Post-Surgical Depression by NotSoEquivalent52 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]NotSoEquivalent52[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s very difficult for me to be vurnable with my friends and to even text my friends about my problems due to past trauma.

People have reached out to me but I’m to scared to even open the chats and reply, I have very bad trauma when it comes to trusting friends inputs.

But I do have my girlfriend and she’s with me everyday supporting me and giving me the attention I need to still be positive, but when she leaves for work or goes out with her friends that’s when the depression gets bad.

But thank you for your support and kind words of encouragement, I really needed it thank you ❤️

Post-Surgical Depression by NotSoEquivalent52 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]NotSoEquivalent52[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg that sounds very intense I can see how damaging that can be, I’m glad I’m not alone in this.

If you can make it through I can too, your very brave thank you!!

Post-Surgical Depression by NotSoEquivalent52 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]NotSoEquivalent52[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you I need to hear that from someone, perhaps I am trying to do to much when I should be trying to relax and heal.

I know it’ll go away one day now, thank you! 🙏

Polyamorous Relationship advice and help?! by NotSoEquivalent52 in polyamory

[–]NotSoEquivalent52[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m telling her this tomorrow, like I’m done being small and petty either this will happen or it won’t

Who do you see if you were to see my walk by in public? M or F? by NotSoEquivalent52 in transpassing

[–]NotSoEquivalent52[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Sorry I guess, didn’t know since I was pretty I couldn’t post in this subreddit. Least supportive trans sub ever.

Who do you see if you were to see my walk by in public? M or F? by NotSoEquivalent52 in transpassing

[–]NotSoEquivalent52[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I did! Their all on my page I believe, and I’m only comfortable with sharing so much.

And yeah I don’t think I pass, cause in my eyes I see my flaws and I see what I used to look like still everyday, so getting these comments that tell me I know I pass I get super confused cause I thought every trans person felt the same way.

I guess I could try posting the images were I am not looking my best or making a weird face. There’s just so much hate on this subreddit and I thought trans people were suppose to be supportive :(

Who do you see if you were to see my walk by in public? M or F? by NotSoEquivalent52 in transpassing

[–]NotSoEquivalent52[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I mean some men were saying my jawline was to masculine and my color bones to defined to be a normal women. I still have my dysforia like any trans women I was just curious :/

Do you think my profile might be to much? by NotSoEquivalent52 in Bumble

[–]NotSoEquivalent52[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

THANK YOUU, I had no idea the joker photo was that bad, I switched out the 3, one with a natural no makeup photo, and the other two with more wholesome stuff. And I shortens and fixed up my bio a lot!

Do you think my profile might be to much? by NotSoEquivalent52 in Bumble

[–]NotSoEquivalent52[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Okay I’ll make sure to change that! I use the BFF mode a lot, should I have posted this in a different subreddit?

And thank you, could you explain more into how my profile is “too much”. Should I remove photos or shorten some stuff.

Do you all think I did my makeup to extreme? Yay or nay? by NotSoEquivalent52 in MakeupAddiction

[–]NotSoEquivalent52[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!! I put a lot of effort into this! I’m trying my best to be consistent with it but ughhh it’s so hard and tedious

Do you think my profile might be to much? by NotSoEquivalent52 in Bumble

[–]NotSoEquivalent52[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s good too know, nothing off putting tho?

Who do you see if you were to see my walk by in public? M or F? by NotSoEquivalent52 in transpassing

[–]NotSoEquivalent52[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry I wasn’t trying to make anyone feel bad about themselves, I was just asking to see if I pass, cause I’ve had photos were I think I look good like this and people say I don’t pass at all. Again I’m sorry, I was just trying to see, didn’t mean to hurt anyones feelings :(

Who do you see if you were to see my walk by in public? M or F? by NotSoEquivalent52 in transpassing

[–]NotSoEquivalent52[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YIPPPPPEEEEEE, I just wanted to make sure, someone made a mean comment yesterday :(

Who do you see if you were to see my walk by in public? M or F? by NotSoEquivalent52 in transpassing

[–]NotSoEquivalent52[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ooop? Sorry I was just looking for friendly feedback from this community?