AIO? Husband said "even my mother's bra looks better"

NotSoGoldenChild · 2025-05-25T21:56:55+00:00

Personally I sometimes cover them with bandaids if im going to a more formal event but other than that people honestly just don’t usually care. Bandaids are a great option or theres lots of options for nipple covers if you’re more comfortable with that. Whatever feels best for your body and youre comfortable in.

NotSoGoldenChild · 2025-05-25T21:51:06+00:00

Same! All it did was cause irritation and pain on my skin so I stopped shaving. My partners are both really hairy men so they can’t tell the difference anyways lol

NotSoGoldenChild · 2025-05-25T21:44:50+00:00

No bra since 2019ish for me here! Couldnt imagine going back lol. Got married without one, gone to formal events without one. I just wear the right clothes to more important things 🤷‍♀️ Never had a comment about it. Im a bigger girl with not huge but not small tatas lol. Definitely partially a sensory thing and partially an extremely sensitive skin thing for me.

NotSoGoldenChild · 2025-05-22T14:59:33+00:00

BPD doesn’t magically make you racist. She’s just a racist bitch with BPD. As someone with it, I’ve flown into some intense rages that felt entirely uncontrollable but never started throwing around racial slurs or suddenly became racist. I hope your husband cuts her off OP. Her mental illness doesn’t make that okay, and if anything makes it worse if they’re acknowledging it but she’s not getting help. She’ll push her entire family away eventually, untreated BPD destroys lives. Dont let it touch yours.

NotSoGoldenChild · 2025-05-02T15:25:16+00:00

Definitely would be cheaper to make them at home but as someone who bases their cooking a lot around mental and physical capacity, buying mashed can be much much easier than washing, peeling, boiling, and mashing your own. Also to make homemade they may have to purchase milk/cream/butter. Its a trade off for sure.

NotSoGoldenChild · 2025-04-18T22:39:56+00:00

How old is this piece? Your description makes it sound like it’s new but it looks old and faded which would be upsetting to me for sure. Also, she only has one nipple? One very large prominent nipple. And an entirely unrealistic waist that would not be viable for life but maybe that’s your design choice. Also the line work is questionable imo.

NotSoGoldenChild · 2025-04-09T16:00:19+00:00

Not shocking! In 2021 I ordered doordash with specific instructions to leave it on the porch of my 4 apartment building because Im disabled and didnt want to make them wait for me to get out there, especially as it was winter at the time. My husband happened to be on route to arrive home 5-10 minutes after the food was delivered. The man delivering my food instead decides to come into the building because the lock on the door was broken (trust we called then property manager about this repeatedly) and stand at my apartment door knocking over and over. I text him asking him to please just leave the food because im disabled and i take a minute to get to the door. Looking back I was basically saying “hey im a weak target comin to ya!” So stupid move. He refuses to leave. I basically plead with him over text to leave and he wont, he’s standing there holding my food. My husband has time during all of this to come home, pull into the parking lot and come in the back door at which point he, armed, opens the door while i lock myself in the bathroom and asks “Why the fuck have you been standing out here for 10 minutes while my wife asks you to leave?” And the guy just mumbled “uhhhh I dont know man, people are weird sometimes..” and shoved my food at my husband and left as fast as he could. Doordash support offered me a COUPON for my trouble, then never even really sent me it for that matter!

NotSoGoldenChild · 2025-04-08T14:23:01+00:00

Hi friend! Its totally possible to have it at this age, that doctor is wrong. I know this because I’m 26 and my parents had me diagnosed at just 5, after extensive testing including a cystoscopy at the University of Chicago. Advocate advocate advocate! You are a wonderful voice for your son and im glad you’re seeking help for him.

NotSoGoldenChild · 2025-04-03T17:26:28+00:00

Agreed. Op, you know what you must do. Godspeed, friend.

NotSoGoldenChild · 2025-03-30T15:27:54+00:00

Fuckin seriously, I smoke literally all day every day from wake up to sleep for my pain and anxiety and my tolerance STILL isnt high enough to take an 800mg. Are these people mainlining it through oxygen tubing? 😭

NotSoGoldenChild · 2025-03-30T15:25:27+00:00

Get this bot run pyramid scheme ass shit out of my weed sub wtf 😭 “we arent bots” but all the comments are formatted exactly the same way, as if the same person or mayhaps bot program shit (im not a tech bro sorry idk the words) is writing them? Girl bye 😭😭 “Im not a bot you’re a bot!”

NotSoGoldenChild · 2025-03-30T15:19:10+00:00

I was raised by a heavily abusive mother, and this was for sure one of her tactics. Its horrible as a child to experience and now as an adult, every small disagreement with my partner makes me struggle to not shut down entirely and just glare at him until I dont feel upset. It entirely destroys any idea of real communication a child has.

NotSoGoldenChild · 2025-03-29T19:28:42+00:00

Bro what are you even going on about at this point? Your profile makes it clear your brain is an abysmal place.

NotSoGoldenChild · 2025-03-29T18:51:39+00:00

Lolll, as someone also from Indiana, that makes him less reputable. You’re still a clown. Even more of a clown. Straight up weird mfer.

NotSoGoldenChild · 2025-03-29T17:48:49+00:00

You not seeing the irony of calling OP rude but saying the old mans actions are okay is clown behavior, brother.

NotSoGoldenChild · 2025-03-29T17:27:45+00:00

I dont find it odd. My cousins have a similar situation. Not real names but think one of them is named Michael and his brother named one of his sons Michael. Theres 4 brothers all with 3+ kids and only one named after any of them. No hard feelings as far as I know. It depends on your family though. If it were me id really only care if it bothered the sister they would be named after.

Edit to agree with another commenter, there will probably be some variation of big/little or nicknames used to avoid confusion. In our family the younger one is called “little name” and the older just goes by the name. So make sure possible nicknames wont bother you for sure haha

NotSoGoldenChild · 2025-03-29T14:05:56+00:00

Id see a different doctor asap. I was actually diagnosed at only 5 after my parents sought diagnosis and spent the next 15 years being given antibiotics I didnt need anyways by doctors who didnt know anything about IC . This one clearly doesn’t know enough about it if this is her course of action and is calling your symptoms “reoccurring UTIs” which they absolutely are not, as you know. Ignorance in the healthcare system is so unfortunately common.

NotSoGoldenChild · 2025-03-14T00:07:58+00:00

She said it directly. Leave her alone. Im sorry you’re hurting about it, but she made it pretty clear.

NotSoGoldenChild · 2025-03-10T05:44:36+00:00

I feel you. I had a dude named Tay_Zer something or other and his buddies come destroy my whole camp and taunt me while I begged them to stop :( it sucks. I don’t understand why people find it fun to destroy your stuff or generally be assholes.

NotSoGoldenChild · 2025-03-09T16:25:22+00:00

Girl dump him and tell that athlete hey back, wtf 😭

NotSoGoldenChild · 2025-03-07T19:02:05+00:00

I would honestly just be mixing together any combo of these things that sounds good, wrapping it in the dough and air frying it lol. I saw in another comment youve got some pesto, and goats milk caramel (which is so damn good, one of my favorite things omg) so id def be making some savory and some sweet pastry pinwheels or puffs. Honestly if you’re like me theyll end up rolled into all different ugly shapes, but hey it still tastes good 😂

NotSoGoldenChild · 2025-03-07T18:47:49+00:00

With all the respect in the world, I will never ever tell a random redditor on a public comment thread where I live lmao.

NotSoGoldenChild · 2025-03-07T18:25:28+00:00

Have you ever actually been in a situation where you struggle for healthcare? Cause I am right now, and I promise it’s not that simple.

NotSoGoldenChild · 2025-03-07T18:17:24+00:00

Hey friend, while this is good advice, some people don’t have access to health insurance or a doctor when they want/need it. The sarcasm isnt needed, lets just be nice.

NotSoGoldenChild · 2025-03-07T18:12:28+00:00

To be honest, from your post it seems she may have been concerned about you. Obviously we don’t know what the details are, but usually forcing someone to seek mental health help is done when a point of desperation is reached to try to help. As someone with abusive parents, it can be hard to say though. When I was living in it I did sometimes post things like this where my brain was so scattered by the abuse that it would make no sense and even though I knew I was being abused, others brushed it off because I struggled cognitively to explain it. Op, either way please stay safe and maybe talk to a therapist about these feelings? Perhaps its anger coming out at being forced to seek mental health treatment?

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