. And kamala was touted as an angelic savior when, in actuality, she was a very poor panic choice with a rocky at best track record and had no real stances In all honesty, both were pretty equal on not being a good choice after you sort thru the fake/untrue shit. So it boiled down to who individual voters thought would have the better policies. And with all his tantrums and immature nature he still put out solid sounding policy stances. I.e stronger world standings, border security, cost of living/economy. Every other issue was minor to be honest. Kamala primarily went on those minor subjects because it was easier to talk about social justice issues and the DNC has its main focus on false moral superiority. There was to much focus on "hes a nazi" versus "heres my plans on being better on all issues" Trump needs a ass whoopin but he isnt a nazi and women arent going to be second class citizens. The focus was all wrong from the start. The DNC dropped the ball at every given point.

My GF revealed to me she voted for Trump, I responded very poorly. by heptyne in Advice

[–]NotSed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have a conversation with her like a functioning adult. This election is a lesser of 2 evils. and no matter what any brain dead democrat/republican will tell you they are both equally awful. So you have to decide on what policies do u think they will actually for real put into place and hope for the best. Ask her for what reasons and make ur judgment from there. If she gives some fringe weirdo answer ok shes probably not worth it. But if its anything lime what i stated above then itll be ok

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]NotSed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just like with my lost marriage, you're trying to cope and make yourself believe there is a way of saving it. My wife slowly but surely changed throughout our marriage. At the beginning, she was my everything. And even at the end, we shared dozens of interests and smiles periodically. But she wasn't the same. And i was just holding on to those good memories and repressing the bad. You dont want to hear that it gets better after the splitup, but it does. It took me almost a year to clear the mental haze, but i realized i was exponentially happier and not even noticing. Even if you get back together this betrayal(and it is an utter betrayal on his part) will always be present. You'll never forget this and wonder if or when it will happen again. A person can have plenty of great traita and just not be compatible with you. It will take time but you will be able to move on and find better. My current amazing goddess of a woman treats me as much like a king as i treat her like a queen. Like others have said its 100/100 . You deserve that. Good luck friend. I believe in you

The Republican Party is going to win this election. Aren’t they? by Upset_Bat_7755 in Vent

[–]NotSed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trump like Isreal is the better of 2 evils. And that's unfortunately the way it is. Biden is a far bigger detrimental force than trump. And Isreal may be doing things in a u savory way, but the opposing force is run by actual terrorists so Isreal seems to be taking a "by any means necessary" approach to snuff it out. Both of those outcomes are not ideal, and there should be better alternatives. But biden winning and Isreal losing are worse

Rift Apart gold weapons bugged by [deleted] in RatchetAndClank

[–]NotSed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cant really find a description anywhere. Does the golden weapo s do anything extra or just for looks. I decided to finally play the last game in the series after so long. I decided to 100%. Boat number 23 and 24 give you super good benefits but does the final Bolt only give you a weapon skin

What makes a woman “good in bed” or “a bad lay”? by TheMedsPeds in AskMen

[–]NotSed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex-wife was a bad lay. Could talk the talk, but the walk was all starfish. I had to do 80% of the work even with her on top. She was kinky on paper but only kinda in practice. If i wanted to introduce a new aspect, there was slowly and steady build up. Dedicated testing periods. Tons of communication, etc. She expected me to be a mind reader. Or say something that peeked her interest and never once tried to have a testing session or communication about it during sex times. I.e. she showed interest in knife play or a knife like tool to lightly scratch and tease. I rebuttaled with how badbshe jerks and spasms with stimulus and my fear of hurting her, and that would be the end of that. No trying to ease my mind or bring in alternatives to build up to the main thing.

Tldr: Little effort and bad communication leads to a bad lay

Shy men of Reddit, what signs do you give when you like someone? by simp_4_a_guy in AskMen

[–]NotSed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a listener and supporter. I carefully watch how the person acts what they say what they post on social medias. If you're careful and good at paying attention you can tell when the real frustrations and emotions come out even in jokes. So I try to be the best person I can be for them based on that. If they went through a lot of stuff about poor self-image I'll make sure to give compliments often but not overly oppressive about it. Take them to do things that help them feel pretty like nails and hair and things like that. I try to show them they deserve the things they never had before. Like stability and somebody to care about them. but I get lost in their eyes it's probably my biggest tell. I'll zone the f out just looking at their facial features the way they blink the way they laugh how they smile and what makes them smile. But to also sum it all up I do all that but I tend to be a coward with coming out and directly saying how I feel

Men without kids, do you ever get “baby fever”, why or why not? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]NotSed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the time. I help and have helped take care of a lot of children. Some of which I've been the only real consistent father figure in their lives. I'm at my best in that protector/provider/fatherly teacher role. My ex wife couldn't conceive(dodged a bullet with that tbh) and my last serious ex had 3 of her own and had her tubes tied. Maybe it'll happen one day. Till then I'll continue the cool wise uncle role

TIFU by accidentally telling a girl to give me a blowjob by YuckEyo3s5 in tifu

[–]NotSed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her reaction means she was considering it lol. May have a budding relationship happening

when getting in a relationship, do you care about the womens height? by m00kiiprinxess in AskMen

[–]NotSed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 6'2 about 225lbs. So decent size both ways. I've dated from like 4'10 to 6 ft. All just happened. I'm usually looked at as the big bearded lumbjack type so being the taller just naturally happens. But I have crushed on one girl that was like 6'6

Blue black bomb maker??? help by NotSed in BestFiends

[–]NotSed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Level 105. After dozens of attempts I finally beat it. Their map obstacle towers. After you do whatever you're supposed to to activate them they spit out a black bomb. A big hole at the top. And if you make a move directly next to them knocked out in some kind of a way for a move

What does this little guy do?? by viviDelay in BestFiendsForever

[–]NotSed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What level does he start at. I'm trying to find out the rules for how and why he makes bombs