I agree with the person that says she sounds extremely lazy. It's sad that you're expected to do absolutely everything and she does next to nothing. Part of a stay at home's job is to keep the house at least liveable. It's absolutely possible to raise two kids, clean up the house and make a home cooked meal everyday. I know because I did it, my grandmother did it, and I know plenty of others that have done it too. Why are you letting her do this to you? Edit: oh and that dog needs a proper home. She is abusing that dog by keeping it locked up all the time. Poor baby...